What's your weakness when it comes the ol' coital sexy time?
Are you buckling at the knees for a peachy bum/a nice body?
Does intelligence trigger an influx of hormones?
Is it an accent which sends your aural senses into overdrive?
Or even a beautiful face which sends you into a frenzy?
Hearing a nice accent kicks things off for me. Then the intelligence to hold your own in a conversation, or flirty back and forth, produces the icing on the cake  (no pun intended, I'm an angel  ) |
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""I'll let you know when to breathe."
I don't think there's anything specific generally. If I'm into someone I'm into it. If I'm not, I'm not."
Personality maybe? Or is it the unique package and an amalgamation of all the traits? |
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""I'll let you know when to breathe."
I don't think there's anything specific generally. If I'm into someone I'm into it. If I'm not, I'm not.
Personality maybe? Or is it the unique package and an amalgamation of all the traits?"
Just chemistry I think.
I like a pretty mouth. I like dark humour. I like a sadistic streak. I like a lot of things. But there are people with all of the things I like that just fall flat for me and others with next to none who cause huge hormone spikes. |
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"Certain words absolutely make me catch my breath. And they don’t have to be said in person. Sometimes just on text with the right person is enough to do it  "
Are we talking sexy words or am I randomly going to say 'incongruent' at some point and accidentally send you wild?   |
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"Voices can tip me over the edge, a deep masculine man who tells me what I am doing to him, how good I look/feel... omg yes please! "
I hear that! (No pun intended). There's definitely a place for talking in the bedroom. Doesn't necessarily need to be mad smutty, as long as the intent is there and it matches the moment |
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"Certain words absolutely make me catch my breath. And they don’t have to be said in person. Sometimes just on text with the right person is enough to do it
Are we talking sexy words or am I randomly going to say 'incongruent' at some point and accidentally send you wild? "
Not necessarily sexy words no. And you’re safe with incongruent don’t worry  |
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""I'll let you know when to breathe."
I don't think there's anything specific generally. If I'm into someone I'm into it. If I'm not, I'm not.
Personality maybe? Or is it the unique package and an amalgamation of all the traits?
Just chemistry I think.
I like a pretty mouth. I like dark humour. I like a sadistic streak. I like a lot of things. But there are people with all of the things I like that just fall flat for me and others with next to none who cause huge hormone spikes."
That's fair. For me, in the past, certain people have been perfect on paper but real life didn't meet the expectations maybe.
None of it is an absolute science to be fair so if someone works for you then I'm all for rolling with it |
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The biggest single turn-on for me is someone who would not normally self-describe as submissive finding themselves instinctively moving into that dynamic with me, verbally, physically, or sometimes just with her eyes.
That is a proper all-systems-alert, DEFCON 4, sharp-intake-of-breath, here-we-fucking-go moment. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
It comes down to connection. A feeling or pull to want to be closer and naked. This usually comes from getting to know the person, make me laugh and that's half the battle. Very (very) rarely but oh so amazing is when very little is said but a kiss that sparks a hunger deep within begging for more |
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"A lady ruining my arsehole with a strap on, like Versuvious ruined Pompei
You’re on "
Are you lady though LB can you tap I to your inner Domme.....but be warned I'm a brat and i'll fight you every step of telhe way |
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"A lady ruining my arsehole with a strap on, like Versuvious ruined Pompei
You’re on
Are you lady though LB can you tap I to your inner Domme.....but be warned I'm a brat and i'll fight you every step of telhe way "
You won’t win… my inner Domme is strong at the moment  |
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"Certain words absolutely make me catch my breath. And they don’t have to be said in person. Sometimes just on text with the right person is enough to do it
Are we talking sexy words or am I randomly going to say 'incongruent' at some point and accidentally send you wild?
Not necessarily sexy words no. And you’re safe with incongruent don’t worry "
"Bassoon"
Random word in a deep voice |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I love being able to laugh and relax around someone, it means I can switch off from the outside world and enjoy them in that moment.
Oh and kissing, such a big thing for me; those gentle kisses that quickly give way to the more urgent, hands wandering sort of kissing. I love seeing someone's eyes darken with lust for me. The way a voice softens or becomes huskier with need, the words that gently fall from their mouth in the moment. Or are said in that primal "fuck I need you Meli" kind of way. I adore someone who isn't afraid to kiss me that little bit harder, hold my hips firmer, relish my body in a way that leaves me almost breathless.
I think that all of those components (bar the opening paragraph) kind of lead to the same thing... feeling desired.
If I feel like someone truly desires me in the moment, as much as I want them, I'm quickly intoxicated by their presence and find every sense is heightened in the very best of ways. It's that desire feedback loop and one that's utterly delicious to lean in to.
So, that's my weakness. Unashamed, unfiltered, primal desire in the person I'm with. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
It can be a myriad of things that spark it. Big beautiful eyes, a sexy voice, the spark of intelligence and passion…
Sometimes though, very rarely, it’s an electric current of ineffable power, a physical drawstring that pulls you to a person. That’s the stuff that builds and makes a mockery of any definition or reason |
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For me it's the package, from a look to how they hold themselves and intelligence/imagination is also a turn on.
Being a man we are visual creatures it's in our DNA. So do love a woman in high heels and especially boots teamed with stockings |
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"Certain words absolutely make me catch my breath. And they don’t have to be said in person. Sometimes just on text with the right person is enough to do it
Are we talking sexy words or am I randomly going to say 'incongruent' at some point and accidentally send you wild?
Not necessarily sexy words no. And you’re safe with incongruent don’t worry
"Bassoon"
Random word in a deep voice "
There was a stirring then… |
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I'm not going to reply to everyone (for fear of killing the thread with my inane drivel) but some great comments which give a lot of points of view.
I started by saying my 2 weaknesses but the more I read the more a bit of everyone's trigger a different level of stirring in my brain.
In a basic, carnal, summation, the end result is the same. As long as you enjoy your journey then who are others to say what's right or wrong
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"I love being able to laugh and relax around someone, it means I can switch off from the outside world and enjoy them in that moment.
Oh and kissing, such a big thing for me; those gentle kisses that quickly give way to the more urgent, hands wandering sort of kissing. I love seeing someone's eyes darken with lust for me. The way a voice softens or becomes huskier with need, the words that gently fall from their mouth in the moment. Or are said in that primal "fuck I need you Meli" kind of way. I adore someone who isn't afraid to kiss me that little bit harder, hold my hips firmer, relish my body in a way that leaves me almost breathless.
I think that all of those components (bar the opening paragraph) kind of lead to the same thing... feeling desired.
If I feel like someone truly desires me in the moment, as much as I want them, I'm quickly intoxicated by their presence and find every sense is heightened in the very best of ways. It's that desire feedback loop and one that's utterly delicious to lean in to.
So, that's my weakness. Unashamed, unfiltered, primal desire in the person I'm with. "
Love this response. Incredibly well written, Madame |
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It’s all oral fixated with me. (Don’t be filthy)…
I like a pretty mouth. The words that someone chooses to use & the intent behind them. An accent, a timbre & tone. Pacing & speed. And do they shut up & listen (really listen) to your response, or even look or feel your response. Filthy words whispered at just the right moment (which on occasion is well it the incorrect moment, but that’s another story).
And the kisses, the little barely there kisses that start the butterflies and leave you wanting more. Or the slower, deeper more needy & greedy ones. The little nips & nibbles & bites.
And now you can get filthy |
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"A lady ruining my arsehole with a strap on, like Versuvious ruined Pompei
You’re on
Are you lady though LB can you tap I to your inner Domme.....but be warned I'm a brat and i'll fight you every step of telhe way
You won’t win… my inner Domme is strong at the moment "
You forget we've just spoken on thr phone, inner delusion is strong in you LB |
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"It’s all oral fixated with me. (Don’t be filthy)…
I like a pretty mouth. The words that someone chooses to use & the intent behind them. An accent, a timbre & tone. Pacing & speed. And do they shut up & listen (really listen) to your response, or even look or feel your response. Filthy words whispered at just the right moment (which on occasion is well it the incorrect moment, but that’s another story).
And the kisses, the little barely there kisses that start the butterflies and leave you wanting more. Or the slower, deeper more needy & greedy ones. The little nips & nibbles & bites.
And now you can get filthy "
I'll join you on the words. I always try to be very considered in what I say. Tone and intonation can be delectable tools if used correctly.
As for the 2nd bit, my mind thanks you for permission |
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A dominant kinky women with Intelligence, wit and kindness would turn me to mush.
Similar with men.
Latex. Everyone looks better in latex.
An edgy sharp fashion sense is also very attractive. Some Anglomania or McQueen.
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"A lady ruining my arsehole with a strap on, like Versuvious ruined Pompei
You’re on
Are you lady though LB can you tap I to your inner Domme.....but be warned I'm a brat and i'll fight you every step of telhe way
You won’t win… my inner Domme is strong at the moment
You forget we've just spoken on thr phone, inner delusion is strong in you LB "
You are so in trouble brat |
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