I think chastity adds a really exciting element but I struggle to fit into cages. The smaller cages look better but so far I've only got into larger ones. When you want to look femme, a big cock isn't really the look I'm going for. |
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good "
One option might be to try using some ball weights first for a while, I love the feeling of them and I think they helped to stretch my scrotum making 24/7 Chasity as close to a pleasure as it can be.
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"Can someone please tell me what the appeal is ?"
The appeal is that I have control of his fun, he doesn't get a say as he's locked and I keep the key
Try mancage, they have a few different types and sizes. He started on rubber ones now his is the full plastic one to make sure he can't play or feel anything. Depends what type of feeling going for.
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By *t0600Man
over a year ago
elvedon |
"Can someone please tell me what the appeal is ?
The appeal is that I have control of his fun, he doesn't get a say as he's locked and I keep the key
Try mancage, they have a few different types and sizes. He started on rubber ones now his is the full plastic one to make sure he can't play or feel anything. Depends what type of feeling going for.
Lxx"
I’m sure that would have a negative effect on me . Someone says if you get hard it hurts ? |
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"I’m sure that would have a negative effect on me . Someone says if you get hard it hurts ? "
It is all about power exchange and control it is far more mental than physical, but yes it is very constricting when you get hard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you’re struggling for a device that fits you can (carefully) use a drawstring bag until you find a good cage that fits well
It’s an idea a previous sub of mine came up with, it was good but the stings worried me. I made him carry a small pair of scissors in case of emergency |
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"Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good "
I have found that by having a soak on a hot bath makes my balls hang lower and makes it so much easier to get them through the ring. |
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"Can someone please tell me what the appeal is ?"
Depends on the person. Part of it is about denial of senses. You're mind becomes more of an erogenous zone when you're in chastity.
For me it's an every now and then thing. I like it as part of a submissive femme outfit. If I'm in that mood and bottoming then I want my cock out of the picture.
The general kinkyness of it too is a turn on. On your back watching the key bounce around someone's neck while they fuck you. Yes please.  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good "
This might sound a bit ‘out there’ but have thought about trying a bit of local honey ? |
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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago
Durham |
"Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good "
Are you using metal or silicone? Might be worth swapping over.
This guide is helpful:
https://www.uberkinky.com/us/essential-guides/chastity-guides/beginners-guide-to-male-chastity.html |
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"Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good
This might sound a bit ‘out there’ but have thought about trying a bit of local honey ? "
No, vaseline!! |
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"Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good
This might sound a bit ‘out there’ but have thought about trying a bit of local honey ?
No, vaseline!!"
I lube the whole thing up. |
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