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YES you can be a swinger and not be a bike
You don't have to fuck everything you meet
I don't for one thing
I play when its right to
Gone open this thread now see what folk say
Cos I will say this we have far more women stay on here if some single men on here did not assume its a free for all and did not message women on here as slappers
We got far to many men on here these days cos of only only a small number of women on here who will go with anything they meet are making hard work of it for us all
THIS ISN'T A FREE FOR ALL NORE SHOULD IY BE TREATED THAT WAY
Most swingers wont go with anything. We are picky who we go with
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I mean, if someone wants to sleep with everything that's up to them. I don't see any need to be judgey about it just because it's not the approach I take.
And most of the men who are assholes would be assholes whether we had the occasional 'bike' or not. |
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Are women who have sex with lots of men bikes or slappers? I don't think so. I also don't think women who like to have a lot of sex with loads of different men are responsible for the way some men behave, that's entirely on those guys |
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There's a lot more men on here than women , but let's not forget a large amount of them are gay,bi,pan and some are tv's, trans etc.
Not all men are seeking women or solely women.
And a lot of men who say their straight are anything but  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wow.
orrrrrr, we could just try the not judging thing, and let people live out their sex lives, however they wish to do so. whether that be having sex with one person 100 times, or 100 people one time.
just a thought  P. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"wow.
orrrrrr, we could just try the not judging thing, and let people live out their sex lives, however they wish to do so. whether that be having sex with one person 100 times, or 100 people one time.
just a thought P. "
Or 1 person 1 time
*I felt left out.  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"wow.
orrrrrr, we could just try the not judging thing, and let people live out their sex lives, however they wish to do so. whether that be having sex with one person 100 times, or 100 people one time.
just a thought P. "
That's a genius plan there P  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what's your definition of a 'bike'?
Sounds rather like slut-shaming to me.
I'm all about slut-faming
Slut-faming… love it 
The Spark Company do a slut-faming t-shirt "
That’s now on my Christmas list  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean what classes someone as a bike? 133 veris? 
136
Ah grand, I’m a way off yet then "
Now, are you sure?
Can't have anyone lowering the tone on Fab! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Typo corrections .........
Think yourself lucky your profile states you're a Woman, if you were a Man, and with so many verifications, you'd possibly get a very different response.
Even with your many verifications, OP, we don't blame you for the bad attitudes of others, with our paltry amount.
Please don't feel bad, you didn't create that monster with your free spirit.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean what classes someone as a bike? 133 veris?
136
Ah grand, I’m a way off yet then
Now, are you sure?
Can't have anyone lowering the tone on Fab! "
I’m not even near double digits yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By you own reasoning all women should be banned due to the minority who enjoy GG events. We don't judge just enjoy other ability to be confident in what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Different strokes for different folks ! .. sex is like a big bowl of ice cream full of different flavours and toppings .. Grab yourself a spoon and enjoy ! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
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We got far to many men on here these days cos of only only a small number of women on here who will go with anything they meet are making hard work of it for us all
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I'm confused.
Are you blaming women or men here? 
This seems the female equivalent of men bemoaning other men for ruining their experience on Fab, rather than just focusing on doing what YOU want to do, choosing who YOU want to interact with and letting everyone else worry about themselves.
Nothing anyone else does affects your life on Fab. Ever.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Does it really matter what consenting adults do...? Given the number of veris you have, the irony of this post is not lost one me.."
Don't fall into that trap.
130 odd veris over a ten year period is around 1 a month. Hardly someone fucking everyone on the site.
Just for balance.......
A |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"wow.
orrrrrr, we could just try the not judging thing, and let people live out their sex lives, however they wish to do so. whether that be having sex with one person 100 times, or 100 people one time.
just a thought P. "
Can I have both options please |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Finally! Thank you for standing up for the real swingers on this site OP, keep fighting that good fight!  "
You owe me a cup of coffee to replace what just came out as I sexy snort laughed. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"Finally! Thank you for standing up for the real swingers on this site OP, keep fighting that good fight!
You owe me a cup of coffee to replace what just came out as I sexy snort laughed."
He also owes a finger suck   |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Finally! Thank you for standing up for the real swingers on this site OP, keep fighting that good fight!
You owe me a cup of coffee to replace what just came out as I sexy snort laughed.
He also owes a finger suck "
To me? How dr*nk was I that I don't recall... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it really matter what consenting adults do...? Given the number of veris you have, the irony of this post is not lost one me..
Don't fall into that trap.
130 odd veris over a ten year period is around 1 a month. Hardly someone fucking everyone on the site.
Just for balance.......
A"
Tbh it could 130 in a month...I'd still pass no judgement.... actually I think I'd be impressed |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
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We got far to many men on here these days cos of only only a small number of women on here who will go with anything they meet are making hard work of it for us all
I'm confused.
Are you blaming women or men here?
This seems the female equivalent of men bemoaning other men for ruining their experience on Fab, rather than just focusing on doing what YOU want to do, choosing who YOU want to interact with and letting everyone else worry about themselves.
Nothing anyone else does affects your life on Fab. Ever.
A"
What she's saying is men think women are up for everyone and everything, because we're on a swingers' site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it really matter what consenting adults do...? Given the number of veris you have, the irony of this post is not lost one me..
Don't fall into that trap.
130 odd veris over a ten year period is around 1 a month. Hardly someone fucking everyone on the site.
Just for balance.......
A"
I was just doing the calculation when I saw you had already done so!
Also.... A number of veris could just be socials?
Purely for balance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finally! Thank you for standing up for the real swingers on this site OP, keep fighting that good fight!
You owe me a cup of coffee to replace what just came out as I sexy snort laughed."
I'll happily make you a new one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finally! Thank you for standing up for the real swingers on this site OP, keep fighting that good fight!
You owe me a cup of coffee to replace what just came out as I sexy snort laughed.
He also owes a finger suck "
Sssssshhhhhhhh... That was all in your imagination |
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"Does it really matter what consenting adults do...? Given the number of veris you have, the irony of this post is not lost one me..
Don't fall into that trap.
130 odd veris over a ten year period is around 1 a month. Hardly someone fucking everyone on the site.
Just for balance.......
A
I was just doing the calculation when I saw you had already done so!
Also.... A number of veris could just be socials?
Purely for balance "
That's where the irony about veris Is. Having a cup of tea with someone does not say they're safe or good in the bedroom lol.
Most serial killers came across as nice people to most folk |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
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We got far to many men on here these days cos of only only a small number of women on here who will go with anything they meet are making hard work of it for us all
I'm confused.
Are you blaming women or men here?
This seems the female equivalent of men bemoaning other men for ruining their experience on Fab, rather than just focusing on doing what YOU want to do, choosing who YOU want to interact with and letting everyone else worry about themselves.
Nothing anyone else does affects your life on Fab. Ever.
A
What she's saying is men think women are up for everyone and everything, because we're on a swingers' site."
Yep. But some do that regardless of how many or few men women have sex with.
The actions of a few won't change that and if every woman on the site only met 2 men a year then some would still join thinking a shag was guaranteed.
There's literally no cause and effect on volumes of men joining just because some women like a lot of sex.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Finally! Thank you for standing up for the real swingers on this site OP, keep fighting that good fight!
You owe me a cup of coffee to replace what just came out as I sexy snort laughed.
I'll happily make you a new one "
You've got yourself a deal, Mr. Beans |
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"Using the term "bike" is derogatory towards people who do like lots of partners.
Being "picky" doesn't make anyone better than anyone else.
We're all still fucking relative strangers. "
Spot on, as always Nanna x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"YES you can be a swinger and not be a bike
You don't have to fuck everything you meet
I don't for one thing
I play when its right to
Gone open this thread now see what folk say
Cos I will say this we have far more women stay on here if some single men on here did not assume its a free for all and did not message women on here as slappers
We got far to many men on here these days cos of only only a small number of women on here who will go with anything they meet are making hard work of it for us all
THIS ISN'T A FREE FOR ALL NORE SHOULD IY BE TREATED THAT WAY
Most swingers wont go with anything. We are picky who we go with
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You do what you want to and let others do what they want to do. Speak only for yourself and not for the 'most' and 'we'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!"
Best post on the thread lol |
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!"
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling. |
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling."
I'm not getting my Chopper out though |
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling.
I'm not getting my Chopper out though "
Oh go on |
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling."
Rolling… rolling… rolling |
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling.
I'm not getting my Chopper out though
Oh go on "
Only in the Garage in private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling.
I'm not getting my Chopper out though
Oh go on
Only in the Garage in private "
You don't have a garage  |
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling.
I'm not getting my Chopper out though
Oh go on
Only in the Garage in private "
Will you let me have a ride ?? |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
As a swinger, OP, I was unaware that I'd elected you as my spokesperson... Oh, wait a minute, I didn't; your views don't represent mine at all.
If a person (male or females) wishes to have a multitude of partners then that's their choice, let's them swing how they wish to and you do the same; totally judgement free. |
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling.
I'm not getting my Chopper out though
Oh go on
Only in the Garage in private
You don't have a garage "
Shusshh I'm flirting here |
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling.
I'm not getting my Chopper out though
Oh go on
Only in the Garage in private
You don't have a garage
Shusshh I'm flirting here "
Fucking hells bells… is that what it is? |
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling.
I'm not getting my Chopper out though
Oh go on
Only in the Garage in private
Will you let me have a ride ?? "
It does need good lubrication |
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling.
I'm not getting my Chopper out though
Oh go on
Only in the Garage in private
You don't have a garage
Shusshh I'm flirting here
Fucking hells bells… is that what it is? "
My attempt at it anyway |
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling.
I'm not getting my Chopper out though
Oh go on
Only in the Garage in private
You don't have a garage
Shusshh I'm flirting here
Fucking hells bells… is that what it is?
My attempt at it anyway "
Do you need some stabilisers?? |
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling.
I'm not getting my Chopper out though
Oh go on
Only in the Garage in private
You don't have a garage
Shusshh I'm flirting here
Fucking hells bells… is that what it is?
My attempt at it anyway "
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"This thread is wheely offensive.
The post doesn’t seat well with me.
I just can’t get a handle on it.
It’s a tyre-ing point of view.
A view the op really shouldn’t be peddling!
Look, she spoke her mind. She didn’t brake anything. Let’s just keep things rolling.
I'm not getting my Chopper out though
Oh go on
Only in the Garage in private
You don't have a garage
Shusshh I'm flirting here
Fucking hells bells… is that what it is?
My attempt at it anyway
Do you need some stabilisers?? "
I'm new to all this you see |
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