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By *NV14INV OP Couple
over a year ago
Inverness |
I would love V to be able to deep throat me but unfortunately she can’t, it causes her to gag. She does go a long way though.
Is it most common for women to be able to or not and can it be trained to happen, if so how?
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not sure how common/uncommon it is.
But I do think you can train yourself if you want to. Do you know what makes a massive difference? Relaxing into it and not thinking too much about it - if you think "oh I really want to deepthroat this cock" and you've not been able to, that pressure can make you tense.
Being really turned on, relaxed and positions can help you. Like for me, having my head over the edge of the bed and the man slowly entering my mouth in that way means my throat is more open, the angle is better.
Plus there's the benefit of him being able to see the outline of his cock in my throat which surprisingly really turns some men on.
If I'm in a c*ckd*unk state, you know where I've been fucked but not orgasmed and in that needy kind of state, that really helps. I think because I need him more.
Another thing that really helps is if I've given time to just focus on their cock. Working out what angle works better, enjoying the different responses my mouth can bring. It's an enjoyable way of learning their body and what position works for deepthroating.
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"I would love V to be able to deep throat me but unfortunately she can’t, it causes her to gag. She does go a long way though.
Is it most common for women to be able to or not and can it be trained to happen, if so how?
Thanks. "
Miniskirt trained herself.
She practiced on a dildo - and my cock.
Took her a month or two to perfect it, but she boy did she perfect it.
Also: Position matters. Try laying on your back on a bed, hanging your head off the end - the cock can then be slid almost straight in and down your throat.
Finally: We've found that deep throating and gagging leads to squirting. If I want to get Miniskirt squirting, I'll often get her to throat me first - it seems to do something down below that promotes squirting.
Oh, and yeah, she taught herself to squirt too!  |
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"I'm not sure how common/uncommon it is.
But I do think you can train yourself if you want to. Do you know what makes a massive difference? Relaxing into it and not thinking too much about it - if you think "oh I really want to deepthroat this cock" and you've not been able to, that pressure can make you tense.
Being really turned on, relaxed and positions can help you. Like for me, having my head over the edge of the bed and the man slowly entering my mouth in that way means my throat is more open, the angle is better.
Plus there's the benefit of him being able to see the outline of his cock in my throat which surprisingly really turns some men on.
If I'm in a c*ckd*unk state, you know where I've been fucked but not orgasmed and in that needy kind of state, that really helps. I think because I need him more.
Another thing that really helps is if I've given time to just focus on their cock. Working out what angle works better, enjoying the different responses my mouth can bring. It's an enjoyable way of learning their body and what position works for deepthroating.
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Good advice and you beat me to the angle / position thing with the end of the bed suggestion. |
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It is one of my all time favourite things to do 
As Meli said, a lot of it is about relaxing into it and learning what works best for everyone involved. And that cockd*unk state certainly helps.
Do I still sometimes overthink and end up struggling? Yup. But I still fucking love trying even when that happens |
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Did read something a while back that compared deep throat to sword swallowing..
Obviously not in the same kind of danger level, but I suppose similar "throat skills" are needed?
If they can train themselves to do that, I'm sure there's a way you can at least improve your ability.
Not everyone can be brilliant at everything, but you can be very sure they can definitely improve!
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
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"I would love V to be able to deep throat me but unfortunately she can’t, it causes her to gag. She does go a long way though.
Is it most common for women to be able to or not and can it be trained to happen, if so how?
Thanks. "
The key is to have the mouth and throat lined up. So it might be easier for her to lay back and hang her head off the edge of the bed and so when you slide in it bypasses the reflex point. It's basically a sword swallower trick.
The 2nd essential is to not be anxious about it. The more tense she gets about trying to do it the less relaxed her throat muscles will be. So perhaps just remove any expectations and let her go for it when she feels it's right for her.
On the gag reflex, some actually find that a turn on, lol. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure how common/uncommon it is.
But I do think you can train yourself if you want to. Do you know what makes a massive difference? Relaxing into it and not thinking too much about it - if you think "oh I really want to deepthroat this cock" and you've not been able to, that pressure can make you tense.
Being really turned on, relaxed and positions can help you. Like for me, having my head over the edge of the bed and the man slowly entering my mouth in that way means my throat is more open, the angle is better.
Plus there's the benefit of him being able to see the outline of his cock in my throat which surprisingly really turns some men on.
If I'm in a c*ckd*unk state, you know where I've been fucked but not orgasmed and in that needy kind of state, that really helps. I think because I need him more.
Another thing that really helps is if I've given time to just focus on their cock. Working out what angle works better, enjoying the different responses my mouth can bring. It's an enjoyable way of learning their body and what position works for deepthroating.
Good advice and you beat me to the angle / position thing with the end of the bed suggestion. "
Yeah, it was an absolute game changer for me - he's still one of my favourite lovers of all time - taught me a lot and really cemented my oral fixation. |
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