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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get the messages on the apps and the sites. In person I think people most people do not find me attractive. Unsurprising but I’m not tryna fuck randoms on the street so who cares |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What was before apps and the internet!!
The real art of flirt,apptoach,eye-contact,laughs some still have and was the Norm.
But being lost very fast coz of this new wave and style of smart screen and buttons. |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"What was before apps and the internet!!
The real art of flirt,apptoach,eye-contact,laughs some still have and was the Norm.
But being lost very fast coz of this new wave and style of smart screen and buttons. "
,, this is abs true young man,, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get the messages on the apps and the sites. In person I think people most people do not find me attractive. Unsurprising but I’m not tryna fuck randoms on the street so who cares "
Reality of the times.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you get attention in public at all from women ? Or is it just here and on dating sites you don’t actually get messages?
Curious!"
I occasionally do but it’s usually the monotonous questions about my dreadlocks, don’t get me wrong their great conversation starters but it got boring years ago  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What was before apps and the internet!!
The real art of flirt,apptoach,eye-contact,laughs some still have and was the Norm.
But being lost very fast coz of this new wave and style of smart screen and buttons. ,, this is abs true young man,,"
Why thank you for the confirmation.
May the old skool classics long last and get recognised for that Art-form and style.
Not many clammering to that way i see lol |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"Mr actually does get quite a bit of attention at work. It's usually from dogs or old women though
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,,, funny how a lot of ladies stop and chat when with the dog they find him so handsome,, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mr actually does get quite a bit of attention at work. It's usually from dogs or old women though
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"Dogs & Old women " whom all were strutting their Wiggle afew yrs ago now over looked and labeld old dogs.
Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mr actually does get quite a bit of attention at work. It's usually from dogs or old women though
F,,, funny how a lot of ladies stop and chat when with the dog they find him so handsome,,"
"Barking Mad " i would say on all levels .
Up the park from me,many dont know how to walk a dog,let alone have eye contact and conversation!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my opinion a lot of men think they’re getting attention when women are being polite or smiling. Women are usually oblivious to attention because they think men are just being polite or smiling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of attention from greatful little old ladies that I help across the road.
Flirty attention from the checkout girls in the Co-Op as we exchange pleasantries while packing my frozen peas.
Then there are the yummy mummy's outside of school who like to share stories about how our particular sprog is superior to all other sprogs, ever.
Occasionally eyes will meet in the fresh produce isle of Asda and I will flash a curious, yet slightly embarrassed expression while she returns the flirt with angry bitch face. If she is leaning over and picking up a cucumber in a provocative way, on a warm spring day with a low cut top perfectly displaying her wares while I'm around, well, what else am I supposed to look at?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I get more attention irl than on here, but depends on the context. Whether it's a little flirting, or passing glances. Seems to matter less that I have a partner irl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion a lot of men think they’re getting attention when women are being polite or smiling. Women are usually oblivious to attention because they think men are just being polite or smiling."
We many have never been taught or even aware of body language,signals. Or Micro expressions,
So mostly much and all is misunderstood mainly! If that is so in the real world!
Imagine on app's,texts and smartphones it is a Mish mash!" |
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Apparently I get a decent amount, but it's usually someone else telling me about it rather than me noticing for myself.
There was a lady who works in the supermarket near me, who I spoke to everytime I went in and normally went to her till because I liked to chat. It wasn't until I went in with a few female friends of mine that they told me that she was infact rather keen on me the whole time. I thought she was just being friendly .
Got called pretty hot for a dad a few weeks back, whilst walking with my daughters by a group that couldn't have been older than 20, that made me more uncomfortable than flattered though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion a lot of men think they’re getting attention when women are being polite or smiling. Women are usually oblivious to attention because they think men are just being polite or smiling."
100 per cent this. We gotta stay humble |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
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"In my opinion a lot of men think they’re getting attention when women are being polite or smiling. Women are usually oblivious to attention because they think men are just being polite or smiling."
when they get there tits out and ask if you think they have grown i agree thats a very kind thing to do  |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Do you get attention in public at all from women ? Or is it just here and on dating sites you don’t actually get messages?
Curious!"
of course you are but in my case i do better in person |
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I was going to try and comment a funny answer but the truth is that yes I receive more attention on the street than on here.
I am sure that it’s because in real life people can see body language etc while fab is just judgment quickly based on photos and text.
For example my humour is very dry and you can convey that easily in text so it gets taken wrongly.
Even a simple smile is different in RL compared to a photo.
For those that think that Fab should be easier than on street, maybe you need to up your rizz
Marc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was going to try and comment a funny answer but the truth is that yes I receive more attention on the street than on here.
I am sure that it’s because in real life people can see body language etc while fab is just judgment quickly based on photos and text.
For example my humour is very dry and you can convey that easily in text so it gets taken wrongly.
Even a simple smile is different in RL compared to a photo.
For those that think that Fab should be easier than on street, maybe you need to up your rizz
Marc"
110% agree all day long. Been saying say for 2 yrs since been on here.
Cant beat the real thing in person.
You make it,or break it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you get attention in public at all from women ? Or is it just here and on dating sites you don’t actually get messages?
Curious!"
Mr does, all the time. A lot more than before. He says it is his BDE, although he does seem to be getting better looking as each day passes, the bastard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my mates gets annoyed at “attention” I’m getting (that I don’t notice), for example recently he got pissed off because the waitress at the restaurant was supposedly flirting with me, but wouldn’t make eye contact with him? Tbh I thought she was just making conversation.
Another regular occurrence is that women will come up and start talking with us in a bar, and after they’ve left he’ll get frustrated that they were flirting, or ignoring him, and that I don’t notice it.
I honestly can’t tell if it’s really happening or if he’s just paranoid. I’m pretty much in my own world when I’m out and about unless I’m in “the mood”. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Do you get attention in public at all from women ? Or is it just here and on dating sites you don’t actually get messages?
Curious!"
Ah I see what you did here!
Fuck no is the answer. Once I chat to them though, either super hit or a quick polite miss  |
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