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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having a debate with a couple and I just want others opinions.
1. What constitutes as sex between 2 women?
2. Are you classed as bisexual if you allow someone of same sex give you oral and nothing else? And I don't mean meeting someone of same sex on their own |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Having a debate with a couple and I just want others opinions.
1. What constitutes as sex between 2 women?
2. Are you classed as bisexual if you allow someone of same sex give you oral and nothing else? And I don't mean meeting someone of same sex on their own"
1. Whatever they choose to do, but would involve some kind of physical interaction. Doesn't have to mean breaking out the 14" strap-on or fisting eachother to oblivion.
2. One of two options here. Bi-curious if its your first time. Bisexuality if you do it regularly. Fab straight if you're only doing it because you can't find a woman to suck you off.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If a woman ONLY wants to receive oral sex from a woman, nothing else and nothing more. Does that mean she is bisexual?
She will give, receive and have actual sex with a man?
Or would she have to scissor, finger, give oral sex and everything else that women do with each other, to be classed as bisexual?
Same with men. If he only receives oral sex from a man, but will do everything with a woman. Does that mean he is bisexual?
Or does he have to give oral to a man, have sex with etc, to be classed as bisexual? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look at it other way if someone 100% straight they would not want oral or even touching off someone same sex
I used to meet a couple she wanted to try double entry one pussy one anal. He was so straight even that was too close for him. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Look at it other way if someone 100% straight they would not want oral or even touching off someone same sex
I used to meet a couple she wanted to try double entry one pussy one anal. He was so straight even that was too close for him. "
That tells me he was uncomfortable around other men and it was her that wanted the 3way, not him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also I’d say sexuality mostly about sexual attraction and desire? I don’t think we need to worry too much about what makes someone gay or bi or not. If they’re into people of the same sex then they’re probably a sexuality other than straight. We don’t need to figure out where specifically the line is |
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They define their own sexuality depending on how they feel romantically or sexually inclined to carry on having meetings with same sex partners.
If it is a spectrum, then they decide how close they are from straight to gay.
Plenty of people have an opinion on what it is to be gay, straight or bisexual but only the person will truly know (or even not know) what they feel deep down inside.  |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
Kinsey Scale: monosexuals and bisexuals.
Kinsey scores range from 0 (exclusively heterosexual) to 3 (equal attraction to both sexes) to 6 (exclusively homosexual). Scores of 0 and 6 are usually considered monosexual, and 1 to 5 nonmonosexual. Scores of 2 to 4 are generally accepted to comprise the bisexual range of the Kinsey scale. |
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
just somewhere around here |
". One of two options here. Bi-curious if its your first time. Bisexuality if you do it regularly. Fab straight if you're only doing it because you can't find a woman to suck you off.
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Excellent answer 
Or you'll only suck the guy off to get to the girl
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By *zlakMan
over a year ago
Norwich |
". One of two options here. Bi-curious if its your first time. Bisexuality if you do it regularly. Fab straight if you're only doing it because you can't find a woman to suck you off.
Excellent answer
Or you'll only suck the guy off to get to the girl
Mr R"
100% correct!! Lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a scientifically proven, infallible test.
Buy a donut.
If you put your finger in the hole you’re straight.
If you didn’t buy a ring donut and went for the pink jammie you’re gay. Very.
If you got a jam donut you’re in a different shop as they don’t sell them where I’m referring to. |
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If they are only interested in women, Gay
If attracted to both sexes, bi
If they are primarily attracted to one sex. Bi- curious or hetro-flexible
If they are attracted to someone and gender plays no part. Happy.
Why does it matter. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
It's actually very simple, if you indulge in sex with the same gender you are gay or bisexual. Your sexuality has nothing to do with romantic feelings, it's about who you have sex with. I don't understand why people are so against the description, there's no need to hide from it, thankfully it's perfectly acceptable these days. |
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Sometimes it's a good read of all the comments. Makes a good chat and debate etc
Then some folk try and shut em down with comments like
Who cares what labels etc
Can't we just chat n debate about stuff on here
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"If a woman ONLY wants to receive oral sex from a woman, nothing else and nothing more. Does that mean she is bisexual?
She will give, receive and have actual sex with a man?
Or would she have to scissor, finger, give oral sex and everything else that women do with each other, to be classed as bisexual?
Same with men. If he only receives oral sex from a man, but will do everything with a woman. Does that mean he is bisexual?
Or does he have to give oral to a man, have sex with etc, to be classed as bisexual?"
Defining by sex act is silly imo. What if i dont like oral from a guy , does that mean i can’t be straight anymore because i dont partake in the full suite of available activities? |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"It's actually very simple, if you indulge in sex with the same gender you are gay or bisexual. Your sexuality has nothing to do with romantic feelings, it's about who you have sex with. I don't understand why people are so against the description, there's no need to hide from it, thankfully it's perfectly acceptable these days. "
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"There is a scientifically proven, infallible test.
Buy a donut.
If you put your finger in the hole you’re straight.
If you didn’t buy a ring donut and went for the pink jammie you’re gay. Very.
If you got a jam donut you’re in a different shop as they don’t sell them where I’m referring to. "
Oh, I love the pink jammie! I like this test. |
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"Having a debate with a couple and I just want others opinions.
1. What constitutes as sex between 2 women?
2. Are you classed as bisexual if you allow someone of same sex give you oral and nothing else? And I don't mean meeting someone of same sex on their own"
1. Question for the bi and gay women
2. Yes |
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"Having a debate with a couple and I just want others opinions.
1. What constitutes as sex between 2 women?
2. Are you classed as bisexual if you allow someone of same sex give you oral and nothing else? And I don't mean meeting someone of same sex on their own"
1- I'd say any sexual act.
2- no it doesn't, could be bicurious wants to try, could be pansexual, could be hetro flexible or one of the other variations that wouldn't include bi.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's actually very simple, if you indulge in sex with the same gender you are gay or bisexual. Your sexuality has nothing to do with romantic feelings, it's about who you have sex with. I don't understand why people are so against the description, there's no need to hide from it, thankfully it's perfectly acceptable these days. "
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No. Many involved in the sex industry have sex with others without any attraction. You need sexual or romantic attraction to others in specific genders, to qualify.
We're too hung up on labels and definitions. Go have sex and enjoy it |
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"Are you classed as bisexual if you allow someone of same sex give you oral and nothing else? And I don't mean meeting someone of same sex on their own"
The wording here confuses me. Classed by whom? And what do you mean by 'allow'?
Meeting someone alone or with others is completely irrelevant. Are you sexually attracted towards people of the same sex? Or excited by the thought of sex with them? Even if just in certain circumstances?
If so, you might be gay, bisexual, bi-curious, hetero-flexible, pansexual etc. Or you might not be. |
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"It's actually very simple, if you indulge in sex with the same gender you are gay or bisexual. Your sexuality has nothing to do with romantic feelings, it's about who you have sex with."
I don't think that's strictly true. I could be wrong, but I think it's more about who you are sexually attracted to (not who you actually have sex with).
Not trying to be pedantic, but if your definition was correct it would mean that those teens who have not yet come out of the closet are not gay because they are not yet having sex with people of the same gender. |
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"Having a debate with a couple and I just want others opinions.
1. What constitutes as sex between 2 women?
2. Are you classed as bisexual if you allow someone of same sex give you oral and nothing else? And I don't mean meeting someone of same sex on their own"
Oooh! No WAY does number 2 count. Straight as an arrow, mate. Genuine FACT. |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
For us..
Bisexuality is an attraction to both sexes.
To clarify someone who would consider being romantically involved with either, rather than nsa fun.
I am and have, D not and won't.
That seems to be an unpopular opinion, but ours and we won't argue about it (although just Google, doesn't mention sexual acts as a defining factor)
Mrs x
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
"It's actually very simple, if you indulge in sex with the same gender you are gay or bisexual. Your sexuality has nothing to do with romantic feelings, it's about who you have sex with.
I don't think that's strictly true. I could be wrong, but I think it's more about who you are sexually attracted to (not who you actually have sex with).
Not trying to be pedantic, but if your definition was correct it would mean that those teens who have not yet come out of the closet are not gay because they are not yet having sex with people of the same gender."
Valid point! |
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By *ee04Man
over a year ago
Essex |
I have had sex with men and women and enjoyed both.
I have bi on my profile as feel this best describes me.
The thing that amazes me is the amount of winks, fabs and messages I get from guys who have straight on their profile.
Why would a “straight” guy message or fab pics of my cock.
To me if you have sexual contact with a person of the same sex knowingly you are not hetro/straight. |
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"I have had sex with men and women and enjoyed both.
I have bi on my profile as feel this best describes me.
The thing that amazes me is the amount of winks, fabs and messages I get from guys who have straight on their profile.
Why would a “straight” guy message or fab pics of my cock.
To me if you have sexual contact with a person of the same sex knowingly you are not hetro/straight. "
What about unknowingly? |
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"I have had sex with men and women and enjoyed both.
I have bi on my profile as feel this best describes me.
The thing that amazes me is the amount of winks, fabs and messages I get from guys who have straight on their profile.
Why would a “straight” guy message or fab pics of my cock.
To me if you have sexual contact with a person of the same sex knowingly you are not hetro/straight. "
That's an oldie.
IMO it's because there is a prejudice against guys who are bi from some women so guys prefer not to publicize the fact they like a bit of cock in case it reduces their chances of meeting females.
Sexuality is about what you are attracted to. I'm not attracted to men but not scared of a willy in close proximity either. It's just a bit of fun eh?  |
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Oh dear. I am sure I am not the only one who thinks these sort of threads only ever create controversy, and strange comments like why did so and so fab my new pic, I was only expecting a lovely brunette,38DD to do so. He must be some sort of deviant. Give me strength  |
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