How do I get verified on here?
I have a phobia of calls and video calls, so can't do that. I'm up for social meets, and im up for video/pic trading too
But the problem is that most people don't wanna meet without verifications for socials, and no one rarely messages me back cause im not verified
How do I get around this? Cam/calls ae not an option, but I can send pics and vids to prove I'm real, and I can meet for socials |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get yourself to a locally organised social in your area. People will say clubs too which you can do but the local socials are usually less daunting for a newbie. People are super friendly. Chat to a few or the organisers and bam you’ll get your green tick and you’ll have all the ladies knocking down your door! well maybe not but atleast those you speak to will know you’re real! |
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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago
DXB / SG / Thailand Krabi |
The most obvious question is why you have a phobia of voice and/or video calls? Is this just a Fab related issue related to confidence or a wider issue in your world?
Fab is a world within a world and many will unfortunately view your candid honesty with suspicion.
The easiest way to get verified is via a club, Adam & Eves in Eccles isn’t a million miles away for you; visit on a Sunday or any weekday during the daytime when it’s chilled and one or all of the staff as well as everyone you meet there who’s on Fab will verify you as genuine.
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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago
DXB / SG / Thailand Krabi |
"I will have to try that, but unfortunately I work whenever the clubs are open, and im kinda scared to go to one by myself. But I guess I gotta do it. Thanks for the help
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Genuinely nothing to be scared of, take a deep breath, walk in, sit at the bar and speak to whoever is behind it; tell them straight up why you’re there and how terrified you are!
It’ll be the very last time you’re ever scared of a club; just be you ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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"How do I get verified on here?
I have a phobia of calls and video calls, so can't do that. I'm up for social meets, and im up for video/pic trading too
But the problem is that most people don't wanna meet without verifications for socials, and no one rarely messages me back cause im not verified
How do I get around this? Cam/calls ae not an option, but I can send pics and vids to prove I'm real, and I can meet for socials "
If you want to do a video chat with me op I’ll veri you. It’d be non sexual but it would prove you’re real!
Failing that, get yourself to a local club or social. People will verify you from that visit! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dude, you are being given options and finding all the reasons to not get involved.
This might not be the right time to be here.
Maybe go work on yourself and your issues, because otherwise, this will continue and you'll end up bitter at the lack of positive outcomes. |
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To be clear, im willing to do anything needed to be verified, just no phone/video calls due to very personal reasons I'm not willing to share. I will go to a club at some point, but just need a bit more confidence for it |
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