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Someone I've never met has asked me to get them an uber to my place

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By *ervent_fervour OP   Man  over a year ago

Halifax

I ummed and ahhed and eventually said no.

Tell me I did the sensible thing?

Apart from the possible scam issue there would be a unhealthy power dynamic there I'd be unhappy with even it wasn't a scam.

Then again,she could have been lovely, and, as she mentioned, poor,and I've just missed out on an experience?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Also beware anyone mentioning they're poor and asking you to pay for anything

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman  over a year ago

In the clouds

Yes don't have strangers in your home

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You did the sensible thing

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman  over a year ago

In the clouds


"Also beware anyone mentioning they're poor and asking you to pay for anything"

Yes a bit weird... and needy

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By *mf123Man  over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Could have been ubercalifragilisticexpialidocious

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By *ate_BMan  over a year ago

London


"I ummed and ahhed and eventually said no.

Tell me I did the sensible thing?

Apart from the possible scam issue there would be a unhealthy power dynamic there I'd be unhappy with even it wasn't a scam.

Then again,she could have been lovely, and, as she mentioned, poor,and I've just missed out on an experience?"

You thought with the right head. Kudos to you Sir.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Probably a good idea to report the profile too

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Seriously...you really have to ask??

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By *ervent_fervour OP   Man  over a year ago

Halifax


"Probably a good idea to report the profile too"

Ah. It was on H[inge.

They did say they were poor too.

We were talking about Camus only thirty mins previously,amongst other things, so they seemed relatively legit.

Ah well.

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By *ervent_fervour OP   Man  over a year ago

Halifax


"Seriously...you really have to ask?? "

Is that a rhetorical question..?

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By *ate_BMan  over a year ago

London


"Probably a good idea to report the profile too

Ah. It was on H[inge.

They did say they were poor too.

We were talking about Camus only thirty mins previously,amongst other things, so they seemed relatively legit.

Ah well."

Hmmm….could’ve been a wonderful night

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I ummed and ahhed and eventually said no.

Tell me I did the sensible thing?

Apart from the possible scam issue there would be a unhealthy power dynamic there I'd be unhappy with even it wasn't a scam.

Then again,she could have been lovely, and, as she mentioned, poor,and I've just missed out on an experience?"

Tell her to do one.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’d have said yes and taken the plunge!!

But then been cursing why the fuck I’ve spent money and no one’s turned up haha

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By *rder66Man  over a year ago

Tatooine

4 men could have shown up, why would you take the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

She could be an uber driver and having a hard time getting legit rides

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By *ichard574Man  over a year ago

West of Dfs

You absolutely did the right thing. But if she was talking about Camus, it must have been a tough call lol. Aujourd'hui, maman est morte. Ou peut-être hier, je ne sais pas.

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By *ou only live onceMan  over a year ago

London

Of course you did the right thing! Say it out loud...some random person asked for your home address.

Out of interest, was there not any option other than coming to yours? You could have headed to their area and met for a drink local to them?

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By *ervent_fervour OP   Man  over a year ago

Halifax


"Of course you did the right thing! Say it out loud...some random person asked for your home address.

Out of interest, was there not any option other than coming to yours? You could have headed to their area and met for a drink local to them?"

Nah she wanted to come to mine and chill,or something. Hers was out as she's discovered a housemate is a psychopath.aoparently. After fucking him.aparently.

[Shruggy emoji]

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By *ittlebirdWoman  over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I ummed and ahhed and eventually said no.

Tell me I did the sensible thing?

Apart from the possible scam issue there would be a unhealthy power dynamic there I'd be unhappy with even it wasn't a scam.

Then again,she could have been lovely, and, as she mentioned, poor,and I've just missed out on an experience?"

#seemslegit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ask yourself why any sane woman would put herself in that situation?

They just wouldn't

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By *ycanNightsMan  over a year ago

Workington

Yeah this is the United nations of red flags...

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By *ervent_fervour OP   Man  over a year ago

Halifax

Yeah.i was a div.

She also said she was disassociating currently, so a fair chance it was also legit(what scammer would say that!?).

Dodged a bullet potentially.

And hopefully not literally.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You think she's bipolar or unstable personality disorder?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

I don't like sob stories.

I'd tell them to contact me when solvent, if I thought they were honest

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By *lex46TV/TS  over a year ago

Near Wells

Had someone wanting me to send them a tenner for petrol so they could get to my place. This was after a meeting had been arranged.

I told them to get the fuel and I'd give them the £10 when they arrived. Then the sob story started. I never ever give people I haven't met any money.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I ummed and ahhed and eventually said no.

Tell me I did the sensible thing?

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Yea you did.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah definitely the sensible move! We wouldn’t want anyone in our family home and wouldn’t want to be in anyone else’s

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Some women are so high maintenance and expect this. It happened to me a while back I was taking a Russian girl to this restaurant right near me, she asked what time I’m picking her up I said I’m not just get an Uber , she was mortified and said I should send my driver or an Uber

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By *etro1940sCouple  over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"Yes don't have strangers in your home "
safety first, second and last .. that is why we adore clubs and that semi-public domain ... x Anne

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By *red333Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"I ummed and ahhed and eventually said no.

Tell me I did the sensible thing?

Apart from the possible scam issue there would be a unhealthy power dynamic there I'd be unhappy with even it wasn't a scam.

Then again,she could have been lovely, and, as she mentioned, poor,and I've just missed out on an experience?"

alas you'll never know you could have ordered the taxi and paid for the taxi to pick her up and bring her to you and she could have been the sexiest thing on two legs but you'll never know now

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By *red333Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yeah.i was a div.

She also said she was disassociating currently, so a fair chance it was also legit(what scammer would say that!?).

Dodged a bullet potentially.

And hopefully not literally."

shot yerself in foot more like

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


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She also said she was disassociating currently, "

What is she disassociating from ?

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By *i_Blonde_BabeWoman  over a year ago

Cardiff or just passing through


"she's discovered a housemate is a psychopath.aoparently. After fucking him.aparently."

Run away, run away!!!

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By *londebiguyMan  over a year ago

Southport


"Some women are so high maintenance and expect this. It happened to me a while back I was taking a Russian girl to this restaurant right near me, she asked what time I’m picking her up I said I’m not just get an Uber , she was mortified and said I should send my driver or an Uber "

It is not unreasonable if you are taking someone on a restaurant date to pick them up at all.

I'd say it shows some class.

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By *red333Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"

She also said she was disassociating currently,

What is she disassociating from ?"

paying for things....... She has no money

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You did the right thing op

She could have been anyone or just conned you.

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

If she was verified, sent boobs, had given you a number and you'd chatted, get her that uber.

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