"Do you find you have much luck on this site ?"
It’s not luck.
Okay sometimes it’s luck.
I love this site, especially the social aspect, I’ve got a lovely bunch of friends who sometimes want to meet me for sex. Get your profile sorted out, go to socials and clubs. Be realistic about who you message (that 32 year old instagram model / influencer isn’t going to be interested) Take your rejections, be a nice person. |
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"Do you find you have much luck on this site ?
It’s not luck.
Okay sometimes it’s luck.
I love this site, especially the social aspect, I’ve got a lovely bunch of friends who sometimes want to meet me for sex. Get your profile sorted out, go to socials and clubs. Be realistic about who you message (that 32 year old instagram model / influencer isn’t going to be interested) Take your rejections, be a nice person."
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Do you find you have much luck on this site ?i do ok but then i don't push sex in their face before I've met them 
But tricky to push your sex into someone's face over the Internet. "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Being serious OP, I think that some older men do have a fair bit of "luck" on here, others less so.
I think it's about making the most out of the site - is your profile engaging? Are you getting noticed on the fora, at clubs, at socials?
Actively making an effort to meet people?
I do think as you get older it can be more difficult for men. I also think there are women/hussies aplenty like me who like older men.
You need to have something about you though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's harder for older guys.Very young woman think 40 is old.Then older women want younger guys."
When I originally joined at 20, 40 was young for me  |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
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There will be people out there you just have to find those people. As with everything on here some people will like that your older and others not so much
Its just the same with anything really not everything pleases everyone  |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Being serious OP, I think that some older men do have a fair bit of "luck" on here, others less so.
I think it's about making the most out of the site - is your profile engaging? Are you getting noticed on the fora, at clubs, at socials?
Actively making an effort to meet people?
I do think as you get older it can be more difficult for men. I also think there are women/hussies aplenty like me who like older men.
You need to have something about you though."
smelly socks for example? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Being serious OP, I think that some older men do have a fair bit of "luck" on here, others less so.
I think it's about making the most out of the site - is your profile engaging? Are you getting noticed on the fora, at clubs, at socials?
Actively making an effort to meet people?
I do think as you get older it can be more difficult for men. I also think there are women/hussies aplenty like me who like older men.
You need to have something about you though.smelly socks for example? "
Exactly. If that's your USP run with it - you'll find a woman who appreciates that rich aroma somewhere. I think. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Being serious OP, I think that some older men do have a fair bit of "luck" on here, others less so.
I think it's about making the most out of the site - is your profile engaging? Are you getting noticed on the fora, at clubs, at socials?
Actively making an effort to meet people?
I do think as you get older it can be more difficult for men. I also think there are women/hussies aplenty like me who like older men.
You need to have something about you though.smelly socks for example?
Exactly. If that's your USP run with it - you'll find a woman who appreciates that rich aroma somewhere. I think. "
exactly...... Gorgonzola  |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I met my other half on here he is 52 and I’m 38 - him being older really has nothing to do with it, his personality and how he makes me feel has everything to do with it.
I also think the word ‘luck’ implies just chancing your arm and and hoping someone (anyone) bites, effort and genuine interest in more than just sex goes a long way
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Prior to Covid when I was in my late 70s I had some really good meets, since then my health has deteriorated and although I attract some interest I am unable to follow anything through. Geography also plays a big part with most of the people responding to my profile being over 100 miles away.
I do however have some success in the real world, away from Fab. |
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Turning 60 I had to check that my cock hadn’t fallen off. I’m sure that’s what some folks assume. Your possibilities reduce as you age. Usually to women and couples your age ish but to compound the ageing effect as women age they still attract younger men. Bit of a double edge sword  that said I still get the occasional new meet and have some really nice regulars |
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Depends on your definition of success.
I was 52 when I joined here with zero experience in anything like this site and I've never had an issue getting meets.
I'm very fussy though so despite having 60+ veries across 4 different profiles in 6 years, less than 10 percent have gone beyond a social.
That's by choice btw do as such I'm happy with my success rate.
My age has never once been a topic for discussion but a lot of people seem to blame their age for their lack of success. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I know several older men that are having a great experience on fab. From comments on the forums it does appear that it can become more of a challenge for some, but I would say those with ‘something about them’ and a pleasant personality seem to do very well. Good luck OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Older men are far more pragmatic and less bothered.
Younger men have the energy and drive and perhsps bullshit to commit to the chase.
The parameters on women's age ranges can be baffling..(eg 23 to 51),I'm not sure if men are so exact.most would go with a monkey in a dustbin but don't tell the birds that.
It can be our male secret thing...
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Some older men do great here
There was a bloke in his 70# who hit clubs and socials and was really well verified.
If people are willing to put the effort in with a good profile & to attend socials then they can do well regardless of age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 48 tomorrow
Yeah I know my age is wrong on here and I can’t seem to change it.
I don’t feel old but I look it at times.
It can be an hindrance at times as I see some gorgeous profiles of ladies, and their age preference is set at 45! And I understand it’s their choice. But I just don’t think I’m a usual 48 year old guy.
I’m active, adventurous love travelling and socialising. Weirdly travelled with amazing stories.
But I do have success so to speak and have made some great friends through fab.
So no age isn’t really an issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 50 in November - but have no verifications.
Stupidly - I'm quite shy for some stupid reason - and haven't been on the cams.
maybe the lack of veris is my problem. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Do you find you have much luck on this site ?
It’s not luck.
Okay sometimes it’s luck.
I love this site, especially the social aspect, I’ve got a lovely bunch of friends who sometimes want to meet me for sex. Get your profile sorted out, go to socials and clubs. Be realistic about who you message (that 32 year old instagram model / influencer isn’t going to be interested) Take your rejections, be a nice person."
I do just fine.
I don’t think it’s ever about ‘luck’ maybe timing or maximising opportunities but it’s not luck.
If you pay attention you will know when people are all loved up and withdrawing vs looking. If you message someone when they’re online you’ll often get instant reply.
If you have a cock for a face, and conduct yourself like a desperate 15 year old boy seeking sex you’re not unlucky, you’re just a twat. |
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I'm 63 and no I don't! I think adding that I'm married with permission doesn't help my chances but so be it. I'm not interested in clubs and would ideally like to meet a select couple or two rather than shag my way round south east England so that also limits my potential audience. I do like to have the occasional NSA naughty chats though and that's what probably keeps me in here. |
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I'm probably classed as older although I don't feel it or act it.
My current playpartners are 19, 20, 23 and 28 so I don't think I do bad.
Granted none are relationships , I've very little in common with 3 of them but the 23 Yr old has surprisingly good taste in music, movies and we have great conversations.
Age is just a number it's compatibility that counts. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Being serious OP, I think that some older men do have a fair bit of "luck" on here, others less so.
I think it's about making the most out of the site - is your profile engaging? Are you getting noticed on the fora, at clubs, at socials?
Actively making an effort to meet people?
I do think as you get older it can be more difficult for men. I also think there are women/hussies aplenty like me who like older men.
You need to have something about you though."
This!
Everyone has their market.
It's why the site has those lovely age filter options. But one thing I've learnt over the years is that face to face in a club environment people go by looks and attraction. I've never been asked my age in a club. Over the years I've even played with people who when I've gone to verify them later, or them me, we've discovered I was was outside their preferred ages.
Online a lot is black and white. Messages are blocked. You won't show in their searches. But in a club? Anything is possible if you visually look like their 'type'.
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"I'm probably classed as older although I don't feel it or act it.
My current playpartners are 19, 20, 23 and 28 so I don't think I do bad.
Granted none are relationships , I've very little in common with 3 of them but the 23 Yr old has surprisingly good taste in music, movies and we have great conversations.
Age is just a number it's compatibility that counts. "
Younger than me, so definitely not classed as old from here x |
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