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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Something very unusual has happened
I have actually had a message from someone who I find attractive and that is looking for similar things
As a result, I have kinda been stunned into silence and am looking for things to put the alarm bells on full throttle
Like this can't be right - someone is setting me up here
What is your reaction to receiving messages from someone who stands out?
Genuine disbelief or genuine excitement and intrigue?
Does Fab ultimately pique our cynicism? |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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Breathe! You’re fabulous, OP - enjoy and reply!
But yeah, I’m always sent into a panic of ‘oh buggerations I’m such a let down this is going to go wrong!” and either don’t reply or put them off pretty quickly.
But don’t be me, lean in and enjoy!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had that a couple of times, where I’ve questioned myself. Wondering to myself “do they really mean me?”
Roll with it though, it’s awesome when it happens. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Breathe! You’re fabulous, OP - enjoy and reply!
But yeah, I’m always sent into a panic of ‘oh buggerations I’m such a let down this is going to go wrong!” and either don’t reply or put them off pretty quickly.
But don’t be me, lean in and enjoy! "
Some self doubt is healthy though, no? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve had that a couple of times, where I’ve questioned myself. Wondering to myself “do they really mean me?”
Roll with it though, it’s awesome when it happens. "
It's been a while  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Something very unusual has happened
I have actually had a message from someone who I find attractive and that is looking for similar things
As a result, I have kinda been stunned into silence and am looking for things to put the alarm bells on full throttle
Like this can't be right - someone is setting me up here
What is your reaction to receiving messages from someone who stands out?
Genuine disbelief or genuine excitement and intrigue?
Does Fab ultimately pique our cynicism?"
It's probably an AI Bot, Bussy.
Make sure they're not three squirrels in a raincoat before you shave your bits and iron your best shirt. 
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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago
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"Breathe! You’re fabulous, OP - enjoy and reply!
But yeah, I’m always sent into a panic of ‘oh buggerations I’m such a let down this is going to go wrong!” and either don’t reply or put them off pretty quickly.
But don’t be me, lean in and enjoy!
Some self doubt is healthy though, no?"
NO |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Something very unusual has happened
I have actually had a message from someone who I find attractive and that is looking for similar things
As a result, I have kinda been stunned into silence and am looking for things to put the alarm bells on full throttle
Like this can't be right - someone is setting me up here
What is your reaction to receiving messages from someone who stands out?
Genuine disbelief or genuine excitement and intrigue?
Does Fab ultimately pique our cynicism?
It's probably an AI Bot, Bussy.
Make sure they're not three squirrels in a raincoat before you shave your bits and iron your best shirt.
A"
Again?! |
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"Something very unusual has happened
I have actually had a message from someone who I find attractive and that is looking for similar things
As a result, I have kinda been stunned into silence and am looking for things to put the alarm bells on full throttle
Like this can't be right - someone is setting me up here
What is your reaction to receiving messages from someone who stands out?
Genuine disbelief or genuine excitement and intrigue?
Does Fab ultimately pique our cynicism?"
Do your due diligence....
How long on here?
Verifications?
Read theirs & senders?
Meet somewhere neutral is keen but unsure. |
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By *929Man
over a year ago
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Haha I understand the feeling maybe mate 2-3 over the last 5 years or so someone on here has messaged who just couldn’t believe In a million years would even be slightest bit interested in myself. Last one to do it I really regret and probably always will as fucked it up |
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"It's probably an AI Bot, Bussy.
Make sure they're not three squirrels in a raincoat before you shave your bits and iron your best shirt.
A"
Ooh, no one mentioned this was a possibility when arranging meets! I like squirrels 
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"It's probably an AI Bot, Bussy.
Make sure they're not three squirrels in a raincoat before you shave your bits and iron your best shirt.
A
Ooh, no one mentioned this was a possibility when arranging meets! I like squirrels
J"
Sorry J.
You're lacking the required equipment I'm afraid.
Squirrels like nibbling on nuts. 
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