Have a deep conversation about what she likes about the idea of swinging and what she hopes to get out of it by participating.
Thinking about it and actually doing it are two different things.
I found it a bit of a shock the first time I met others on here.
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"Have a deep conversation about what she likes about the idea of swinging and what she hopes to get out of it by participating.
Thinking about it and actually doing it are two different things.
I found it a bit of a shock the first time I met others on here.
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Hi we was speaking about it last weekend and I've always told her I wanna watch her with other men when she came out with she wants to watch me with another woman as well and that she's been wanting to play with women as well x |
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"Hi we was speaking about it last weekend and I've always told her I wanna watch her with other men when she came out with she wants to watch me with another woman as well and that she's been wanting to play with women as well x"
Well it is probably best to introduce her to the social side first like meeting others at a club, I've never been to a club myself so can't make a suggestion on that one. I did find meeting in someone's home very intimidating to start for my first meet, but I was in a couple then. |
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It would depend on what she's looking for, if she is looking for extra guys or single ladies (good luck with that), or swapping with other couples. Many clubs have nights when single guys are not allowed, these can generally be less stressful for newcomers. |
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I think a club is the best way to start. Feels safer than meeting at someone else's home, it's also a nice environment and from our experience everyone is very respectful and friendly. There's no pressure to play as well so can go at your own pace. |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
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"I think a club is the best way to start. Feels safer than meeting at someone else's home, it's also a nice environment and from our experience everyone is very respectful and friendly. There's no pressure to play as well so can go at your own pace."
perfect, precise and powerful advice
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"I really think she would be calmer if single guys were not allowed and was just couples to play with "
Most clubs have a single ladies and couples only evening, you could start with that. Also a club doesn't bring pressure to play like a meet does. |
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