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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is anyone else finding this site a bit confidence killing? I was fairly confident in my looks and appearence, but after seeing the words read or deleted next to every messege in my sent box, im now starting to look at myself in a different light... Know what I mean?  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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3 weeks, 1 meet are they all just not laying down for you...
what were your expectations of swingers ?
if you got more in the non swinging world, mix it up and play in both worlds
good luck and welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bloody hell you have only been on 3 weeks, what did you expect everyone to fall at your feet,
So before you get too demoralized, we dont get meets for ages either lol
Why not try to go clubs? go attend socials or try to get to parties, that way you,ll get verified and have more of a chance.
So dont give up just have some patience.
We all lead lifes out of this scene so most people are selective who they meet.
Try to sell yourself on your profile attatch more pics, not cock
chat in the forums or in chat?
We just use the site to speak with friends and see who,s going to said clubs that week we are free, then mail them or look locally for meet
That way your more of a chance of getting a meet or at least a relpy.
Random messages from strangers asking for a meet dont get much attention to be honest. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Is anyone else finding this site a bit confidence killing? I was fairly confident in my looks and appearence, but after seeing the words read or deleted next to every messege in my sent box, im now starting to look at myself in a different light... Know what I mean? "
You get unanswered mails like that, just dont take it perosnally or like a profession, much as sex is number 1 on the awsome list . Treat it casually and stay with what youre doing - if you change your approach because your pissed off will put people off.
Joining over Christmas is not going to get a lot of meets simply as its family time for the most  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love to know what some people expect when joining a site like this. 
fuckathons  "
Need sponsorship for that, and your chosen charity might be a little surprised... |
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"I'd love to know what some people expect when joining a site like this.
fuckathons
Need sponsorship for that, and your chosen charity might be a little surprised..."
money is money...they wont care |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm amazed that you've had one meet to be honest. How long did you take to write your profile? 5 minutes? Do you put the same effort in to your messages?
Many people won't open your message until they've read your profile and your profile is pretty crap. But even your name is not good, it gives an air of arrogance that is rarely justified. Combine them with the fact that you are 22, live it at home and you do come across as quite immature. |
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