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Approaching people when you are unsure if they are swingers
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By *amAndAsh OP Couple
over a year ago
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We are going on our honeymoon in July and as our name suggests go out in our camper a lot, we know the obvious signs (that can still be wrong) like upside down pineapples and flamingos etc but we always worry about what to say / how to approach people we may like Incase we are wrong and they are not swingers and looking stupid? Any advice please ?? |
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I always say as someone who has been approached by people away from fab... don't! It's awkward and embarrassing for the people you approach if they don't want to join you.
Switch 'who's near' on and message people you like the look off, much safer |
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over a year ago
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Invite them into a dark corner with a massive grin on your face, whip out your genitals and ask them what they think? You could maybe suggest you can ruin them, because your sure that's what they want. Works every time.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always say as someone who has been approached by people away from fab... don't! It's awkward and embarrassing for the people you approach if they don't want to join you.
Switch 'who's near' on and message people you like the look off, much safer "
This. If it's a regular campsite they could be with family or friends. Don't put people in an awkward situation that's not of their doing. Don't assume they want to meet up with other swingers unless they're actively looking. |
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"Invite them into a dark corner with a massive grin on your face, whip out your genitals and ask them what they think? You could maybe suggest you can ruin them, because your sure that's what they want. Works every time. "
5% of the time it works every time.!
Those 5% would probably ruin YOU though. |
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"We are going on our honeymoon in July and as our name suggests go out in our camper a lot, we know the obvious signs (that can still be wrong) like upside down pineapples and flamingos etc but we always worry about what to say / how to approach people we may like Incase we are wrong and they are not swingers and looking stupid? Any advice please ??"
Assume nothing then you cant go wrong |
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") like upside down pineapples and flamingos etc "
So many secret signs these days it makes me wary of putting anything near my car (or house) window.
Box of tissues in the car, Panama hat on the parcel shelf, nodding dog on the dashboard, CCTV warning window sticker, upside down no cold callers sign.... All of these attract swingers or are a secret signal to Mason's or Aliens (basically the same thing so I am told). |
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") like upside down pineapples and flamingos etc
So many secret signs these days it makes me wary of putting anything near my car (or house) window.
Box of tissues in the car, Panama hat on the parcel shelf, nodding dog on the dashboard, CCTV warning window sticker, upside down no cold callers sign.... All of these attract swingers or are a secret signal to Mason's or Aliens (basically the same thing so I am told)."
Not having panties on the washing line.. |
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I’ve had quite a few conversations where I’ve told people I swing. Most people aren’t that shocked, or in some cases, even remotely interested. It doesn’t mean I want to jump them. It’s not some sordid thing that hubby and I are ashamed of |
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"I’ve had quite a few conversations where I’ve told people I swing. Most people aren’t that shocked, or in some cases, even remotely interested. It doesn’t mean I want to jump them. It’s not some sordid thing that hubby and I are ashamed of "
I don't think anyone's suggesting it's sordid or something to be ashamed of. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"We are going on our honeymoon in July and as our name suggests go out in our camper a lot, we know the obvious signs (that can still be wrong) like upside down pineapples and flamingos etc but we always worry about what to say / how to approach people we may like Incase we are wrong and they are not swingers and looking stupid? Any advice please ??"
just approach them as they are non swingers you can't go wrong you'll maybe make some friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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") like upside down pineapples and flamingos etc
So many secret signs these days it makes me wary of putting anything near my car (or house) window.
Box of tissues in the car, Panama hat on the parcel shelf, nodding dog on the dashboard, CCTV warning window sticker, upside down no cold callers sign.... All of these attract swingers or are a secret signal to Mason's or Aliens (basically the same thing so I am told).
Not having panties on the washing line.. "
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