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By *unseeker100 OP   Man  over a year ago

batley

Do any ladies actually enjoy watching porn

Or is this still a male domain ?

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't know about women in general, but my guess is that women here do.

I do find a lot of it not... written to my interests.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol

Lots of women love watching porn.

But porn is still mostly aimed at men

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville

I can't stand it.

I find it cringe-inducing and creates unrealistic expectations for men and women. It can be toxic.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find porn/erotica very sexy

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

My porn is aimed at women. Especially all over her tits

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like to watch face fucking and gang bang porn, but stories are a bigger turn on xx

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I can't stand it.

I find it cringe-inducing and creates unrealistic expectations for men and women. It can be toxic."

It absolutely can be toxic. It seems to be escalating in its toxicity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

personally, yes. i do enjoy porn, when im in the mood for it.

more often than not though, you'll find me reading filthy smut, and getting off that way instead Px

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By *unseeker100 OP   Man  over a year ago

batley

Yes erotic literature can be much more exciting and spark the imagination

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By *vilgasamWoman  over a year ago

The dot in the i

Nah, it’s toxic stuff and never catered to anything I can find enjoyable, my own mind gives me better and more tailored scenarios to get off to, plus let’s my mind wonder and gives me ideas to bring to a fwb to play out in real time which always ends up more fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Short clips or specific scenes, i enjoy such as pussy licking or bi guy fmm. Majority of the other stuff is trash.

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By *vilgasamWoman  over a year ago

The dot in the i

To the twat who just used this thread to send me abuse, what the actual fuck is wrong with you

To the rest who aren’t twats, thank you for sticking to the thread and not being a dick

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wish there was more porn for "extreme" stuff (gangbangs etc) that wasn't so blatantly misogynistic.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nah, it’s toxic stuff and never catered to anything I can find enjoyable, my own mind gives me better and more tailored scenarios to get off to, plus let’s my mind wonder and gives me ideas to bring to a fwb to play out in real time which always ends up more fun "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish there was more porn for "extreme" stuff (gangbangs etc) that wasn't so blatantly misogynistic."

How would the scene be set?

Genuinely interested on how that aspect could work.

There are women porn producers but probably less than men.

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By *t0600Man  over a year ago

elvedon

Obviously not as much as men but there are some women that i have met that really enjoy porn

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If I want a quick bat of the beaver, sure.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love it. Do it pretty often tbh.

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By *ackonceagain1777Couple  over a year ago

West Mids

Yes I do, certainly more than Mr does x

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By *agpie and RavenMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"I wish there was more porn for "extreme" stuff (gangbangs etc) that wasn't so blatantly misogynistic."

From my observations a true gang bang by its very nature is misogynistic. I'm talking at the very least a ratio of 5 men to one woman.

I've never seen a hint of eroticism with a true gang bang, just the women being used. I know some will say the women are in control, but that's just an illusion methinks.

Frank

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By *d4fun73Man  over a year ago

Shipley

I think there's a big difference between vintage porn and the modern stuff, the modern is much more aggressive and sometimes violent. Where as the older stuff has story lines and the women are enjoying it more...

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By *d4fun73Man  over a year ago

Shipley


"I wish there was more porn for "extreme" stuff (gangbangs etc) that wasn't so blatantly misogynistic.

From my observations a true gang bang by its very nature is misogynistic. I'm talking at the very least a ratio of 5 men to one woman.

I've never seen a hint of eroticism with a true gang bang, just the women being used. I know some will say the women are in control, but that's just an illusion methinks.

Frank"

How is it mysogynistic when the woman is wanting it? Mysogyny is to do with hate?!

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By *agpie and RavenMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"I wish there was more porn for "extreme" stuff (gangbangs etc) that wasn't so blatantly misogynistic.

From my observations a true gang bang by its very nature is misogynistic. I'm talking at the very least a ratio of 5 men to one woman.

I've never seen a hint of eroticism with a true gang bang, just the women being used. I know some will say the women are in control, but that's just an illusion methinks.

Frank

How is it mysogynistic when the woman is wanting it? Mysogyny is to do with hate?!"

Is this question also aimed at the female poster who brought up misogyny?

In answer to your question, yes, the woman wants it, but what is in the hearts and minds of the blokes giving it to her? Not pleasant from what I've seen and heard first hand.

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think there's a big difference between vintage porn and the modern stuff, the modern is much more aggressive and sometimes violent. Where as the older stuff has story lines and the women are enjoying it more... "

This. I like porn when everyone looks like they are enjoying it, what ever is going on.

Positions for camera angle/ visibility that don't biologically hit any nerve endings, aggression/ hostility for the sake of it or where someone is obviously not into it (just working), & fake orgasm banshee wailing, are my pet peeves.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish there was more porn for "extreme" stuff (gangbangs etc) that wasn't so blatantly misogynistic.

From my observations a true gang bang by its very nature is misogynistic. I'm talking at the very least a ratio of 5 men to one woman.

I've never seen a hint of eroticism with a true gang bang, just the women being used. I know some will say the women are in control, but that's just an illusion methinks.

Frank

How is it mysogynistic when the woman is wanting it? Mysogyny is to do with hate?!

Is this question also aimed at the female poster who brought up misogyny?

In answer to your question, yes, the woman wants it, but what is in the hearts and minds of the blokes giving it to her? Not pleasant from what I've seen and heard first hand.

Frank"

This is what I'm wondering really.

The woman may feel empowered by it and totally in charge and consensual. But the men may have different thoughts. Not sure how that can be conveyed via video.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

(And it can be the men not into it, just working, as much as it can be the women)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oftttt yes. I watch a few times a week. Doesn't last long because I cum after minutes then turn it off all shady, like get that filth off my phone

Mrs C

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I wish there was more porn for "extreme" stuff (gangbangs etc) that wasn't so blatantly misogynistic.

From my observations a true gang bang by its very nature is misogynistic. I'm talking at the very least a ratio of 5 men to one woman.

I've never seen a hint of eroticism with a true gang bang, just the women being used. I know some will say the women are in control, but that's just an illusion methinks.

Frank"

The gangbangs I've been in, it's been all about my pleasure. I hope men also get pleasure out of that scenario as well, but it's happening because I want it and I enjoy it.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I wish there was more porn for "extreme" stuff (gangbangs etc) that wasn't so blatantly misogynistic.

From my observations a true gang bang by its very nature is misogynistic. I'm talking at the very least a ratio of 5 men to one woman.

I've never seen a hint of eroticism with a true gang bang, just the women being used. I know some will say the women are in control, but that's just an illusion methinks.

Frank

How is it mysogynistic when the woman is wanting it? Mysogyny is to do with hate?!

Is this question also aimed at the female poster who brought up misogyny?

In answer to your question, yes, the woman wants it, but what is in the hearts and minds of the blokes giving it to her? Not pleasant from what I've seen and heard first hand.

Frank"

In porn or actual gangbangs?

I know damn well that porn is work, although I wish that they wouldn't be so violent/aggressive/extreme. And everyone in porn presumably understands that it's a job.

I hope no one is saying that women are incapable of getting what they want out of a gangbang. Because it isn't true.

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By *agpie and RavenMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"I wish there was more porn for "extreme" stuff (gangbangs etc) that wasn't so blatantly misogynistic.

From my observations a true gang bang by its very nature is misogynistic. I'm talking at the very least a ratio of 5 men to one woman.

I've never seen a hint of eroticism with a true gang bang, just the women being used. I know some will say the women are in control, but that's just an illusion methinks.

Frank

How is it mysogynistic when the woman is wanting it? Mysogyny is to do with hate?!

Is this question also aimed at the female poster who brought up misogyny?

In answer to your question, yes, the woman wants it, but what is in the hearts and minds of the blokes giving it to her? Not pleasant from what I've seen and heard first hand.

Frank

In porn or actual gangbangs?

I know damn well that porn is work, although I wish that they wouldn't be so violent/aggressive/extreme. And everyone in porn presumably understands that it's a job.

I hope no one is saying that women are incapable of getting what they want out of a gangbang. Because it isn't true.

"

I'm referring to real life experiences. I totally get that a woman can get want she wants out of a gang bang. I'm merely questioning the motivation of the guys who are fulfilling her needs. If you're not bothered what goes on in their heads and what they say to each other afterwards then that's fine. All I'm saying is that I've heard some very unpleasant things said.

Frank

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By *ertslady1984Woman  over a year ago

Herts

Personal yes I enjoy watching porn as I get turned on by watching.

But there definitely needs to be more female friendly porn.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I wish there was more porn for "extreme" stuff (gangbangs etc) that wasn't so blatantly misogynistic.

From my observations a true gang bang by its very nature is misogynistic. I'm talking at the very least a ratio of 5 men to one woman.

I've never seen a hint of eroticism with a true gang bang, just the women being used. I know some will say the women are in control, but that's just an illusion methinks.

Frank

How is it mysogynistic when the woman is wanting it? Mysogyny is to do with hate?!

Is this question also aimed at the female poster who brought up misogyny?

In answer to your question, yes, the woman wants it, but what is in the hearts and minds of the blokes giving it to her? Not pleasant from what I've seen and heard first hand.

Frank

In porn or actual gangbangs?

I know damn well that porn is work, although I wish that they wouldn't be so violent/aggressive/extreme. And everyone in porn presumably understands that it's a job.

I hope no one is saying that women are incapable of getting what they want out of a gangbang. Because it isn't true.

I'm referring to real life experiences. I totally get that a woman can get want she wants out of a gang bang. I'm merely questioning the motivation of the guys who are fulfilling her needs. If you're not bothered what goes on in their heads and what they say to each other afterwards then that's fine. All I'm saying is that I've heard some very unpleasant things said.

Frank"

No, I'm not bothered by what goes on in their heads. It's a casual encounter. I'm not marrying them.

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By *agpie and RavenMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"I wish there was more porn for "extreme" stuff (gangbangs etc) that wasn't so blatantly misogynistic.

From my observations a true gang bang by its very nature is misogynistic. I'm talking at the very least a ratio of 5 men to one woman.

I've never seen a hint of eroticism with a true gang bang, just the women being used. I know some will say the women are in control, but that's just an illusion methinks.

Frank

How is it mysogynistic when the woman is wanting it? Mysogyny is to do with hate?!

Is this question also aimed at the female poster who brought up misogyny?

In answer to your question, yes, the woman wants it, but what is in the hearts and minds of the blokes giving it to her? Not pleasant from what I've seen and heard first hand.

Frank

In porn or actual gangbangs?

I know damn well that porn is work, although I wish that they wouldn't be so violent/aggressive/extreme. And everyone in porn presumably understands that it's a job.

I hope no one is saying that women are incapable of getting what they want out of a gangbang. Because it isn't true.

I'm referring to real life experiences. I totally get that a woman can get want she wants out of a gang bang. I'm merely questioning the motivation of the guys who are fulfilling her needs. If you're not bothered what goes on in their heads and what they say to each other afterwards then that's fine. All I'm saying is that I've heard some very unpleasant things said.

Frank

No, I'm not bothered by what goes on in their heads. It's a casual encounter. I'm not marrying them."

That's fine. I'm just wondering why you said porn, specifically gang bangs, was misogynistic if it doesn't bother you what's going on in the minds of the men fucking you. Oh well... (shrug emoji if there was one)

Frank

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Quite a few of my friends enjoy it.

I've not watched porn in a couple of months now, it doesn't really do anything for me (I'm talking about the stuff online, not things sent to me/filmed). I love erotica, I've tried listening to some audio erotica but I've come to realise I need it to be read to me by someone I find attractive.

I don't think all porn is awful, it just doesn't do it for me.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman  over a year ago

In the clouds

I watch it... I enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes they do. Especially the ones that lie about it lol. We sometimes check out each others Hamster history and it can be surprising what we have been getting off to.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I quite like guy on guy porn action

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I wish there was more porn for "extreme" stuff (gangbangs etc) that wasn't so blatantly misogynistic.

From my observations a true gang bang by its very nature is misogynistic. I'm talking at the very least a ratio of 5 men to one woman.

I've never seen a hint of eroticism with a true gang bang, just the women being used. I know some will say the women are in control, but that's just an illusion methinks.

Frank

How is it mysogynistic when the woman is wanting it? Mysogyny is to do with hate?!

Is this question also aimed at the female poster who brought up misogyny?

In answer to your question, yes, the woman wants it, but what is in the hearts and minds of the blokes giving it to her? Not pleasant from what I've seen and heard first hand.

Frank

In porn or actual gangbangs?

I know damn well that porn is work, although I wish that they wouldn't be so violent/aggressive/extreme. And everyone in porn presumably understands that it's a job.

I hope no one is saying that women are incapable of getting what they want out of a gangbang. Because it isn't true.

I'm referring to real life experiences. I totally get that a woman can get want she wants out of a gang bang. I'm merely questioning the motivation of the guys who are fulfilling her needs. If you're not bothered what goes on in their heads and what they say to each other afterwards then that's fine. All I'm saying is that I've heard some very unpleasant things said.

Frank

No, I'm not bothered by what goes on in their heads. It's a casual encounter. I'm not marrying them.

That's fine. I'm just wondering why you said porn, specifically gang bangs, was misogynistic if it doesn't bother you what's going on in the minds of the men fucking you. Oh well... (shrug emoji if there was one)

Frank"

Because if anyone treated me the way that some women are treated in this porn, they'd be lucky if they had their clothes thrown after them when they were bodily tossed from the room.

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Occasionally enjoy watching porn, dependent on my mood at time...

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By *unx2019Couple  over a year ago

Moray

Must admit do enjoy a bit of porn now and then especially mm or mmf where guys are bi

Lxx

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By *eally_RosieWoman  over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I watch porn, but audio is my go to for getting myself off. Love tumblr

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