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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing, besides look aren't everything! Let your personality shine  "
in my time i have meet some men not best looking one really had very big nose short but had the gift of the gab ,, and he could charm the birds out of the trees .. woman loved him life and soul of all the party's. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Average isn't a problem. Most people will choose someone with what they consider average looks. The bit that makes a person attractive is not so much about looks but the glint in the eye that shows there is a personality.
I was at an event last week and met a tall, slim but shapely, blue-eyed blonde woman. All the features were there to make her attractive, on paper, but she was sort of dead behind the eyes and quite boring. I couldn't find her attractive and from her tale I guess others couldn't either. |
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What size are they ?
Id say smell nice look after your appearance dress nice be polite and try working on your conversation skills. Try and tell a few jokes or funny stories. Take the mask/bag off and look people in the eye. Dont hide in a corner stand at the bar. Most women are attracted to a confident guy  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Nothing, besides look aren't everything! Let your personality shine in my time i have meet some men not best looking one really had very big nose short but had the gift of the gab ,, and he could charm the birds out of the trees .. woman loved him life and soul of all the party's."
I fell in love with one just like that once. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing, besides look aren't everything! Let your personality shine in my time i have meet some men not best looking one really had very big nose short but had the gift of the gab ,, and he could charm the birds out of the trees .. woman loved him life and soul of all the party's.
I fell in love with one just like that once."
when you meet men like this you see looks are not everything .He could take his pick of all the woman too. |
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"Average isn't a problem. Most people will choose someone with what they consider average looks. The bit that makes a person attractive is not so much about looks but the glint in the eye that shows there is a personality.
I was at an event last week and met a tall, slim but shapely, blue-eyed blonde woman. All the features were there to
make her attractive, on paper, but she
was sort of dead behind the eyes and
quite boring. I couldn't find her
attractive and from her tale I guess
others couldn't either."
Nothing much worse than dead eyes. Like a physcopath, nothing there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Average isn't a problem. Most people will choose someone with what they consider average looks. The bit that makes a person attractive is not so much about looks but the glint in the eye that shows there is a personality.
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Heck yes! It's the glint in the eye that gives me butterflies in my stomach.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You make the best of what you have...
Well groomed, good clothes and always a big smile and a warm personality...
No one likes a miserable wallflower .
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Yep maximise everything else and have nice shoes. Women always look at a mans shoes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think fundamentally you look fine, but you could get some better pics taken and I find your user name sounds a bit negative.
Sadly you will still find that your age is against you, but don't give up, there are women and couples out there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's true I could get some pictures that might show me in a better light, but I deliberately posted these so that I can't be accused of pretending to look like something I'm not. I face the world as I am, warts and all. |
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