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"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" You should be knee-deep in clunge by now, OP..  | |||
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"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" Not for all of them. Depends on why they joined, what their expectations were and what their understanding of swinging is. | |||
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"5 weeks on here you are still a virgin.x "I may be wrong of course but don't think you will find many virgins on here  | |||
"Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked" Yeah but he paid for Gold membership and doesn't that include at least 2 shags a month?! | |||
"Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked Yeah but he paid for Gold membership and doesn't that include at least 2 shags a month?! " I knew I shouldn’t have got the silver membership  | |||
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"Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked Yeah but he paid for Gold membership and doesn't that include at least 2 shags a month?! I knew I shouldn’t have got the silver membership "Rookie error...  | |||
"Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked Yeah but he paid for Gold membership and doesn't that include at least 2 shags a month?! I knew I shouldn’t have got the silver membership
Rookie error... "I mean can I pay again and go gold? | |||
"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" No  | |||
"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" Nope. | |||
"5 weeks on here you are still a virgin.x "  | |||
"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" Not really, OP. To be honest, I’m on my second go around. This place is like Alton towers! | |||
"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" No issues here. But put some photos and you might get a bit more interest. | |||
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"Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked" | |||
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"Five weeks a member, a proud "cheater", very poor profile content.......I'm shocked" This. I, for one am shocked your not drowning in pussy. | |||
"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" Not really particularly hard to meet on here at all for males, maybe if you had something to work off on your profile things would change | |||
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"Fab…completed it "Same, im only here for the shits n giggles | |||
"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" Nah there’s loads of males getting meets, maybe do a revamp of your profile | |||
"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" I never had any problems. But then I didn't give myself an uphill struggle..... 
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"Fab…completed it
Same, im only here for the shits n giggles " | |||
"Just me then lol I do t post public pics cause I just wanna be discreet tbh " You don't need to post public pics...if fabs not working fir you don't blame fab or the ladies, blame your approach to fab...and drop any expectations thst you may have | |||
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"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh" Five weeks is no time at all, do remember though it’s a swingers site, not a shag site. | |||
"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh" Would you message a woman that had no visible photos and who you had no idea what they looked like? A | |||
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"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh Would you message a woman that had no visible photos and who you had no idea what they looked like? A" I'm guessing you know the answer to this already A. | |||
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"Yeah why not I’d see if she’d be up for a chat and ask to exchange face pics if we’re both ok with it " Ask yourself this. If you read an exact copy of your profile would you message it? | |||
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"Yeah why not I’d see if she’d be up for a chat and ask to exchange face pics if we’re both ok with it Ask yourself this. If you read an exact copy of your profile would you message it?" | |||
"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh Five weeks is no time at all, do remember though it’s a swingers site, not a shag site." that’s the main issue, most people who join don’t seem to fully grasp the singing lifestyle | |||
"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh Five weeks is no time at all, do remember though it’s a swingers site, not a shag site. that’s the main issue, most people who join don’t seem to fully grasp the singing lifestyle "Quite partial to a karaoke | |||
"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh Five weeks is no time at all, do remember though it’s a swingers site, not a shag site. that’s the main issue, most people who join don’t seem to fully grasp the singing lifestyle "And they also come without their quitar | |||
"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh Five weeks is no time at all, do remember though it’s a swingers site, not a shag site. that’s the main issue, most people who join don’t seem to fully grasp the singing lifestyle "It’s everyday on the forums. | |||
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"You've barely entered the world OP "So young, so much to learn | |||
"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh Would you message a woman that had no visible photos and who you had no idea what they looked like? A I'm guessing you know the answer to this already A. " I did. I just wanted confirmation. 
And herein lies the problem. If people are happy to contact a blank profile on ghe off chance they will find that person attractive later, then it's no wonder there's so many moans about timewasters and people not meeting.
Make your life easy. Give people an inkling of what you look like, even from the neck down. It's a really useful filter and saves wasted time, effort and eventual disappointment.
It's the first hurdle to get over, followed by face pics and maintaining interest via chat.
But hey. If you're happy doing things the hard way then crack on. If you think uiuve had no luck after 5 weeks wait til it's 5 months.
Or 5 years..........
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"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh Five weeks is no time at all, do remember though it’s a swingers site, not a shag site. that’s the main issue, most people who join don’t seem to fully grasp the singing lifestyle
Quite partial to a karaoke "bloody phone | |||
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"Not blaming anyone tbh just finding it hard tbh Would you message a woman that had no visible photos and who you had no idea what they looked like? A I'm guessing you know the answer to this already A. I did. I just wanted confirmation.
And herein lies the problem. If people are happy to contact a blank profile on ghe off chance they will find that person attractive later, then it's no wonder there's so many moans about timewasters and people not meeting.
Make your life easy. Give people an inkling of what you look like, even from the neck down. It's a really useful filter and saves wasted time, effort and eventual disappointment.
It's the first hurdle to get over, followed by face pics and maintaining interest via chat.
But hey. If you're happy doing things the hard way then crack on. If you think uiuve had no luck after 5 weeks wait til it's 5 months.
Or 5 years..........
A"I hear you brother....then they get all butt hurt when no effort yields no results....man Im a dick but guess what have a well verified account behind me...like wtaf how does that happen for single men, since its sooooo hard.... | |||
"Just me then lol I do t post public pics cause I just wanna be discreet tbh " So do a lot of us. You reckon anyone is going to identify me based on my picture? | |||
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"As a female I can tell you it's bloody hard work filtering through the chaff to find there's nobody worth meeting among it anyway "Wounded | |||
"Absolutely why not " Because there's nothing remotely interesting or appealing about it. "I want to get my dick wet" biog and absolutely nothing that shows what you look like. Blind Date was taken off air decades ago. | |||
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"Depends on how good looking you are. You'll be fine if everyone fancies you. Otherwise, you need a 10 out of 10 personality like RexHoles or Greg." Cough cough | |||
"Depends on how good looking you are. You'll be fine if everyone fancies you. Otherwise, you need a 10 out of 10 personality like RexHoles or Greg." Has no one flagged this up as the funniest thing I’ve seen all day, spat my tea out :D | |||
"As a female I can tell you it's bloody hard work filtering through the chaff to find there's nobody worth meeting among it anyway
Wounded"#notallchaff | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon." • Admit it, you're just discombobulated because I kept looking at your photo? Come on, confess!  | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon." -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt | |||
"Hard compared to what?" Flaccid? Most on here would have you believe they are always hard! | |||
"Depends on how good looking you are. You'll be fine if everyone fancies you. Otherwise, you need a 10 out of 10 personality like RexHoles or Greg." My penis was made specifically for your vagina | |||
"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" Nope. It’s quite easy actually. | |||
"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" Depends how desperate you are | |||
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"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt" Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. | |||
"Depends on how good looking you are. You'll be fine if everyone fancies you. Otherwise, you need a 10 out of 10 personality like RexHoles or Greg. Has no one flagged this up as the funniest thing I’ve seen all day, spat my tea out :D" It did make me wonder if it meant those were 'not good looking' but make it up with their personality. I am sure not the case but it does read a bit like that | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. " Some will still ignore it... That's even if they read it in the first place | |||
"As a female I can tell you it's bloody hard work filtering through the chaff to find there's nobody worth meeting among it anyway
Wounded"#Snowflake If I could edit it to nobody worth meeting within a reasonable travel distance, I probably still wouldn't. (But I'd tongue punch your fart box if you ever make it north of Lancaster) | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. " My header is "Do you have a penis? I won't be interested" it's worked well for me | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. " Is there any such thing as 1000%? | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. " I'll be honest, anyone who has to proclaim how straight they are (apart from ticking "straight" and possibly blocking single guys from messaging) just straight up puts me off. | |||
"Depends on how good looking you are. You'll be fine if everyone fancies you. Otherwise, you need a 10 out of 10 personality like RexHoles or Greg. Has no one flagged this up as the funniest thing I’ve seen all day, spat my tea out :D It did make me wonder if it meant those were 'not good looking' but make it up with their personality. I am sure not the case but it does read a bit like that "Just be yourself, unless that's not a good thing of course. I jest btw, true authenticity always shines through | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. I'll be honest, anyone who has to proclaim how straight they are (apart from ticking "straight" and possibly blocking single guys from messaging) just straight up puts me off. " And not just fab straight | |||
"As a female I can tell you it's bloody hard work filtering through the chaff to find there's nobody worth meeting among it anyway
Wounded
#notallchaff"How about short chaff?
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"As a female I can tell you it's bloody hard work filtering through the chaff to find there's nobody worth meeting among it anyway
Wounded
#notallchaff
How about short chaff?
A" | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. I'll be honest, anyone who has to proclaim how straight they are (apart from ticking "straight" and possibly blocking single guys from messaging) just straight up puts me off. And not just fab straight " | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. I'll be honest, anyone who has to proclaim how straight they are (apart from ticking "straight" and possibly blocking single guys from messaging) just straight up puts me off. " Like vapes and plug ins, absolutely outrageous | |||
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"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. " -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. I'll be honest, anyone who has to proclaim how straight they are (apart from ticking "straight" and possibly blocking single guys from messaging) just straight up puts me off. " -See it does put some off. I get why people do it (I've put some frustrated stuff at the top of mine for short periods before realising its not worth it) but ultimately people want to get at your profile or pics or whatever, not hear your frustrations beforehand. pt | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt" Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab " "....me and the rugby team fucked her in every hole and left her looking like a painter's radio......treat her with respect guys...." | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab "....me and the rugby team fucked her in every hole and left her looking like a painter's radio......treat her with respect guys...." ""A fab rarity that can suck a tree root out, whilst taking 4 cocks in the arse" | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab "....me and the rugby team fucked her in every hole and left her looking like a painter's radio......treat her with respect guys...."
"A fab rarity that can suck a tree root out, whilst taking 4 cocks in the arse" "So you've heard the rumours about me then..... | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab "....me and the rugby team fucked her in every hole and left her looking like a painter's radio......treat her with respect guys...." " | |||
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"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab "....me and the rugby team fucked her in every hole and left her looking like a painter's radio......treat her with respect guys...."
"A fab rarity that can suck a tree root out, whilst taking 4 cocks in the arse"
So you've heard the rumours about me then..... "Nothing secret on fab | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab " -No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course. It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets. pt | |||
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"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab -No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course. It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets. pt " I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across | |||
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"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab -No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course. It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets. pt I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across " I'd agree with this. Some absolute arseholes have countless veris singing their praises. | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab -No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course. It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets. pt I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across I'd agree with this. Some absolute arseholes have countless veris singing their praises." Preach sister....I'm a dickead the ladies tell the world of the fact, the bastards | |||
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"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab -No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course. It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets. pt I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across " -Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab -No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course. It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets. pt I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across -Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt" My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck.... And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess" | |||
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"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab -No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course. It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets. pt I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across -Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck.... And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess" " -I don't really get what you are arguing about. My point is merely about the filters on here! The last time I mentioned it was to another struggling guy (who had mentioned that fact a few times) who was looking for experienced older couples who in my opinion are more likely to filter for them. But anyone can, just to cut down on loads of messages! But once you have 1 veri all that simply doesn't factor any more, so your continued success with them means jack to my argument (and yes to success of Fab too I agree). I am just recalling that this time last year it was oft-given advice in here to use veri-filtering (along with filtering brand-new profiles) to cut down on the amount of quite abusive messages that women used to be getting for a while. There really were loads of threads on that at one point. I'm not saying anything about the *amount* of veris at all - only that it is clearly worth getting the one. pt | |||
"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" Your young age will put many off, let’s face it; pretty much every woman in here is a milf or a cougar compared to you
Your profile also reads like it was written by an immature boy. Sorry mate, that may sound harsh, but it’s fair, and said with good intentions
You’ve also only been here 5 weeks. This isn’t Instashag, you do have to put in some effort, and have patience. When I was your age, I was having more fun, and meeting more girls (an age-appropriate term) in ‘normal’ pubs and nightclubs. Go and have some fun, and come back here in a couple of years, if you feel the need. You may even have a female partner looking to swing in the ‘traditional/correct/real’ way  | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab -No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course. It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets. pt I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across -Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck.... And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess" -I don't really get what you are arguing about. My point is merely about the filters on here! The last time I mentioned it was to another struggling guy (who had mentioned that fact a few times) who was looking for experienced older couples who in my opinion are more likely to filter for them. But anyone can, just to cut down on loads of messages! But once you have 1 veri all that simply doesn't factor any more, so your continued success with them means jack to my argument (and yes to success of Fab too I agree). I am just recalling that this time last year it was oft-given advice in here to use veri-filtering (along with filtering brand-new profiles) to cut down on the amount of quite abusive messages that women used to be getting for a while. There really were loads of threads on that at one point. I'm not saying anything about the *amount* of veris at all - only that it is clearly worth getting the one. pt" I'm not arguing with you, I'm Merely pointing out my experience, if you recieve that as me challenging what your saying, that's on you not me....amount of veris was never mentioned. I pointed out that I've never needed a veri to get a meet, and having veris actually does fuck all for me in getting a meet, a part from swerving that filter.. is the long n short of it I'd still like to know what yiu meant by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess" | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab -No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course. It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets. pt I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across -Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck.... And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess" -I don't really get what you are arguing about. My point is merely about the filters on here! The last time I mentioned it was to another struggling guy (who had mentioned that fact a few times) who was looking for experienced older couples who in my opinion are more likely to filter for them. But anyone can, just to cut down on loads of messages! But once you have 1 veri all that simply doesn't factor any more, so your continued success with them means jack to my argument (and yes to success of Fab too I agree). I am just recalling that this time last year it was oft-given advice in here to use veri-filtering (along with filtering brand-new profiles) to cut down on the amount of quite abusive messages that women used to be getting for a while. There really were loads of threads on that at one point. I'm not saying anything about the *amount* of veris at all - only that it is clearly worth getting the one. pt" I'm not arguing with you, I'm Merely pointing out my experience, if you recieve that as me challenging what your saying, that's on you not me....amount of veris was never mentioned. I pointed out that I've never needed a veri to get a meet, and having veris actually does fuck all for me in getting a meet, a part from swerving that filter.. is the long n short of it I'd still like to know what yiu meant by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess" | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab -No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course. It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets. pt I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across -Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck.... And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess" -I don't really get what you are arguing about. My point is merely about the filters on here! The last time I mentioned it was to another struggling guy (who had mentioned that fact a few times) who was looking for experienced older couples who in my opinion are more likely to filter for them. But anyone can, just to cut down on loads of messages! But once you have 1 veri all that simply doesn't factor any more, so your continued success with them means jack to my argument (and yes to success of Fab too I agree). I am just recalling that this time last year it was oft-given advice in here to use veri-filtering (along with filtering brand-new profiles) to cut down on the amount of quite abusive messages that women used to be getting for a while. There really were loads of threads on that at one point. I'm not saying anything about the *amount* of veris at all - only that it is clearly worth getting the one. pt I'm not arguing with you, I'm Merely pointing out my experience, if you recieve that as me challenging what your saying, that's on you not me....amount of veris was never mentioned. I pointed out that I've never needed a veri to get a meet, and having veris actually does fuck all for me in getting a meet, a part from swerving that filter.. is the long n short of it I'd still like to know what yiu meant by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess" " -Well you don't really know because after you get the first one, who knows? But I agree that one is all you really need (though I'd put up some more if doms stopped telling me I haven't earnt it yet or cunningly used my real name lol). I'm not going to tangle with you on anything though - I've *only* been referring to the amount of yours and other peoples meets. pt | |||
"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab -No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course. It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets. pt I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across -Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck.... And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess" -I don't really get what you are arguing about. My point is merely about the filters on here! The last time I mentioned it was to another struggling guy (who had mentioned that fact a few times) who was looking for experienced older couples who in my opinion are more likely to filter for them. But anyone can, just to cut down on loads of messages! But once you have 1 veri all that simply doesn't factor any more, so your continued success with them means jack to my argument (and yes to success of Fab too I agree). I am just recalling that this time last year it was oft-given advice in here to use veri-filtering (along with filtering brand-new profiles) to cut down on the amount of quite abusive messages that women used to be getting for a while. There really were loads of threads on that at one point. I'm not saying anything about the *amount* of veris at all - only that it is clearly worth getting the one. pt I'm not arguing with you, I'm Merely pointing out my experience, if you recieve that as me challenging what your saying, that's on you not me....amount of veris was never mentioned. I pointed out that I've never needed a veri to get a meet, and having veris actually does fuck all for me in getting a meet, a part from swerving that filter.. is the long n short of it I'd still like to know what yiu meant by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess" -Well you don't really know because after you get the first one, who knows? But I agree that one is all you really need (though I'd put up some more if doms stopped telling me I haven't earnt it yet or cunningly used my real name lol). I'm not going to tangle with you on anything though - I've *only* been referring to the amount of yours and other peoples meets. pt" Listen its all gravy baby, the thing I find frustrating is, threads such as this are started, but ppl don't take the advice from the men, who do get meets on a regular basis. Then wonder why it's not working fir them. Pt no tangling it's all good peace n love | |||
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"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab -No, but you still need at least 1 imo (and you have a number of them). People can filter out the profiles with no verifications that's the thing. They do it to cut the amount of dodgy new profiles (or just inexperienced or rubbish ones perhaps), but some people can and will lose out of course. It's all in these margins imo, make sure all the channels are open to maximise your chances. Veris can be gained from phone or cam conversations, from fab friends or from people you've just been chatting to. It's only reality verification - they don't have to be full on meets. pt I've come and gone from fab many times over the years, even without veris I still got meets. So no there nit important. What's more important is ad to how someone is and comes across -Well no lol - apart from the filtering thing! But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess. pt My experience is my experience and that is I've never needed veris, I see often your heavy reference to veris. Yes I'm well verified do you think thst means, im knee deep in clunge every night, no does it fuck.... And what do you mean by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess" -I don't really get what you are arguing about. My point is merely about the filters on here! The last time I mentioned it was to another struggling guy (who had mentioned that fact a few times) who was looking for experienced older couples who in my opinion are more likely to filter for them. But anyone can, just to cut down on loads of messages! But once you have 1 veri all that simply doesn't factor any more, so your continued success with them means jack to my argument (and yes to success of Fab too I agree). I am just recalling that this time last year it was oft-given advice in here to use veri-filtering (along with filtering brand-new profiles) to cut down on the amount of quite abusive messages that women used to be getting for a while. There really were loads of threads on that at one point. I'm not saying anything about the *amount* of veris at all - only that it is clearly worth getting the one. pt I'm not arguing with you, I'm Merely pointing out my experience, if you recieve that as me challenging what your saying, that's on you not me....amount of veris was never mentioned. I pointed out that I've never needed a veri to get a meet, and having veris actually does fuck all for me in getting a meet, a part from swerving that filter.. is the long n short of it I'd still like to know what yiu meant by "But well done on being Caucasian Gandhi I guess" -Well you don't really know because after you get the first one, who knows? But I agree that one is all you really need (though I'd put up some more if doms stopped telling me I haven't earnt it yet or cunningly used my real name lol). I'm not going to tangle with you on anything though - I've *only* been referring to the amount of yours and other peoples meets. pt Listen its all gravy baby, the thing I find frustrating is, threads such as this are started, but ppl don't take the advice from the men, who do get meets on a regular basis. Then wonder why it's not working fir them. Pt no tangling it's all good peace n love " -true   pt | |||
"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" Try a club.. | |||
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Same, im only here for the shits n giggles "Which is more important? | |||
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Same, im only here for the shits n giggles
Which is more important?"The giggling | |||
"Quite hard to meet on here for the males eh" Do whatever it was you did to get your meet from a year ago. | |||
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"Yeap it is, been here 6 months now and still havent met anyone, probably will delete my account soon. -You just need to lose the 1000% straight stuff above your profile text. Everyone gets attention they don't want, best not to focus on it that much imo. pt Sorry but that's being kept on so people know where I stand and I make no apologies for it. -Fair enough, just suggesting it may be a factor maybe. (I don't think it's necessarily rude or anything, but you've written a decent profile so you need people to get to it- not wonder if you might have issues or something). Also (as a general aside) people need to reach out on Fab (ie search often) and try and get a veri some way. Waiting for people to come to you esp with no veri (they might not even see you if you are unverified) will be hard for lots of people, esp inplaces where there's lots of profiles around. The margins are quite tight for a lot of people, so intro messages, profiles and the main picture all really count imo. pt Veris aren't the be all n end all on fab "....me and the rugby team fucked her in every hole and left her looking like a painter's radio......treat her with respect guys...." " | |||
