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Number of message before social ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never 10, some of my messages on here and other places have exceeded well over 300,400,500,600..... etc etc...
If you end up chatting every day for quite some time it's easily done. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It depends. Normally it's a lot. Into the hundreds probably because I'm a bit of a talker. But recently I met someone after less than fifty messages were exchanged and it's going brilliantly.
So it varies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dread to think.
I hop off here early doors as, well, ya know.
After that, plenty of texting, calls, video chats blah blah blah.
Some happen sooner, others later, depends on the quality of the connection and the logistics to be fair. |
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"How many messages do you exchange from first contact until you agree a social ?
With verified people we reckon less than 10 each way. "
Yep couple to couple 10 or so. Man to lady probably a few more. The longer it goes the less likely something going to happen. |
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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago
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On my single profile I chat for quite a while before I meet someone. The only time I didn't it was the worst and scariest meet I've had on here. So now when I am meeting new people I will chat for a good while and doing that has worked for me. It's fine if someone doesn't want to they can move on to someone else.
And it would be the same on this profile as well. I have no interest in rushing to meet people off here.Bo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hard to say. Some of the people I chat to we have done so for ages without a meet (both via Fab and other social media), some it has been a few messages and then we meet for a social and take it from there, but usually there are numerous messages back and forth as we get to know each other. |
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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago
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"It's about the vibe I get, but I am a believer in let's get a social done as soon as possible, then can see if we vibe and match on a level to take things further. Why fuck about "
Because some people are not what they seem when chatting. The worst meet I had was a coffee and chat and we had parked our cars in the same area and he didn't want to stop at just a coffee and chat I found out when I went to leave. Had I spoken longer I believe I would have spotted red flags and not met him at all,just like I haven't met several other men I spoke to on here because after a while things they say have been massive red flags to me .That's why I now 'fuck about' when meeting anyone new. And it hasn't let me down since. .Bo. |
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It depends, of there's immediate chemistry and I'm in the mood then a couple. I can be quite impulsive so if the stars align then I'm packing my tits and heading over. Sometimes it's a slow burn though.
Obviously if I get hit with a "wut u up 2, want dis dik?" Then my panties are already on the floor and I'm doing my best to run directly towards this irresistible offer with pants round my ankles. |
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"Never 10, some of my messages on here and other places have exceeded well over 300,400,500,600..... etc etc...
If you end up chatting every day for quite some time it's easily done. "
I messaged back and forth over 200 times with someone before they carelessly dropped themselves in it… so it pays to make sure and as Boo said its easily done over a xple days messaging back and forth  |
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By *orl1971 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If we don't arrange a social within 10 messages we abandon the conversation.We find that a quick social is far better than endless messaging.It works for us!
M and M"
That’s exactly our view. Better to meet in person as you can invest a lot of time to find it doesn’t work out when you meet.
After a meet lots of flirty messages are fine as you know the person and that they are genuine |
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I'm in the 'it depends' camp too. Often a lot, and often because there's a bit of distance/planning needed.
But I can be clear if I would like to (or would be likely to) meet someone after only a few messages, or even just one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hundreds. And then hundreds more on either Telegram or WhatsApp.
(I'm tempted to say thousands)
I'm not swayed by the quantity. It's the quality of messaging for me."
So 20 million too much?  |
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"It's about the vibe I get, but I am a believer in let's get a social done as soon as possible, then can see if we vibe and match on a level to take things further. Why fuck about
Because some people are not what they seem when chatting. The worst meet I had was a coffee and chat and we had parked our cars in the same area and he didn't want to stop at just a coffee and chat I found out when I went to leave. Had I spoken longer I believe I would have spotted red flags and not met him at all,just like I haven't met several other men I spoke to on here because after a while things they say have been massive red flags to me .That's why I now 'fuck about' when meeting anyone new. And it hasn't let me down since. .Bo."
I hear that, not all are what they seem and its my experience rhat I pick up on things alot easier in person, not onky thr verbal communication bit more so the non-verbal communication....hence my not fucking about. I can pick up on things so much easier in person. Then put startagies in place. |
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