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Feeling like I've let myself down
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Got one of those days where I just feel like I've let myself down. Whenever I plan on doing something later in the month, either something comes up or I end up screwing things up and feel annoyed with myself about it.
Right now, I just feel really down with myself and just don't what to do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't be so hard on yourself. Where there is a new day you will have another opportunity. Motivation may be lacking and discipline may be slipping, but there is always time to turn it around. Forgive yourself and start again. |
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Things coming up - it happens. Don't sweat it. And if people don't understand that life can sometimes get in the way, that's on them.
You "screwing up" - first off, are you? But assuming you are, what are you doing and can you change your behaviour? I know I have nearly screwed stuff by being doubting myself and being crap with messages. I try to do better (not always successfully it has to be said). |
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"Life is about decisions try and live your life to live rather than money and work, life is shorter than you think  "
When it comes to money, there have been times when I realise I had overspent and feel so stupid about it. I would end up hating myself as it means having to miss out for the rest of the month. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Life is about decisions try and live your life to live rather than money and work, life is shorter than you think
When it comes to money, there have been times when I realise I had overspent and feel so stupid about it. I would end up hating myself as it means having to miss out for the rest of the month."
well exactly stay in control |
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"Life is about decisions try and live your life to live rather than money and work, life is shorter than you think
When it comes to money, there have been times when I realise I had overspent and feel so stupid about it. I would end up hating myself as it means having to miss out for the rest of the month.well exactly stay in control "
I will have to try and watch how I spend in future as it makes me feel down that I would miss going out and being with friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got one of those days where I just feel like I've let myself down. Whenever I plan on doing something later in the month, either something comes up or I end up screwing things up and feel annoyed with myself about it.
Right now, I just feel really down with myself and just don't what to do. "
Try not to be as hard on yourself. We all have off days and today is unfortunately yours. Maybe don't plan ahead until you get yourself sorted and just take things one day at a time. Take care. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Life is about decisions try and live your life to live rather than money and work, life is shorter than you think
When it comes to money, there have been times when I realise I had overspent and feel so stupid about it. I would end up hating myself as it means having to miss out for the rest of the month.well exactly stay in control
I will have to try and watch how I spend in future as it makes me feel down that I would miss going out and being with friends."
exactly budget or find a way of earning extra when you are working |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"Got one of those days where I just feel like I've let myself down. Whenever I plan on doing something later in the month, either something comes up or I end up screwing things up and feel annoyed with myself about it.
Right now, I just feel really down with myself and just don't what to do. "
Get off the cross, your sins are forgiven. Now forgive yourself and keep moving. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve always worked on the basis of make sure rent/mortgage is paid as keep roof over your head. Also utilities and food then what’s left is pocket money to spend.
Just a wee bit of diligence and less impulse. |
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"Got one of those days where I just feel like I've let myself down. Whenever I plan on doing something later in the month, either something comes up or I end up screwing things up and feel annoyed with myself about it.
Right now, I just feel really down with myself and just don't what to do. "
Oh hugs .. it's horrible feeling like that, but you need to try and be kind to yourself and realise that sometimes things come up that are out of your control. Chat with a friend, do something that you enjoy and take time just for yourself x |
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