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Messaged everyone , now what? Advice please!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, as title says, I've messaged everyone I'd be willing to travel/meet chat with, and whilst I've had some replies, some mild interest, majority are either unopened, or opened and never replied too lol...
So my question for guys and ladies is.. guys, what do you do in this situation? Re-message and hope that you don't come across as pestering? And girls, do you condone re-messaging or is an unread message universal code for : not interested?
Any advice welcome lol, I'd surely like my fab journey to be not over quite so soon! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you don't get a reply, they're not interested.
What exactly were you expecting to happen?
It's not ubershags..."
Well, as the message says, I'm not expecting anything hence seeking advice before acting further! Not expect everyone to fall upon me, no need to be condescending  |
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"If you don't get a reply, they're not interested.
What exactly were you expecting to happen?
It's not ubershags...
Well, as the message says, I'm not expecting anything hence seeking advice before acting further! Not expect everyone to fall upon me, no need to be condescending "
How would I know what the msg says? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Difficult.
I know some people simply give up on keeping on top of messages so unread just may mean missed.
Some people just delete everything to get to inbox zero.
And I've connected with people on second, third and fourth messages.
Imo, you can remessage if time has passed and you know the message wasn't read. But others will say that's not on. I guess that's what the block button is there for ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know a lot of women don't like dick pics. Read the forums. "
I know, ironically had.more replies with the dick pics than with the face pics, god knows what that says about my face  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you don't get a reply, they're not interested.
What exactly were you expecting to happen?
It's not ubershags...
Well, as the message says, I'm not expecting anything hence seeking advice before acting further! Not expect everyone to fall upon me, no need to be condescending
How would I know what the msg says? "
The message in the OP x my point was that, I'm asking for advice before I move forward, that's all. And there's some great advice and insight forthcoming, both positive and negative! |
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"Difficult.
I know some people simply give up on keeping on top of messages so unread just may mean missed.
Some people just delete everything to get to inbox zero.
And I've connected with people on second, third and fourth messages.
Imo, you can remessage if time has passed and you know the message wasn't read. But others will say that's not on. I guess that's what the block button is there for ..."
This is pretty fair. Although sometimes the first stays unread and is deleted because of we've seen enough in the summary to know there won't be compatibility. A profile pic with a cock as the main attraction (no torso etc) is pretty much an instant delete from me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, as title says, I've messaged everyone I'd be willing to travel/meet chat with, and whilst I've had some replies, some mild interest, majority are either unopened, or opened and never replied too lol...
So my question for guys and ladies is.. guys, what do you do in this situation? Re-message and hope that you don't come across as pestering? And girls, do you condone re-messaging or is an unread message universal code for : not interested?
Any advice welcome lol, I'd surely like my fab journey to be not over quite so soon! "
Have you tried slightly different postcodes in your search? It can throw up new profiles. The Fab map can be a bit odd.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Difficult.
I know some people simply give up on keeping on top of messages so unread just may mean missed.
Some people just delete everything to get to inbox zero.
And I've connected with people on second, third and fourth messages.
Imo, you can remessage if time has passed and you know the message wasn't read. But others will say that's not on. I guess that's what the block button is there for ...
This is pretty fair. Although sometimes the first stays unread and is deleted because of we've seen enough in the summary to know there won't be compatibility. A profile pic with a cock as the main attraction (no torso etc) is pretty much an instant delete from me.
J "
see, I know I'm worth replying to, so if it's unread it's definitely not because of the billion cock shots from the same angle I've attached or because I've simply said "faf"... It has to have been an oversight. 
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"You know a lot of women don't like dick pics. Read the forums.
I know, ironically had.more replies with the dick pics than with the face pics, god knows what that says about my face "
There you go then... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know a lot of women don't like dick pics. Read the forums.
I know, ironically had.more replies with the dick pics than with the face pics, god knows what that says about my face
There you go then..."
Thanks for your valuable input |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you’ve messaged everyone. You’ve completed Fab.
May as well delete account. "
and rejoin as a single female. That's the pro level... Not only are there more ppl to message, all the bastards reply back too. |
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"You know a lot of women don't like dick pics. Read the forums.
I know, ironically had.more replies with the dick pics than with the face pics, god knows what that says about my face
There you go then...
Thanks for your valuable input "
You're welcome |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
If I'd messaged everyone I was interested with little to no success then I'd worry less about who to try next and wonder more why all the messages already sent had born no fruit?
It's pointless focusing on message content and neglecting the important bit - your profile.
Some people could send us a simple 'hi' and if their profile impressed us and appealed we'd reply.
Others could send a detailed, well constructed message and it'll go unread as we view profiles long before opening a message. There's no point if the sender is the polar opposite of who we'd be interested in meeting.
Focus on the things you can do to improve your chances, not the things that should come second.
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"So, as title says, I've messaged everyone I'd be willing to travel/meet chat with, and whilst I've had some replies, some mild interest, majority are either unopened, or opened and never replied too lol...
So my question for guys and ladies is.. guys, what do you do in this situation? Re-message and hope that you don't come across as pestering? And girls, do you condone re-messaging or is an unread message universal code for : not interested?
Any advice welcome lol, I'd surely like my fab journey to be not over quite so soon! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you have messaged loads of people and got nothing back then your approach must is off. Maybe you need to look at a different way of going about it"
Lol, I've varied the approach and different approaches have yielded different results! so no way of correlating the evidence into anything tangible! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh dear, I don't really think this thread is going to do you many favours OP.
Try just taking a step back and think about what you're telling everyone on fab with your status and this thread.
'You've messaged everyone'
Then you're mentioning about considering sending a second message.
Your whole post screams of desperation.
I really do wonder what your expectations of the site were when you joined.
1. Nobody owes you a reply.
2. No reply is to be taken as 'No thank you' - it's covered in site FAQs
As others have said, sending a second message when you haven't received a reply to your first will just earn you a block.
You've only been on fab for 3 months. Most single men don't get their first meet until they've been here for about a year.
You are aware that single men outnumber the ladies by over 100 to 1.
Think about how many messages women must get on here from people like yourself.
Could you cope with a full inbox every day?
People have lives outside of fab. Give them time. Be patient.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I'd messaged everyone I was interested with little to no success then I'd worry less about who to try next and wonder more why all the messages already sent had born no fruit?
It's pointless focusing on message content and neglecting the important bit - your profile.
Some people could send us a simple 'hi' and if their profile impressed us and appealed we'd reply.
Others could send a detailed, well constructed message and it'll go unread as we view profiles long before opening a message. There's no point if the sender is the polar opposite of who we'd be interested in meeting.
Focus on the things you can do to improve your chances, not the things that should come second.
A"
Thanks for the reply! So in my experience, only folks who view my profile are men, even women. Who reply rarely view it ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I'd messaged everyone I was interested with little to no success then I'd worry less about who to try next and wonder more why all the messages already sent had born no fruit?
It's pointless focusing on message content and neglecting the important bit - your profile.
Some people could send us a simple 'hi' and if their profile impressed us and appealed we'd reply.
Others could send a detailed, well constructed message and it'll go unread as we view profiles long before opening a message. There's no point if the sender is the polar opposite of who we'd be interested in meeting.
Focus on the things you can do to improve your chances, not the things that should come second.
A
Thanks for the reply! So in my experience, only folks who view my profile are men, even women. Who reply rarely view it ??"
Most women and a lot of couples view in  mode and so you'll never know that they've checked out your profile, but believe me, if you've messaged them, they have |
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
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I have missed messages. And lost messages from people that I liked because I am totally not on top of the Fabmin. Someone that resent the same message or sent another message within a short period will probably get deleted. Someone who sent a new message a couple weeks later and it was clear they had read my (far too long) profile. I would be fine with that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, as title says, I've messaged everyone I'd be willing to travel/meet chat with, and whilst I've had some replies, some mild interest, majority are either unopened, or opened and never replied too lol...
So my question for guys and ladies is.. guys, what do you do in this situation? Re-message and hope that you don't come across as pestering? And girls, do you condone re-messaging or is an unread message universal code for : not interested?
Any advice welcome lol, I'd surely like my fab journey to be not over quite so soon! "
Ok. If you message someone and they read it and don't reply. Give it a day as they might be busy. If no reply. DONT message again. Delete your message. They are not interested. Depends what your message says. Be nice. Start with, hello I'm ( your name) I like your profile and would love to hear back from you if your interested.
Just keep one or two cock pics and keep others on friend only and state in profile that you can share pics on request. Yes, I know I've got more on mine but I don't approach first very often.
People don't like pushy people. Once a contact is established then you can message more. Good luck |
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"Thanks for the reply! So in my experience, only folks who view my profile are men, even women. Who reply rarely view it ??"
The vast majority of women and couples are in ninja mode. They will always check your profile before a reply and you would have no idea.
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
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Most women and a lot of couples view in mode and so you'll never know that they've checked out your profile, but believe me, if you've messaged them, they have"
Oh god yeah I am not letting people see I am checking their profile. Partly for perving purposes. Partly because just reading one send a flurry of messages that I don't want. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"If I'd messaged everyone I was interested with little to no success then I'd worry less about who to try next and wonder more why all the messages already sent had born no fruit?
It's pointless focusing on message content and neglecting the important bit - your profile.
Some people could send us a simple 'hi' and if their profile impressed us and appealed we'd reply.
Others could send a detailed, well constructed message and it'll go unread as we view profiles long before opening a message. There's no point if the sender is the polar opposite of who we'd be interested in meeting.
Focus on the things you can do to improve your chances, not the things that should come second.
A
Thanks for the reply! So in my experience, only folks who view my profile are men, even women. Who reply rarely view it ??
Most women and a lot of couples view in mode and so you'll never know that they've checked out your profile, but believe me, if you've messaged them, they have"
Yep. We're ninjas. Nobody knows when we perve....I mean 'view' a profile.
But we do it 100% of the time before opening a message. And if there's nothing in there of interest we delete the message and often block too. It's the easiest way to work, guarantees there'll be no future approaches from them and saves time writing replies.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh dear, I don't really think this thread is going to do you many favours OP.
Try just taking a step back and think about what you're telling everyone on fab with your status and this thread.
'You've messaged everyone'
Then you're mentioning about considering sending a second message.
Your whole post screams of desperation.
I really do wonder what your expectations of the site were when you joined.
1. Nobody owes you a reply.
2. No reply is to be taken as 'No thank you' - it's covered in site FAQs
As others have said, sending a second message when you haven't received a reply to your first will just earn you a block.
You've only been on fab for 3 months. Most single men don't get their first meet until they've been here for about a year.
You are aware that single men outnumber the ladies by over 100 to 1.
Think about how many messages women must get on here from people like yourself.
Could you cope with a full inbox every day?
People have lives outside of fab. Give them time. Be patient.
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Lol, your probably right, it is possibly an expression of desperation, but not for the reason you think, I'm not desperate for meets or sex , despite what the assumption probably is, I'm desperate to understand the etiquette/ logic / process of how people view unread messages. I have a verified couples profile, and have experience the other side of the fence, but I only know our personal situation with regards to unopened messages, and as this thread has already shown, people's opinions are varied. My intent with this post wasn't to change my success rates, just to consider the best way to proceed! |
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"So, as title says, I've messaged everyone I'd be willing to travel/meet chat with, and whilst I've had some replies, some mild interest, majority are either unopened, or opened and never replied too lol...
So my question for guys and ladies is.. guys, what do you do in this situation? Re-message and hope that you don't come across as pestering? And girls, do you condone re-messaging or is an unread message universal code for : not interested?
Any advice welcome lol, I'd surely like my fab journey to be not over quite so soon! "
Get to clubs and organised Socials |
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"Haha, I forgot about ninja mode 
Well thanks everyone for your advice , varied and often scathing advice but all solicited so cannot complain! "
Just try revamping the pics and see if it helps
Like lots of others said, a club or social would be great |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Honestly, we wouldn’t be interested just because of the amount of dick pics on your profile. Yes we like a dick, but there are so many on here!
Hope this helps"
Would have to agree, to put it in perspective i get at least 15 messages every day from mens profiles who pictures are just cock pics. Thats me on a guys profile, now imagine the numbers couples/single females get daily.
It gets boring after the first 20 profiles. Thats a good and fairly easy way to mix your profile up and make you stand out above the rest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say lose the dick pics or at least some of them and add more clothed pics.
Also a bit more info in your profile would be good .
Good luck and hope this helps  |
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Stop leading with your dick. No matter how nice you think your messages are, people don’t want stranger’s unsolicited dicks in their face, so are likely deleting your messages unread because of the first impression you are currently giving. Change your profile picture to something other than your erect peen, set that pic to private, and wait for people to ask to see it before you send it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Haha, I forgot about ninja mode
Well thanks everyone for your advice , varied and often scathing advice but all solicited so cannot complain!
Just try revamping the pics and see if it helps
Like lots of others said, a club or social would be great"
The dick picks are the revamp from the face pics only lol. Wife's advice, lol think she's trying to sabotage me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP it says on your profile that you are happily married - suggest you set up a couples profile, you may get more luck with that (though possibly your wife will and you may then get jealous).
Personally, I would get rid of the dick pics, but who am I to give advice when my pics are kept hidden (or if public non revealing) - plus you say you have had most success with the dick pic (but I really find it a very strange approach).
Also, amazed that you say that "I've messaged everyone I'd be willing to travel/meet chat with" - that sounds like a blanket approach, and guessing there was a lot of copy and paste. I would find that off putting. But then again, I tend not to message anyone unless their profile/update suddenly catches my attention - prefer not to bother people (though there are plenty in the Forum who make me smile). |
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"Haha, I forgot about ninja mode
Well thanks everyone for your advice , varied and often scathing advice but all solicited so cannot complain!
Just try revamping the pics and see if it helps
Like lots of others said, a club or social would be great
The dick picks are the revamp from the face pics only lol. Wife's advice, lol think she's trying to sabotage me "
That's another issue then, you're married.
I read every single msg, unless I can see from the preview that it's crude. I will reply if I'm remotely interested, or with some constructive criticism of I think they have some promise. Otherwise it's a no. But I also delete all the messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't bother with sending messages on here. Doesn't really lead anywhere. Focus on socialising through events/forum"
Thinking I've burned any hope in these forums  lol, maybe ill wait for the heat to die down, change profile name, put.my peen away and come back later lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Haha, I forgot about ninja mode
Well thanks everyone for your advice , varied and often scathing advice but all solicited so cannot complain!
Just try revamping the pics and see if it helps
Like lots of others said, a club or social would be great
The dick picks are the revamp from the face pics only lol. Wife's advice, lol think she's trying to sabotage me
That's another issue then, you're married.
I read every single msg, unless I can see from the preview that it's crude. I will reply if I'm remotely interested, or with some constructive criticism of I think they have some promise. Otherwise it's a no. But I also delete all the messages."
Well thanks for the insight! I may have a dick pick, but I am a person behind the dick pick haha. And yes, I'm married and have a couples profile, and have done meets, but we are trying solo profiles, and yeah, much different experience this side of the fence. It's brutal honestly lol , I don't think there's one approach that works for everyone, and when you study a profile, and tailor your advances to that person , and still come up empty 9 times out of 10, I do see why people start to be lackluster with their efforts.
Still, this has been very insightful and enlightening! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's too many in my inbox to even get to some of the messages to be able to read them.
Delete from your sent box and don't think about it.
I may reply to someone in two weeks time because it may have taken me that long to get to their message. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Having an unwrapped cock having sex would be an instant delete from me and anyone who cares about their sexual health.
Even when it's.my wife? "
If you have a couples profile on here, verified and you've met from that - then put the profile name on your solo profile so people can reference it.
Many couples play separately and do just that so that people can be sure it's the truth.
Many single people claim to have had successful previous profiles, say they're part of a couple on here and that they are returning members and that they had elevtybillion veris on their old now deleted profile. All without a shred of evidence.
Seeing is believing. Otherwise it's just words on a page.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you've completed level 1. Time for level 2. Clubs. "
Wait I thought Level 2 was having a forum whinge Level 3 is clubs. Level 4 is forum meltdown. Level 5 move off grid develop sexual internet in penguins. |
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My solution to the whole no response problem is to throw a spanner in the works.
I don't message anyone and haven't done in 3½ years so see how they like that with their no response attitude!
That confuses the matrix and they have to plug in and find me and my glitch.
I've built it so obviously they will cum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I were you and I got no reply that’s a clear message not interested so just move on. As a woman I can’t abide being pestered it’s just creepy and annoying.
If you’re not getting anywhere like you’ve stated I’d try the clubs you’ll find people who are more receptive I think. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you've completed level 1. Time for level 2. Clubs.
Wait I thought Level 2 was having a forum whinge Level 3 is clubs. Level 4 is forum meltdown. Level 5 move off grid develop sexual internet in penguins. "
Im definitely in the penguins then |
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I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply "
You just need mine Samantha. It's right here. Click on the name bit  |
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over a year ago
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply "
Question is, did he message you? |
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply
You just need mine Samantha. It's right here. Click on the name bit "
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply
Question is, did he message you?"
Not that I’m aware of |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply
Question is, did he message you?
Not that I’m aware of "
Only two outcomes here then...he's lying or ...... |
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply
Question is, did he message you?
Not that I’m aware of
Only two outcomes here then...he's lying or ...... "
Dorset to Newcastle is quite a long way to travel for a shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply
Question is, did he message you?
Not that I’m aware of
Only two outcomes here then...he's lying or ......
Dorset to Newcastle is quite a long way to travel for a shag "
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"Keep messaging, they likely just got distracted and forgot to reply and need a reminder "
Seriously? That like pulling pin out of hand grenade and asking him to hold it whilst playing hide & seek  |
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply
Question is, did he message you?
Not that I’m aware of
Only two outcomes here then...he's lying or ......
Dorset to Newcastle is quite a long way to travel for a shag "
I can step up for him, I'm a little closer |
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply
Question is, did he message you?
Not that I’m aware of
Only two outcomes here then...he's lying or ......
Dorset to Newcastle is quite a long way to travel for a shag
I can step up for him, I'm a little closer "
Only a mere six hours |
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply
Question is, did he message you?
Not that I’m aware of
Only two outcomes here then...he's lying or ......
Dorset to Newcastle is quite a long way to travel for a shag
I can step up for him, I'm a little closer
Only a mere six hours "
3 hours for me, but we'd have to meet half way. It's a bloody trek! |
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By *929Man
over a year ago
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"Keep messaging, they likely just got distracted and forgot to reply and need a reminder
Seriously? That like pulling pin out of hand grenade and asking him to hold it whilst playing hide & seek "
Haha I was working on the assumption he’d have the sense not to take my advice seriously but kind of hoped he would take it serious |
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply
Question is, did he message you?
Not that I’m aware of
Only two outcomes here then...he's lying or ......
Dorset to Newcastle is quite a long way to travel for a shag
I can step up for him, I'm a little closer
Only a mere six hours "
Well by that assumption in hours I'm definitely nearer |
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply
Question is, did he message you?
Not that I’m aware of
Only two outcomes here then...he's lying or ......
Dorset to Newcastle is quite a long way to travel for a shag
I can step up for him, I'm a little closer
Only a mere six hours
3 hours for me, but we'd have to meet half way. It's a bloody trek!"
Three hours is a stones throw |
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"I find it hard to comprehend that you could have messaged every woman that you may have an interest in… I could browse mens profiles all day every day and still never reach the end of the list
Have you tried searching by different postcodes or slightly different age filters?
Definitely don’t double message. I (and many others) will block if someone messages a second time with no response. It’s just irritating and needy. If someone is interested, they will reply
Question is, did he message you?
Not that I’m aware of
Only two outcomes here then...he's lying or ......
Dorset to Newcastle is quite a long way to travel for a shag
I can step up for him, I'm a little closer
Only a mere six hours "
All I read was sex hours |
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"If you don't get a reply, they're not interested.
What exactly were you expecting to happen?
It's not ubershags..."
This!! ^^^^^^
What an idea! Go on the website, we’ll call it “H**kers who hook and Gigolo’s with a jiggle” (we’ll work on that), choose your poison, a couple of clicks and they’re driven to your door!
I think we have the makings of the new internet business of the year!!
Now for the Dragons! |
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Personally I'd send again.
At time of writing I have 34 unreads in my inbox. It's nothing personal, it's just that a lot of them don't inspire me to respond right away. I'll get round to it at some point.
So yes, re-send but make messages interesting and personalised. |
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