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"chatting to a gay lad at work today nicest bloke you could meet,,, no he wasnt chatting me up"
Really does not have to be any ulterior motives whatsoever. I chat to a few totally confirmed straight guys on here and there is nothing other than just been nice friendly guys to chat to. All my male friends are 100% straight too. Not even fab straight.  |
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over a year ago
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"Y tho?
Cos they're the Golden Goose for gay guys
Not. "
We'll disagree on that one
Tho I will qualify it with *some* gay guys
There's hundreds of gay guys here claiming to be bi so curious straight guys will meet them
It's a kind of inverted homophobia in my opinion
Almost like saying gay guys just aren't proper men, whereas a 'straight' / bi guy is |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"chatting to a gay lad at work today nicest bloke you could meet,,, no he wasnt chatting me up
Really does not have to be any ulterior motives whatsoever. I chat to a few totally confirmed straight guys on here and there is nothing other than just been nice friendly guys to chat to. All my male friends are 100% straight too. Not even fab straight. "
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"Y tho?
Cos they're the Golden Goose for gay guys
Not.
We'll disagree on that one
Tho I will qualify it with *some* gay guys
There's hundreds of gay guys here claiming to be bi so curious straight guys will meet them
It's a kind of inverted homophobia in my opinion
Almost like saying gay guys just aren't proper men, whereas a 'straight' / bi guy is "
Really ? That's a new one on me lol.
What makes you think the bi guys are actually gay?
You can be bi and only ever have sex with one gender. ...Still bi
I fuck mostly guys. I'm still 100% bi
I've little to no interest in "straight" guys
If they sleep with men they aren't straight they're bi, and that's where the real internalised homophobia is.
There are however a lot of gay guys who chase straights , but in my experience they don't pretend to be bi to do it , can't see the point in that. |
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"Y tho?
Cos they're the Golden Goose for gay guys"
Never understood that one , as a top I want someone who can take it. Not someone who practically climbs up the bed everytime you breach the sphincter lol.
Having taken quite a few anal virginities in my time it's often far more hassle than it's worth |
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over a year ago
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"Y tho?
Cos they're the Golden Goose for gay guys
Never understood that one , as a top I want someone who can take it. Not someone who practically climbs up the bed everytime you breach the sphincter lol.
Having taken quite a few anal virginities in my time it's often far more hassle than it's worth "
Certainly locally to me, pretty much all the straight chasers seem to seek just sucking straight guys off |
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Was out with a gay mate and he insisted in going to gay bar, which didn't faze me at all (I am from Brighton after all). A few gay guys he knew came over to chat with him. The younger one said to me 'you're not gay are you?', so I said 'no'. His response was, 'that's a shame', to which I replied 'but if I was, I would' and gave him a wink. The look on his face was priceless! |
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This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man |
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man "
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys  |
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys "
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
Sexuality is a lot more complicated than that.. and for a start people self identify. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else agrees with what labels people choose to see themselves as. (I just dream of a day when nothing is taboo between 2 consenting adults)
Have you never heard of people being curious?
Or Experimenting.
You’ve chosen to use your head line to tell people what you DONT want, and you’ve commented on this poster’s thread to tell them you don’t want it .. hmmm you do you though x
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys "
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
Sexuality is a lot more complicated than that.. and for a start people self identify. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else agrees with what labels people choose to see themselves as. (I just dream of a day when nothing is taboo between 2 consenting adults)
Have you never heard of people being curious?
Or Experimenting.
You’ve chosen to use your head line to tell people what you DONT want, and you’ve commented on this poster’s thread to tell them you don’t want it .. hmmm you do you though x
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys "
If I wanted it I could have had it many times but I'm not into cock and yes I use the header to point that out because most guys are too lazy to actually read a profile and if they do some still think there's a chance of actually having sex with a actual straight guy.
If you're in any way curious about having sex with someone that has a cock then the straight card is already out the window because you're curious about trying it and as a straight guy I know what I'm talking about.
I've never known a vegan to say they fancy trying a nice steak at the weekend to see what it's like
The problem is too many guys aren't honest about what they actually want so they lie about it because they care too much about what others will think |
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
Sexuality is a lot more complicated than that.. and for a start people self identify. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else agrees with what labels people choose to see themselves as. (I just dream of a day when nothing is taboo between 2 consenting adults)
Have you never heard of people being curious?
Or Experimenting.
You’ve chosen to use your head line to tell people what you DONT want, and you’ve commented on this poster’s thread to tell them you don’t want it .. hmmm you do you though x
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys
If I wanted it I could have had it many times but I'm not into cock and yes I use the header to point that out because most guys are too lazy to actually read a profile and if they do some still think there's a chance of actually having sex with a actual straight guy.
If you're in any way curious about having sex with someone that has a cock then the straight card is already out the window because you're curious about trying it and as a straight guy I know what I'm talking about.
I've never known a vegan to say they fancy trying a nice steak at the weekend to see what it's like
The problem is too many guys aren't honest about what they actually want so they lie about it because they care too much about what others will think"
So if a straight guy does it once and he hates it and never does it again is he bi for the rest of his life ? |
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
Sexuality is a lot more complicated than that.. and for a start people self identify. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else agrees with what labels people choose to see themselves as. (I just dream of a day when nothing is taboo between 2 consenting adults)
Have you never heard of people being curious?
Or Experimenting.
You’ve chosen to use your head line to tell people what you DONT want, and you’ve commented on this poster’s thread to tell them you don’t want it .. hmmm you do you though x
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys
If I wanted it I could have had it many times but I'm not into cock and yes I use the header to point that out because most guys are too lazy to actually read a profile and if they do some still think there's a chance of actually having sex with a actual straight guy.
If you're in any way curious about having sex with someone that has a cock then the straight card is already out the window because you're curious about trying it and as a straight guy I know what I'm talking about.
I've never known a vegan to say they fancy trying a nice steak at the weekend to see what it's like
The problem is too many guys aren't honest about what they actually want so they lie about it because they care too much about what others will think
So if a straight guy does it once and he hates it and never does it again is he bi for the rest of his life ?"
He’s bi-bi in this instance |
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
Sexuality is a lot more complicated than that.. and for a start people self identify. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else agrees with what labels people choose to see themselves as. (I just dream of a day when nothing is taboo between 2 consenting adults)
Have you never heard of people being curious?
Or Experimenting.
You’ve chosen to use your head line to tell people what you DONT want, and you’ve commented on this poster’s thread to tell them you don’t want it .. hmmm you do you though x
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys
If I wanted it I could have had it many times but I'm not into cock and yes I use the header to point that out because most guys are too lazy to actually read a profile and if they do some still think there's a chance of actually having sex with a actual straight guy.
If you're in any way curious about having sex with someone that has a cock then the straight card is already out the window because you're curious about trying it and as a straight guy I know what I'm talking about.
I've never known a vegan to say they fancy trying a nice steak at the weekend to see what it's like
The problem is too many guys aren't honest about what they actually want so they lie about it because they care too much about what others will think
So if a straight guy does it once and he hates it and never does it again is he bi for the rest of his life ?
He’s bi-bi in this instance "
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
Sexuality is a lot more complicated than that.. and for a start people self identify. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else agrees with what labels people choose to see themselves as. (I just dream of a day when nothing is taboo between 2 consenting adults)
Have you never heard of people being curious?
Or Experimenting.
You’ve chosen to use your head line to tell people what you DONT want, and you’ve commented on this poster’s thread to tell them you don’t want it .. hmmm you do you though x
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys "
I'm straight and have never once had a sexual thought about another man, or been curious or thought about experimenting or even glanced over at a urinal.
I'm more than comfortable with that but the only thing that pisses me off on here is having to justify that.
Every thread I've ever commented on in regard to my sexuality there has been at least one person saying, "ah but", "what if?" or "why not?"
I've been told I'm narrow minded or afraid of expressing my true sexuality.
Bullshit as far as I'm concerned.
I'm not speaking in a vacuum either as the vast majority of men who identify as straight are in reality straight and it's time that those who challenge that give their head a wobble and fuck off. |
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
Sexuality is a lot more complicated than that.. and for a start people self identify. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else agrees with what labels people choose to see themselves as. (I just dream of a day when nothing is taboo between 2 consenting adults)
Have you never heard of people being curious?
Or Experimenting.
You’ve chosen to use your head line to tell people what you DONT want, and you’ve commented on this poster’s thread to tell them you don’t want it .. hmmm you do you though x
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys
I'm straight and have never once had a sexual thought about another man, or been curious or thought about experimenting or even glanced over at a urinal.
I'm more than comfortable with that but the only thing that pisses me off on here is having to justify that.
Every thread I've ever commented on in regard to my sexuality there has been at least one person saying, "ah but", "what if?" or "why not?"
I've been told I'm narrow minded or afraid of expressing my true sexuality.
Bullshit as far as I'm concerned.
I'm not speaking in a vacuum either as the vast majority of men who identify as straight are in reality straight and it's time that those who challenge that give their head a wobble and fuck off. "
But you absolutely do not have to justify it. Block. Ignore. You don’t have to justify anything to any one. What other people do or call themselves has 0 affect on you |
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
Sexuality is a lot more complicated than that.. and for a start people self identify. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else agrees with what labels people choose to see themselves as. (I just dream of a day when nothing is taboo between 2 consenting adults)
Have you never heard of people being curious?
Or Experimenting.
You’ve chosen to use your head line to tell people what you DONT want, and you’ve commented on this poster’s thread to tell them you don’t want it .. hmmm you do you though x
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys
If I wanted it I could have had it many times but I'm not into cock and yes I use the header to point that out because most guys are too lazy to actually read a profile and if they do some still think there's a chance of actually having sex with a actual straight guy.
If you're in any way curious about having sex with someone that has a cock then the straight card is already out the window because you're curious about trying it and as a straight guy I know what I'm talking about.
I've never known a vegan to say they fancy trying a nice steak at the weekend to see what it's like
The problem is too many guys aren't honest about what they actually want so they lie about it because they care too much about what others will think
So if a straight guy does it once and he hates it and never does it again is he bi for the rest of his life ?"
If a bi curious guy tries it and doesn't like it then maybe the guy was just not for him.
As I said above, a straight guy has no interest in even experimenting with guys.
I haven't enjoyed sex with every woman I've slept with but I haven't slept with only 1 |
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
Sexuality is a lot more complicated than that.. and for a start people self identify. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else agrees with what labels people choose to see themselves as. (I just dream of a day when nothing is taboo between 2 consenting adults)
Have you never heard of people being curious?
Or Experimenting.
You’ve chosen to use your head line to tell people what you DONT want, and you’ve commented on this poster’s thread to tell them you don’t want it .. hmmm you do you though x
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys
If I wanted it I could have had it many times but I'm not into cock and yes I use the header to point that out because most guys are too lazy to actually read a profile and if they do some still think there's a chance of actually having sex with a actual straight guy.
If you're in any way curious about having sex with someone that has a cock then the straight card is already out the window because you're curious about trying it and as a straight guy I know what I'm talking about.
I've never known a vegan to say they fancy trying a nice steak at the weekend to see what it's like
The problem is too many guys aren't honest about what they actually want so they lie about it because they care too much about what others will think
So if a straight guy does it once and he hates it and never does it again is he bi for the rest of his life ?
If a bi curious guy tries it and doesn't like it then maybe the guy was just not for him.
As I said above, a straight guy has no interest in even experimenting with guys.
I haven't enjoyed sex with every woman I've slept with but I haven't slept with only 1"
Thanks for the clarification. |
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
Sexuality is a lot more complicated than that.. and for a start people self identify. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else agrees with what labels people choose to see themselves as. (I just dream of a day when nothing is taboo between 2 consenting adults)
Have you never heard of people being curious?
Or Experimenting.
You’ve chosen to use your head line to tell people what you DONT want, and you’ve commented on this poster’s thread to tell them you don’t want it .. hmmm you do you though x
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys
I'm straight and have never once had a sexual thought about another man, or been curious or thought about experimenting or even glanced over at a urinal.
I'm more than comfortable with that but the only thing that pisses me off on here is having to justify that.
Every thread I've ever commented on in regard to my sexuality there has been at least one person saying, "ah but", "what if?" or "why not?"
I've been told I'm narrow minded or afraid of expressing my true sexuality.
Bullshit as far as I'm concerned.
I'm not speaking in a vacuum either as the vast majority of men who identify as straight are in reality straight and it's time that those who challenge that give their head a wobble and fuck off. "
Exactly, it's only ever people that like cock that don't actually know what straight really is |
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I’m a gay man
I have experimented with women and enjoyed it.
I don’t plan on doing it again. It’s not something I think about
However i am occasionally attracted to women.
I have no interest in indulging.
Am I still allowed to call myself gay? |
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"I’m a gay man
I have experimented with women and enjoyed it.
I don’t plan on doing it again. It’s not something I think about
However i am occasionally attracted to women.
I have no interest in indulging.
Am I still allowed to call myself gay?"
Call yourself what you want, opinions will vary |
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
Sexuality is a lot more complicated than that.. and for a start people self identify. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else agrees with what labels people choose to see themselves as. (I just dream of a day when nothing is taboo between 2 consenting adults)
Have you never heard of people being curious?
Or Experimenting.
You’ve chosen to use your head line to tell people what you DONT want, and you’ve commented on this poster’s thread to tell them you don’t want it .. hmmm you do you though x
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys
I'm straight and have never once had a sexual thought about another man, or been curious or thought about experimenting or even glanced over at a urinal.
I'm more than comfortable with that but the only thing that pisses me off on here is having to justify that.
Every thread I've ever commented on in regard to my sexuality there has been at least one person saying, "ah but", "what if?" or "why not?"
I've been told I'm narrow minded or afraid of expressing my true sexuality.
Bullshit as far as I'm concerned.
I'm not speaking in a vacuum either as the vast majority of men who identify as straight are in reality straight and it's time that those who challenge that give their head a wobble and fuck off.
But you absolutely do not have to justify it. Block. Ignore. You don’t have to justify anything to any one. What other people do or call themselves has 0 affect on you "
I couldn't care less what others call themselves.
My point is that too many people in here preach acceptance and diversity but believe that translates as everyone having to be open to personal exploration and are dismissive of those who aren't.
Couples bemoan the fact they can't find a unicorn. Then when a woman comments in the forum about being straight and feeling pressured by those who think she should experiment she is lauded for standing her ground and embracing her straightness.
A man does likewise and the response is "ye right!". |
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"I’m a gay man
I have experimented with women and enjoyed it.
I don’t plan on doing it again. It’s not something I think about
However i am occasionally attracted to women.
I have no interest in indulging.
Am I still allowed to call myself gay?
Call yourself what you want, opinions will vary "
Oh I’m glad I can call myself what I like but feel a bit sorry for guys who experiment not getting that same luxury |
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"This really makes me laugh when guys wear the fact that they can bag a straight guy as a badge of honour. It’s so much easier to have sex with a ‘straight’ man than a gay man
It's impossible for a guy to get anything sexual from a straight guy because a straight guy won't do anything with a guy.
Sexuality is a lot more complicated than that.. and for a start people self identify. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else agrees with what labels people choose to see themselves as. (I just dream of a day when nothing is taboo between 2 consenting adults)
Have you never heard of people being curious?
Or Experimenting.
You’ve chosen to use your head line to tell people what you DONT want, and you’ve commented on this poster’s thread to tell them you don’t want it .. hmmm you do you though x
They do things with guys that say they're straight, definitely don't do anything with straight guys
I'm straight and have never once had a sexual thought about another man, or been curious or thought about experimenting or even glanced over at a urinal.
I'm more than comfortable with that but the only thing that pisses me off on here is having to justify that.
Every thread I've ever commented on in regard to my sexuality there has been at least one person saying, "ah but", "what if?" or "why not?"
I've been told I'm narrow minded or afraid of expressing my true sexuality.
Bullshit as far as I'm concerned.
I'm not speaking in a vacuum either as the vast majority of men who identify as straight are in reality straight and it's time that those who challenge that give their head a wobble and fuck off.
But you absolutely do not have to justify it. Block. Ignore. You don’t have to justify anything to any one. What other people do or call themselves has 0 affect on you
I couldn't care less what others call themselves.
My point is that too many people in here preach acceptance and diversity but believe that translates as everyone having to be open to personal exploration and are dismissive of those who aren't.
Couples bemoan the fact they can't find a unicorn. Then when a woman comments in the forum about being straight and feeling pressured by those who think she should experiment she is lauded for standing her ground and embracing her straightness.
A man does likewise and the response is "ye right!". "
That must be a heavy cross to bare |
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I like straight people. Not sexually. But I like them. I like being able to chat to someone where we have nothing to expect or want from the other aside of a conversation. I don’t think a straight guy talking to me in a bar must be bi or whatever I just think he’s friendly and confident enough in his own sexuality to talk to me without being confusing to me, himself, or anyone else. I appreciate that. Straight is straight and I like that. |
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"I’m a gay man
I have experimented with women and enjoyed it.
I don’t plan on doing it again. It’s not something I think about
However i am occasionally attracted to women.
I have no interest in indulging.
Am I still allowed to call myself gay?
Call yourself what you want, opinions will vary
Oh I’m glad I can call myself what I like but feel a bit sorry for guys who experiment not getting that same luxury "
People call themselves moons and other things |
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"I like straight people. Not sexually. But I like them. I like being able to chat to someone where we have nothing to expect or want from the other aside of a conversation. I don’t think a straight guy talking to me in a bar must be bi or whatever I just think he’s friendly and confident enough in his own sexuality to talk to me without being confusing to me, himself, or anyone else. I appreciate that. Straight is straight and I like that. "
I'll talk to anyone if I get on with them, on here I have filters because of the type of site it is but I have friends that are gay, bi, dress up etc
Hardly any of them try to get me to sleep with them and if they do I can tell them to do one without a fallout |
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"I just cannot for the life of me think of what would motivate me to comment on someone’s post who was looking for something I had no interest in "
But yet you comment on a post from a guy that's looking for something you're not, ironic |
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"I like straight people. Not sexually. But I like them. I like being able to chat to someone where we have nothing to expect or want from the other aside of a conversation. I don’t think a straight guy talking to me in a bar must be bi or whatever I just think he’s friendly and confident enough in his own sexuality to talk to me without being confusing to me, himself, or anyone else. I appreciate that. Straight is straight and I like that.
I'll talk to anyone if I get on with them, on here I have filters because of the type of site it is but I have friends that are gay, bi, dress up etc
Hardly any of them try to get me to sleep with them and if they do I can tell them to do one without a fallout "
Sounds pretty much spot on. |
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Who cares about labels ??...most men i talk to are offended if men message them.. firstly they can change settings so they can't and honestly a few straight guys have said they'd be interested in a bi 3 some. Hope you chat to some 'straight' men op  |
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This thread is at times a bit sad really. I can only repeat myself and whay I said before:
Really does not have to be any ulterior motives whatsoever. I chat to a few totally confirmed straight guys on here and there is nothing other than just been nice friendly guys to chat to. All my male friends are 100% straight too. Not even fab straight. There are filters to use if anyone is that concerned. Most people DO understand if someone is straight not to cross boundaries. It seems though that some straight people feel the need to constantly assert their preferences for no apparent reason. When I befriend prople I am not interested in their sexuality, just them as people. The majority of people respect other's preferences, no need to highlight excemptions as the tabloid papers do when they are keen to stigmatise certain sections of society.That's my opinion. We are all different, all we need is respect for one another |
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"This thread is at times a bit sad really. I can only repeat myself and whay I said before:
Really does not have to be any ulterior motives whatsoever. I chat to a few totally confirmed straight guys on here and there is nothing other than just been nice friendly guys to chat to. All my male friends are 100% straight too. Not even fab straight. There are filters to use if anyone is that concerned. Most people DO understand if someone is straight not to cross boundaries. It seems though that some straight people feel the need to constantly assert their preferences for no apparent reason. When I befriend prople I am not interested in their sexuality, just them as people. The majority of people respect other's preferences, no need to highlight excemptions as the tabloid papers do when they are keen to stigmatise certain sections of society.That's my opinion. We are all different, all we need is respect for one another "
I don't have any bi or gay friends. In fact I'd go so far as saying I don't actually know any bi or gay men within my social or business circle so I've never once been propositioned or challenged and never had to assert that I'm straight.
It's never been a topic of conversation.
I have all men blocked but even before I did that I didn't get messages from other men offering a bj so again in relation to private messages I've never had to explain to anyone else or say thanks but no thanks based on my sexuality.
The only time I've ever had to assert that I'm straight is when I have been directly challenged here in the forums and told that I'm repressing my true desires or that I'm narrow minded.
Most times I've chosen to ignore their ignorance but every now and again I push back because some believe it's acceptable.
I've never asked a gay or bi person to justify their preference so I don't see the need for them to ask me to do so. |
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"This thread is at times a bit sad really. I can only repeat myself and whay I said before:
Really does not have to be any ulterior motives whatsoever. I chat to a few totally confirmed straight guys on here and there is nothing other than just been nice friendly guys to chat to. All my male friends are 100% straight too. Not even fab straight. There are filters to use if anyone is that concerned. Most people DO understand if someone is straight not to cross boundaries. It seems though that some straight people feel the need to constantly assert their preferences for no apparent reason. When I befriend prople I am not interested in their sexuality, just them as people. The majority of people respect other's preferences, no need to highlight excemptions as the tabloid papers do when they are keen to stigmatise certain sections of society.That's my opinion. We are all different, all we need is respect for one another
I don't have any bi or gay friends. In fact I'd go so far as saying I don't actually know any bi or gay men within my social or business circle so I've never once been propositioned or challenged and never had to assert that I'm straight.
It's never been a topic of conversation.
I have all men blocked but even before I did that I didn't get messages from other men offering a bj so again in relation to private messages I've never had to explain to anyone else or say thanks but no thanks based on my sexuality.
The only time I've ever had to assert that I'm straight is when I have been directly challenged here in the forums and told that I'm repressing my true desires or that I'm narrow minded.
Most times I've chosen to ignore their ignorance but every now and again I push back because some believe it's acceptable.
I've never asked a gay or bi person to justify their preference so I don't see the need for them to ask me to do so. "
I am not sure why this was a response to my post above tbh but also I don't see anything you said in yours that contradicts my post so will take that as agreement. And yes, you are right, nobody should be asking you to justify your preferences |
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