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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
Ilkeston |
No, the first meet is completely social (unless the moment takes other choices) as i like to know if there is something there to start with as many red flags appear when you meet someone face to face |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
I don’t expect it from either side and prefer to meet people who are the same. Usually it does happen and if it doesn’t (me orgasming) it’s usually telling me something isn’t 100%. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, the first meet is completely social (unless the moment takes other choices) as i like to know if there is something there to start with as many red flags appear when you meet someone face to face "
Which is why I specified the first time you meet for sex |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
Ilkeston |
"No, the first meet is completely social (unless the moment takes other choices) as i like to know if there is something there to start with as many red flags appear when you meet someone face to face
Which is why I specified the first time you meet for sex"
So you did helps if i actually read the post, sorry! *facepalm*
Still no as if it happens it happens putting pressure to cum only makes it harder to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I would
I don't think sex without an orgasm is great
Just leaves me frustrated
That said, I do like just getting people off sometimes
I would orgasm though, just not maybe there and then
Going home and having a wank thinking about what just happened can be horny too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't always happen. Certain things can happen that means I won't cum. Nerves, lack of sexual chemistry, not actually feeling horny when I thought I would be etc. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Do you expect to cum the first time you're meeting someone new for sex? And do you always cum the first time?"
Not met for years though any new meets there's never the expectation of sex but there's always the anticipation of it.
As far as coming first time, yeah, sometimes too soon, sometimes there's a 'you're not having it that quick' train of though. |
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I probably wouldn't on a first meet. And find it difficult on any meet. Not because of you, but because of me. I absolutely love women, I love being with women, touching their bodies, women arouse my senses
But my own state of arousal brings my body to my attention, makes me feel male, and that then becomes something that turns me off. It all becomes very frustrating for me and I fear disappointing for any woman that I am with. Not because of losing out on her own enjoyment - I hope to always give pleasure using lips and tongue and teeth and hands and toys - but because my body may not respond as I would like it to. A mismatch of female feelings and male body.
I know that I am a difficult sex partner, and probably not a good sex partner. I need time and understanding, and then I can eventually get there, and (I hope) give a good experience. |
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