I just love effeminate men , and trans femme. I'm pansexual so maybe it's just I like a mix of both genders. I can't explain why I just know that's where my main attraction Is. Cis women are actually at the bottom of my attraction list. |
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Am not offended by any word a Dom wants to call me, I actually adore the humiliation, being called faggot really excites me, but guess Alpha Dom’s want someone to do as we are told when told to do it without question and immediately without thought and showing much pleasure in pleasing/obeying him. Having said that I am equally sub with a Domme woman xxx |
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I like the word ‘sissy’ in play and as I enjoy humiliation when playing, I don’t have an issue with it myself.
However I do sympathise with those who don’t like it or think it’s ‘ick’. It certainly shouldn’t be used by anyone unless the recipient has indicated it’s not a problem.
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"I like the word ‘sissy’ in play and as I enjoy humiliation when playing, I don’t have an issue with it myself.
However I do sympathise with those who don’t like it or think it’s ‘ick’. It certainly shouldn’t be used by anyone unless the recipient has indicated it’s not a problem.
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I that's probably one of the main points of difference. I love bondage and kink and am a bottom/sub but have absolutely no interest in degradation so the humiliation aspect is totally lost on me. Each to their own though, we all enjoy different things and just because I don't like something doesn't mean someone else can't enjoy it. |
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"Because they like to think of themselves as alphas.
Nothing gives me the ick more than a self identified 'Alpha'"
Or a Sigma. Or a super mega domly dom in general. Or, in fact, a sissy.
The dynamic is determined by both parties for me. If someone is adamant they're something and expect me to behave a certain way for their benefit, they can fuck right off  |
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"I like the word ‘sissy’ in play and as I enjoy humiliation when playing, I don’t have an issue with it myself.
However I do sympathise with those who don’t like it or think it’s ‘ick’. It certainly shouldn’t be used by anyone unless the recipient has indicated it’s not a problem.
I that's probably one of the main points of difference. I love bondage and kink and am a bottom/sub but have absolutely no interest in degradation so the humiliation aspect is totally lost on me. Each to their own though, we all enjoy different things and just because I don't like something doesn't mean someone else can't enjoy it."
Absolutely it’s all play in the end.
I don’t like leather or latex, it’s the frilly stuff with me. However I can see why it’s sexy or a turn on for a lot of people.
Bondage is fun with a bit of spanking.
As you say, each to their own   |
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"Because they like to think of themselves as alphas.
Nothing gives me the ick more than a self identified 'Alpha'
Or a Sigma. Or a super mega domly dom in general. Or, in fact, a sissy.
The dynamic is determined by both parties for me. If someone is adamant they're something and expect me to behave a certain way for their benefit, they can fuck right off "
Yeah that's a big aspect of it. The label comes with an expectation of who you are supposed to be rather than who you actually are. It's usually a weird misunderstood and distorted version, where some surface traits are observed and assigned but without any underlying understanding.
I'm pretty sure people who identify as sigma's just wanted to be an 'Alpha' but realised they did fit the description so made a new one that suits socially awkward introverts.
I could really go on about this.... |
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