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My answer is:
If you have a date and you're taking her on a picnic then remove the crusts. That way it saves on her ungraciously gnawing on any dry insipid crust and smudging the corner of her lipstick.
If you're at home or lunching with your chums then keep the crust on. |
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"My answer is:
If you have a date and you're taking her on a picnic then remove the crusts. That way it saves on her ungraciously gnawing on any dry insipid crust and smudging the corner of her lipstick.
If you're at home or lunching with your chums then keep the crust on."
Answer - I don’t have a smooth arse sorry |
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Oooft. What a question. I’d choose the boxing gloves. Not because I *want* to wank in boxing gloves, but because I bloody love the other thing and couldn’t give it up. No way. So in truth, I’d take the gloves and probably just quit wanking completely. |
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over a year ago
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i'd never wear white lingerie, because im too pale so it would just wash me out.
or yellow, because i think id look stupid.
for a meet tonight.. maybe green  Px |
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over a year ago
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This is a hard question to answer because much depends on my mood at the time and the dynamics with the other person so it's really hard to difficult to single out any one thing.
I guess its reactions. The way the other person responds to everything. From a look to a kiss to the moment they first slide inside me.
The moment the kisses change from soft to passionate and then to ravenous.
Sounds, sighs, breathing changes in the even a little blushing, body movements, arching a back, moving to let me kiss a particular place more, when I say something and their eyes glint back at me. Laughing. Laughing together is beautiful and important (because you have to laugh, it's all pretty ridiculous when you really think about it)
Their anticipation, excitement, their pace, a look of wonder or a lip bite, a need to touch or be touched. Is there an urgency because I've made them want me to the point they just have to have me?
All of that stuff thrills me. |
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over a year ago
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Curvy Kate, Pour Moi, Scantily, Ann Summers, Primark, Lounge, Asda... honestly all over the place. more about finding something i like and trying to make the chebs fit  Px  |
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"This is a hard question to answer because much depends on my mood at the time and the dynamics with the other person so it's really hard to difficult to single out any one thing.
I guess its reactions. The way the other person responds to everything. From a look to a kiss to the moment they first slide inside me.
The moment the kisses change from soft to passionate and then to ravenous.
Sounds, sighs, breathing changes in the even a little blushing, body movements, arching a back, moving to let me kiss a particular place more, when I say something and their eyes glint back at me. Laughing. Laughing together is beautiful and important (because you have to laugh, it's all pretty ridiculous when you really think about it)
Their anticipation, excitement, their pace, a look of wonder or a lip bite, a need to touch or be touched. Is there an urgency because I've made them want me to the point they just have to have me?
All of that stuff thrills me. "
I'm now Aroused |
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"This is a hard question to answer because much depends on my mood at the time and the dynamics with the other person so it's really hard to difficult to single out any one thing.
I guess its reactions. The way the other person responds to everything. From a look to a kiss to the moment they first slide inside me.
The moment the kisses change from soft to passionate and then to ravenous.
Sounds, sighs, breathing changes in the even a little blushing, body movements, arching a back, moving to let me kiss a particular place more, when I say something and their eyes glint back at me. Laughing. Laughing together is beautiful and important (because you have to laugh, it's all pretty ridiculous when you really think about it)
Their anticipation, excitement, their pace, a look of wonder or a lip bite, a need to touch or be touched. Is there an urgency because I've made them want me to the point they just have to have me?
All of that stuff thrills me. "
Forum post of the day xx |
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over a year ago
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Two men.
Both of them completely and utterly spoiling me in every way. I don't want to be used (sometimes I look at MFM and think that might be how it feels)
I want to be enjoyed and more than anything though, I want to be able to enjoy them. For them to revel in what I'm doing to them too (I'd love how greedy I could be) and for it to be a very sensual and erotic experience. A bit of romance. Full on seduction for all of us. For both of them to feel just as wanted as I would.
I love control, but also actually I'd like the knowledge of one of them having the control, keeping me safe but indulging me in all the ways I probably wouldn't do myself. And for that person to love it too.
Obviously the reclaim aspect of that excites me so much. I think it must feel pretty incredible to be wanted that much still without it having ruined things.
I realise in many ways it makes me a hypocrite. I'm not sure I could share someone I care about in the same way and for that reason as well as obviously logistics and stuff, I'm not sure how achievable it actually is but I do like to think about it.
Other than that and I realise how out there this is for fab, taboo perhaps, but I'd love to be made love too. Fucking is easy but I'm a romantic and that feels like a very out of reach fantasy,mostly because I'm not sure I've ever really truly experienced it.
So now that all the men of fab begin to recoil in horror and the women reach for sick bags, I'll finally stop typing!!
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Two men.
Both of them completely and utterly spoiling me in every way. I don't want to be used (sometimes I look at MFM and think that might be how it feels)
I want to be enjoyed and more than anything though, I want to be able to enjoy them. For them to revel in what I'm doing to them too (I'd love how greedy I could be) and for it to be a very sensual and erotic experience. A bit of romance. Full on seduction for all of us. For both of them to feel just as wanted as I would.
I love control, but also actually I'd like the knowledge of one of them having the control, keeping me safe but indulging me in all the ways I probably wouldn't do myself. And for that person to love it too.
Obviously the reclaim aspect of that excites me so much. I think it must feel pretty incredible to be wanted that much still without it having ruined things.
I realise in many ways it makes me a hypocrite. I'm not sure I could share someone I care about in the same way and for that reason as well as obviously logistics and stuff, I'm not sure how achievable it actually is but I do like to think about it.
Other than that and I realise how out there this is for fab, taboo perhaps, but I'd love to be made love too. Fucking is easy but I'm a romantic and that feels like a very out of reach fantasy,mostly because I'm not sure I've ever really truly experienced it.
So now that all the men of fab begin to recoil in horror and the women reach for sick bags, I'll finally stop typing!!
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So now that all the men of fab begin to recoil in horror and the women reach for sick bags, I'll finally stop typing!! Far from it  x |
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Yes. Most of the fabs I get from women are on my partially-clothed pics. Especially the ones where I’m undoing something, or in the process of taking something off. Unbuttoning a shirt. Undoing a belt. That sort of thing.
There are always some horny ladies fabbing the naked and stiff cock pics too though … they know who they are.  |
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I’ve been thinking about this. It wasn’t an immediate ‘gut feeling’ kind of question.
It’s tiny little moments when a woman takes control and shows me what she wants. Not tells me - although that’s delicious - but shows me.
If she starts to unbutton my shirt, because she wants me to take it off. If she stares at my lips because she wants me to kiss her. If she takes my hand and moves it - guides it down between her legs. If she slowly, deliberately, lies back and opens her legs for me, showing me that it’s time to go there.
Those are the moments that push me over the edge and make me go from ‘want’ to ‘need’. Those moments where you show me, confidently, what you want. Take my hand and put it where you want to be touched. That’ll do it, every time.
And if you look me in the eyes while you do it … I’m yours. Completely cuntstruck. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'll answer both because it's you.
No, not yet. It's quite endearing watching that first sort of stumbling over their words, initial reaction. I like the vain efforts to not, the teasing that unfolds, the little glances. It very much appeals to some and they're my sort of person.
And the more sensible one?
I've given it serious consideration, yes. I've had quite a few suggest, no, tell me I should.
I'd love to in all honesty.
Not for the money side of things, no. Fuck, that sounds awfully clichéd, doesn't it?
It's true.
It's more the joy it would bring me to do so, the reactions and responses it might generate because I really do adore them. And there's having that outlet... It's such a core part of my identity that I'm keen to embrace it.
I'm not sure if I'm quite good enough yet though. And that's what stops me.
I've been paid before for it, yes. Once. |
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I love food too much this is always hard but if I had to choose right now!
Starter - Spanish garlic prawns with bread to dip with
Main - Steak and Chips, all the trimmings and a beef dripping sauce
Pud - Key Lime Pie
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Oh, god. I just want people to *care*. To really, actively and obviously give a shit about things. About themselves, about being here on Fab, about me … and about their sexuality.
When I see someone in a bar or a club who obviously *feels* sexy. Who is enjoying being themselves. That’s attractive. That’s sexy.
And the same thing on these here forums. When somebody is writing from the gut. When you can almost feel them stumbling over the rush of words because they just have to get it out. That’s hot. Hot as hell.
I guess I find just *being into it* really, really attractive. Loving what you’re here for. Being excited about and interested in people and partners and playmates.
Which boils down to … I want you to want me. As the song goes.
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"I love food too much this is always hard but if I had to choose right now!
Starter - Spanish garlic prawns with bread to dip with
Main - Steak and Chips, all the trimmings and a beef dripping sauce
Oh what a perfect choice.
Where are we dining. And when
Pud - Key Lime Pie
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"I love food too much this is always hard but if I had to choose right now!
Starter - Spanish garlic prawns with bread to dip with
Main - Steak and Chips, all the trimmings and a beef dripping sauce
Pud - Key Lime Pie
Oh what a perfect choice.
Where are we dining. And when
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Anytime! Although wouldn’t to eat too much before physical exertion |
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White Glo™...is my preferred toothpaste.
I find it gives my teeth an almost mirrored finish, perfect for my playmate to gaze upon them and check her seductively-ruined mascara in the reflection during pillow talk and 'after care'. |
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Good question. Watching other people was a fantasy of mine as was another woman. B did some research and suggested visiting a club.
After much, much thought and apprehension I suggested we visit Fata Morgana on a weekend to Amsterdam (about a year ago). We didn't play with other people but we played alongside them.
It was incredibly hot so we looked for UK clubs that were a decent distance away. On our next visit to a club (Chams) we had an MFF  and a bit of an MFMF
We found Fab because people at clubs kept asking us what our Fab name was...
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over a year ago
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"Google "
Okay! I didn’t even know what Swinging was. I just thought it was gruopsex/orgies/ 3ways etc. I didn’t know it was “Swinging”. That shows how vanilla I was.
So, I found fab. joined the forum and started to ask questions, had conversations and got sucked into all this and got stuck in this forum.
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I would love to have two lovely men ravish and spoil me, and make me feel special.
Think passionate and erotic rather than animal lust, leisurely, playful, everyone getting what they desire, and feeling fullfilled and satisfied, over a sustained period, a few hours at least xx |
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Oh no. I could t keep a journal like that. I’ve tried it, and I’m not organised enough to keep it up.
Although I do notice things around me that I appreciate, I do stop to try to live in that moment. Hopefully I remember them that way. |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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"I've given it serious consideration, yes. I've had quite a few suggest, no, tell me I should.
I'd love to in all honesty.
Not for the money side of things, no. Fuck, that sounds awfully clichéd, doesn't it?
It's true.
It's more the joy it would bring me to do so, the reactions and responses it might generate because I really do adore them. And there's having that outlet... It's such a core part of my identity that I'm keen to embrace it.
I'm not sure if I'm quite good enough yet though. And that's what stops me.
I've been paid before for it, yes. Once. "
I am SO intrigued as to what the question was!
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I realise on this website it's pretty tame but having sex on a large bed surrounded by other people also having sex was the most adventurous and naughty place for us. There was a nightclub toilet once when we were young.
J |
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