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Banish the ugly thoughts, embrace the beautiful ones
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All this talk around attraction, confidence and people's definition of beauty got me thinking we are all our biggest critics. There is nothing worse anyone could say to us than we say to ourselves.
So whoever you are be confident and have self acceptance in who you are. The brightest stars sometimes can't see their own shine but others do see you.
Don't judge your own self worth on someone else's judgement.. that's all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just find something you like about yourself. However big or small x"
My big, fat gut to rest my pint on and tiny peepee that has worn away after years of abuse it is. |
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"All this talk around attraction, confidence and people's definition of beauty got me thinking we are all our biggest critics. There is nothing worse anyone could say to us than we say to ourselves.
So whoever you are be confident and have self acceptance in who you are. The brightest stars sometimes can't see their own shine but others do see you.
Don't judge your own self worth on someone else's judgement.. that's all "
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By (user no longer on site)
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So whoever you are be confident and have self acceptance in who you are. The brightest stars sometimes can't see their own shine but others do see you.
Don't judge your own self worth on someone else's judgement.. that's all "
This is actually really nice. |
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By *igjonny090Man
over a year ago
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The hardest thing anyone can ever do is accept themselves, trying to be the person they think everyone else thinks they are or expects them to be just kills your mental health. Learning to acknowledge you have flaws and to embrace them is amongst the hardest things to do but one of the most worthwhile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All this talk around attraction, confidence and people's definition of beauty got me thinking we are all our biggest critics. There is nothing worse anyone could say to us than we say to ourselves.
So whoever you are be confident and have self acceptance in who you are. The brightest stars sometimes can't see their own shine but others do see you.
Don't judge your own self worth on someone else's judgement.. that's all "
I this.
I wish it was easier but we have to keep trying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The brightest stars sometimes can't see their own shine but others do see you.
Don't judge your own self worth on someone else's judgement.. that's all "
I love this! We can all go through phases where we don't see the beauty in ourselves. But there is light at the end of the tunnel for everyone |
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"I try to remember that most people are kind to others. Most people don't think hateful things. So when I think them about myself, I am the outlier, not the norm. "
I like that, about being the outlier. Important to remember.
I like this thread. Thanks, OP. |
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" There is nothing worse anyone could say to us than we say to ourselves.
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Don't judge your own self worth on someone else's judgement.. that's all "
If we are unkind to ourselves and can't trust others judgement, what do we do? |
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In general I judge myself as a whole person. And I’m one that I’m comfortable with & proud to be. I’m a bloody nice human.
Recently I’m falling into a trap of judging myself by the perception of others based on a small aspect of me.
It’s not healthy & it’s not happy. So OP I shall shake myself down and take your wonderful, timely advice.
I hope others do too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" There is nothing worse anyone could say to us than we say to ourselves.
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Don't judge your own self worth on someone else's judgement.. that's all
If we are unkind to ourselves and can't trust others judgement, what do we do?"
We be happy, the rest will follow. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you know what it is, I guess I'm just tired of hearing people do theirselves down. There's too many people in this world that feel it's okay to put someone down for their own gain. The advice is always brush it off but that shit sticks and it hurts. I just want everyone to listen to theirselves more. Know who they are so it's easier to drown out the nasty voices in this world. You are enough, we are enough and anyone who makes you feel different to that has no place in our lives |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"All this talk around attraction, confidence and people's definition of beauty got me thinking we are all our biggest critics. There is nothing worse anyone could say to us than we say to ourselves.
So whoever you are be confident and have self acceptance in who you are. The brightest stars sometimes can't see their own shine but others do see you.
Don't judge your own self worth on someone else's judgement.. that's all "
This. 10000% 
Look at it this way.
How many wives, mistresses and kids has Bojo had? 
Attraction is obviously not purely physical and some can be interested in what others would consider horrendous personalities.......... 
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