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By *lippersXXX OP Man over a year ago

North Central london

Hi interested in your preferences. Personally I love a busty curvacious lady.

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By *ocksareoffMan over a year ago

Out n About

Curves are better for snuggles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not really fussed. It's mostly about facial attraction for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like curvaceous slim women.

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

Prefer curves to skin and bone to be honest

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I like nice people in all sorts of meat suits.

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

I once made love to an exceptionally good looking dullard. Never again.

There are other factors for me that are more important.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple over a year ago

Southampton

"I'm not really fussed. It's mostly about facial attraction for me."

Ah well that's me out then lol

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By *mf123Man over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Fiiiiiiight

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

These threads never end well.....

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"These threads never end well.....

Mmm

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By *d4fun73Man over a year ago

Shipley

"I like nice people in all sorts of meat suits."

Like lady gaga in that dress!

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By *lippersXXX OP Man over a year ago

North Central london

Your hot littlemiss xx

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I like nice people in all sorts of meat suits.

Like lady gaga in that dress!"

I meant... skin and stuff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple over a year ago

Southampton

"Your hot littlemiss xx"

thank you

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By *hunkyBuggaMan over a year ago

Devon

I would say I tend to be more attracted to more fuller figured curvaceous women.

But it’s not exclusive, personality, connection, humour, face etc all play a part to the overall attractiveness!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple over a year ago

Southampton

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far. "

I don't think anyone is bashing slim people... just expressing preferences... I do like slim girls

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By *elix SightedMan over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I once made love to an exceptionally good looking dullard. Never again.

There are other factors for me that are more important."

Haha, dullard! An underused word.

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By *elix SightedMan over a year ago

Cloud 8

I have preferences, but they are almost always overridden by a gorgeous smile and a grabbable bum. And ‘grabbable’ isn’t defined by size, more my desire.

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By *lippersXXX OP Man over a year ago

North Central london

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far. "
oooh I've no bother with anyone's view. It's one's opinion over another. Women are all beautiful xx

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By *empusMan over a year ago

Poole

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far. "

I prefer slim. Smaller boobs and a nice firm bum, yes please xxx

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By *aizyWoman over a year ago

west midlands

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far. "

A useful filter though!

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By *empusMan over a year ago

Poole

"I have preferences, but they are almost always overridden by a gorgeous smile and a grabbable bum. And ‘grabbable’ isn’t defined by size, more my desire."

Yeah, a gorgeous smile and a grabbable bum are wonderful things.

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By *espacito56Man over a year ago

Orkney

Build, age and ethnicity are all irrelevant. The spark comes from elsewhere.

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By *ts the taking part thatMan over a year ago

southampton

Not sure there is a right answer, a bit like music I can enjoy all genres (except Jazz) & all body shapes.

I do think you sometimes adapt sex for your partners age or size but that's all part of the fun.

Love the one you are with.....

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple over a year ago

West London

There's no real winner. Everyone one has their preferences. It's what goes with someone's figure is what's important.

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By *ocksareoffMan over a year ago

Out n About

"I like nice people in all sorts of meat suits.

Like lady gaga in that dress!"

No jokes about beef curtains thank you

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By *hrek101Man over a year ago

Herts

I like both, it's the person that attracts me more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both.

I love a curvy girl with thick thighs and big boobs, especially when your behind then.

But I also love a slim girl with pert boobs and stiff nipples, especially when there riding me.

And also everything in between.

Mix it up !

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that.

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By *lippersXXX OP Man over a year ago

North Central london

"There's no real winner. Everyone one has their preferences. It's what goes with someone's figure is what's important. "
well you have an enchanting smile xx

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By *iscreet-fun98Man over a year ago

Hwest sometimes wrexham

Can’t beat abit of cushion for the push in!

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By *empusMan over a year ago

Poole

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that."

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By *ocksareoffMan over a year ago

Out n About

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that."

Shush. Don't tell everyone our secrets

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

I like your curvaceous bell end OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that."

Sort of shaped like thin air then.

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that.

Sort of shaped like thin air then."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As stated in my profile I like women of all sizes and shades.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Curvaceous or slim I still want a hand full of arse and a mouth full of left titty

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By *ld StrumpetWoman over a year ago

Telford

Curvaceous all the way for me. Its a visual and textile thing all that amazing abundance of soft warm flesh

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that."

Who lit the fuse on your tampax?

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By *ocksareoffMan over a year ago

Out n About

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that.

Who lit the fuse on your tampax?

Hahahaha

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By *lfacatMan over a year ago

Cumbria

For me it depends entirely on if they have ‘attitude’,!

I can’t define it, but I know it when it’s there…

Not a lot of help really am I?

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that.

Who lit the fuse on your tampax?

Mooncup here

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By *t0600Man over a year ago

elvedon

Yeah I have to go curves just something I love looking at

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that.

Who lit the fuse on your tampax?

And this is why I love you, Rex

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By *andycandy88Woman over a year ago

Northolt

I'm a bit of both really

WINNING!!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Is it a competition? Why vs?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Body size/shape is irrelevant to me. I have to find someone facially attractive more than any other attribute.

That face can be attached to someone slim, someone curvy, or someone even bigger. It makes no difference to me.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

So, curves. Are we talking hourglass or fatty? I mean ALL bodies have curves.

Two things wind me up with this type of thread:

1. You like what you like, no need for the backhanded compliment & having a pop at slim girls.

2. It's all about the face for me - would you really knock back a gorgeous girl because she wasn't "curvy" enough for you??

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

So long as they have great skills in the kitchen, I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, curves. Are we talking hourglass or fatty? I mean ALL bodies have curves.

Two things wind me up with this type of thread:

1. You like what you like, no need for the backhanded compliment & having a pop at slim girls.

2. It's all about the face for me - would you really knock back a gorgeous girl because she wasn't "curvy" enough for you??

What Red said

(that sounds like a band name)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far. "

To be fair, I chalk it down to the same as the "gym bod or dad bod" threads. No one is going to say one of the options out of fear of being seen as shallow or putting down the other.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far. "

I’d bash a slim one right up her bumhole if she asked nicely

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By *hank you sirMan over a year ago

colchester

Curves for me please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it a competition? Why vs?"

Agree with this

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far.

To be fair, I chalk it down to the same as the "gym bod or dad bod" threads. No one is going to say one of the options out of fear of being seen as shallow or putting down the other."

Which is unfortunate because those of us who genuinely appreciate both slim and more curvy women (and others) - it's assumed we're being cowardly about our opinions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"…..

2. It's all about the face for me - would you really knock back a gorgeous girl because she wasn't "curvy" OR SLIM enough for you??

FIFY.

seriously, this is where the lust starts.

The attraction starts with a personality, because I’ve talked to many girl I would say are not my type, but then all of a sudden there’s a look in their face…a smile or smirk, a sparkle in her eye, just an X factor type thing. But it’s in their face, nowhere else can do that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far. "

Dear Slim, you still ain't called or wrote

I hope you have a chance

I ain't mad, I just think it's fucked up you don't answer fans.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far.

I’d bash a slim one right up her bumhole if she asked nicely

You say the most romantic things to me Rex

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far.

Dear Slim, you still ain't called or wrote

I hope you have a chance

I ain't mad, I just think it's fucked up you don't answer fans."

FFS

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By *hinypants77Man over a year ago

Leeds

Slim thick

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By *ts the taking part thatMan over a year ago

southampton

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that."

Us men? Thanks.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"So, curves. Are we talking hourglass or fatty? I mean ALL bodies have curves.

Two things wind me up with this type of thread:

1. You like what you like, no need for the backhanded compliment & having a pop at slim girls.

2. It's all about the face for me - would you really knock back a gorgeous girl because she wasn't "curvy" enough for you??

What Red said

(that sounds like a band name) "

Indeed, Bella x

Guys think they're being complimentary to us chubsters but by saying they like curves just alienates all women.

I've been slim & now I'm chubby. I am what I am & I don't need guys to make me feel better

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By *hunkyBuggaMan over a year ago

Devon

"…..

2. It's all about the face for me - would you really knock back a gorgeous girl because she wasn't "curvy" OR SLIM enough for you??

FIFY.

seriously, this is where the lust starts.

I dunno I had a bumhole wink at me once at it was the most flirtatious thing a lady has ever done for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far.

To be fair, I chalk it down to the same as the "gym bod or dad bod" threads. No one is going to say one of the options out of fear of being seen as shallow or putting down the other.

Which is unfortunate because those of us who genuinely appreciate both slim and more curvy women (and others) - it's assumed we're being cowardly about our opinions "

Exactly, or in this case have it seen as "anyone that will fuck us" because being a single guy means we're all so desperate

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"So, curves. Are we talking hourglass or fatty? I mean ALL bodies have curves.

Two things wind me up with this type of thread:

1. You like what you like, no need for the backhanded compliment & having a pop at slim girls.

2. It's all about the face for me - would you really knock back a gorgeous girl because she wasn't "curvy" enough for you??

What Red said

(that sounds like a band name)

Indeed, Bella x

Guys think they're being complimentary to us chubsters but by saying they like curves just alienates all women.

I've been slim & now I'm chubby. I am what I am & I don't need guys to make me feel better

xx"

Does it alienate all women? I think it can sometimes work in their favour on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that.

Us men? Thanks. "

#NotAllMen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh this sounds fun.

We now just need a slim lady to join my curvaceous Mrs for a baby oil battle in a paddling pool.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far.

I’d bash a slim one right up her bumhole if she asked nicely

You say the most romantic things to me Rex

I seem to be becoming more chivalrous with age

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By *oo..Woman over a year ago

Boo's World

Personally I love my own body type/shape.

No one really needs a label...

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By *ittlebirdWoman over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I really don’t have a preference

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far.

To be fair, I chalk it down to the same as the "gym bod or dad bod" threads. No one is going to say one of the options out of fear of being seen as shallow or putting down the other.

Which is unfortunate because those of us who genuinely appreciate both slim and more curvy women (and others) - it's assumed we're being cowardly about our opinions

Exactly, or in this case have it seen as "anyone that will fuck us" because being a single guy means we're all so desperate

True. I suppose I'm looking from my demographic.

There are attributes other than fat distribution and fat/muscle percentage that matter to people! (You'd think that was obvious etc...)

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"So, curves. Are we talking hourglass or fatty? I mean ALL bodies have curves.

Two things wind me up with this type of thread:

1. You like what you like, no need for the backhanded compliment & having a pop at slim girls.

2. It's all about the face for me - would you really knock back a gorgeous girl because she wasn't "curvy" enough for you??

What Red said

(that sounds like a band name)

Indeed, Bella x

Guys think they're being complimentary to us chubsters but by saying they like curves just alienates all women.

I've been slim & now I'm chubby. I am what I am & I don't need guys to make me feel better

Does it alienate all women? I think it can sometimes work in their favour on here"

Yes, I suppose it could. I guess I was just stating my own feelings. X

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By *iscreet-fun98Man over a year ago

Hwest sometimes wrexham

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that.

Us men? Thanks.

#NotAllMen "

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By *iscreet-fun98Man over a year ago

Hwest sometimes wrexham

"Personally I love my own body type/shape.

No one really needs a label..."

You got a great shape!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I've been drawn to people of all shapes and sizes. I don't think I have a real preference beyond personality.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan over a year ago

Gourock

For me, being attracted to someone is so much more than if they are slim or curvy. It's about how you look at one another and how you feel when you are with them. I'm sure the list goes on but I've been working today and I need a nap

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Both - also why can't slim women have curves?

The person makes them attractive not their size.

Great smile, eyes and good humor.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I enjoy a beautiful face.

And I appreciate a great personality. I like intelligence, humour and a sense of adventure.

But I like to find their body attractive too.

I'm shallow like that.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple over a year ago

here & there

Why not have both! Preferably at the same time

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By *itvclaireTV/TS over a year ago

Birmingham

Curves are so sexy

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By *oco_marsWoman over a year ago

Stockport

Honestly, I'm into ALL body types on any gender

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

For people who find personality the most important factor in meeting his do you decide on fab?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"For people who find personality the most important factor in meeting his do you decide on fab? "

Best as I can guess from profile, messaging, and social.

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"I'm not really fussed. It's mostly about facial attraction for me."

This

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that.

Us men? Thanks. "

Mostly. Not all

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

In my part of the world they're just happy if you have teeth.

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS over a year ago

Sexville

No preference, as long as they are sat on my face

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I have preferences, but they are almost always overridden by a gorgeous smile and a grabbable bum. And ‘grabbable’ isn’t defined by size, more my desire."

Dammit. Foiled again

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"For people who find personality the most important factor in meeting his do you decide on fab? "

I mean. Conversation is usually a good start.

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

Pulse preferably

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I may have mentioned this before...

Slim and curvy are not two sides of the same coin. Anyone of any size can be curvy.

Slim and fat. That's the two sides of the coin. And I'm not using fat in a negative way. Just factually. I am fat.

Also, I am aware that fat is the noun that refers to the stuff that makes someone "not slim" as well. But in the world we live in, it is the opposite thing to slim as well.

Also... what about those people who are actually right in the middle of the two descriptors? Have they got to choose one or the other to ascribe to?

Why does it always have to be one against the other?

Sorry.

As you were.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

"For people who find personality the most important factor in meeting his do you decide on fab? "

This is why we have socials & read profiles

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Slim to average to curvy.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"I may have mentioned this before...

Slim and curvy are not two sides of the same coin. Anyone of any size can be curvy.

Slim and fat. That's the two sides of the coin. And I'm not using fat in a negative way. Just factually. I am fat.

Also, I am aware that fat is the noun that refers to the stuff that makes someone "not slim" as well. But in the world we live in, it is the opposite thing to slim as well.

Also... what about those people who are actually right in the middle of the two descriptors? Have they got to choose one or the other to ascribe to?

Why does it always have to be one against the other?

Sorry.

As you were."

^ this

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"Slim to average to curvy. "

Sorry, plump.

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Slim to average to curvy.

Sorry, plump."

Plump. I miss that word

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By *edeWoman over a year ago

the abyss

My preference is personality

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By *lcoupleneCouple over a year ago

morpeth

Curvy for us but in the physical sense. If you have to stand on a mirror to see your bits it’s not for us.

Curvy can be slim

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"For people who find personality the most important factor in meeting his do you decide on fab?

Best as I can guess from profile, messaging, and social."

Yeah we're the same but we do go on looks initially

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"For people who find personality the most important factor in meeting his do you decide on fab?

I mean. Conversation is usually a good start."

It is but what leads you to start a conversation?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"For people who find personality the most important factor in meeting his do you decide on fab?

This is why we have socials & read profiles

We do that but as I said above we do go on looks too

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By *lcoupleneCouple over a year ago

morpeth

"For people who find personality the most important factor in meeting his do you decide on fab?

I mean. Conversation is usually a good start.

It is but what leads you to start a conversation?"

Looks! You don’t message every single profile in your age range or location. It’s immediate attraction based on looks then further discussion helps you decide yay or neigh. Everyone saying personality must have absolutely rammed inboxes!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"For people who find personality the most important factor in meeting his do you decide on fab?

I mean. Conversation is usually a good start.

It is but what leads you to start a conversation?

I'm not sure, I think it might be more difficult to infer personality from a profile than physical attraction

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"Slim to average to curvy.

Sorry, plump.

Plump. I miss that word"

My plump cunt serves me well.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"Curvy for us but in the physical sense. If you have to stand on a mirror to see your bits it’s not for us.

Curvy can be slim"

Do yours stick out the front?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"For people who find personality the most important factor in meeting his do you decide on fab?

I mean. Conversation is usually a good start.

It is but what leads you to start a conversation?"

Usually something said in a status or forum post that makes me think I'd enjoy them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shapely curves is a preference but good looking folks lol

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"For people who find personality the most important factor in meeting his do you decide on fab?

I mean. Conversation is usually a good start.

It is but what leads you to start a conversation?

Usually something said in a status or forum post that makes me think I'd enjoy them."

Ok, thanks

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"For people who find personality the most important factor in meeting his do you decide on fab? "

Well I rarely feel sexual attraction before I've met someone. It has happened occasionally but yeah. Most of the time I don't.

So... it's through talking to someone. Reading their posts. Conversations. What the chemistry is like when I meet them. Up until that point I try and approach it as meeting a flirty friend.

Try to. Sometimes I'm just a horndog and like a pretty word and photo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Length or thickness?

Big

Or small

Thin or thick ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

An ability to smile, decent personality and not a complete psychopath is perfect. Slightly psychotic is passable

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By *lcoupleneCouple over a year ago

morpeth

"Curvy for us but in the physical sense. If you have to stand on a mirror to see your bits it’s not for us.

Curvy can be slim

Do yours stick out the front?"

Well yes I can see my vagina without bending over :’)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A tight snatch will do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that."

Pahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A tight snatch will do "

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By *aggonerMan over a year ago

for a penny

Curves with lots of soft bits that I can bury my hairy face in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that.

Pahahahaha

Haha so true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A tight snatch will do "

What a charmer you sound

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By *aughty but nice...Man over a year ago

Staffs

I so love a curvy lady

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By *oanne ETV/TS over a year ago

Near Warrington

I like all shapes and sizes, but as one with a fuller figure I'm so glad there are plenty of chubby chasers out there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A tight snatch will do

I don’t want one opened up like a tin of beans

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So where does FABULOUS fit in all of this?……

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"Curvy for us but in the physical sense. If you have to stand on a mirror to see your bits it’s not for us.

Curvy can be slim

Do yours stick out the front?

Well yes I can see my vagina without bending over :’) "

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"A tight snatch will do "

How do you know that just by looking at them?

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple over a year ago

Debauchery

I'm partial to slim guys, ripped guys, rugby player thighs guys.

Big, strong, shouldered guys, pick me up and throw me guys.

Big girls, slim girls, wrap me in your arms girls.

Soft, squishy booby girls, perky, little nipples girls.

Cherry x

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"You (men) are mostly full of shite.

Your "type" is usually the exact shape and size of the woman who replies to your message. Funny that.

Us men? Thanks.

#NotAllMen "

Hey!!

I thought this was a battle between the fatties and the thinnies??

Dont go bringing height into it again - it'll get really confusing then.

#whatswrongwithtallmen??

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"A tight snatch will do

How do you know that just by looking at them?"

They don't bring their purse out on social meets.

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By *ent in BlackMan over a year ago

Silsden

"Hi interested in your preferences. Personally I love a busty curvacious lady.

Ladies who are in proportion do it more for me, wether slim or curvy.

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far.

I don't think anyone is bashing slim people... just expressing preferences... I do like slim girls

I think that to equate slim with "skin and bones" as a charming guy on this thread did is pretty insulting and derogatory.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I like both so yah boo sucks, curvy being a shape, not a size. Hence a woman can be both slim and curvy..

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far.

I don't think anyone is bashing slim people... just expressing preferences... I do like slim girls

I think that to equate slim with "skin and bones" as a charming guy on this thread did is pretty insulting and derogatory."

Totally agree. That was an awful thing to say.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far.

I don't think anyone is bashing slim people... just expressing preferences... I do like slim girls

I think that to equate slim with "skin and bones" as a charming guy on this thread did is pretty insulting and derogatory.

Totally agree. That was an awful thing to say."

It's par for the course when anyone mentions weight.

Fat people are called names; skinny people are called names.

I've been both and none bother me.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

As far as men are concerned, anything from slim to portly works for me, if we're compatible sexually.

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

all the women are lovely..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"These threads never end well.....

"
^This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looks like the slim women are avoiding this thread.

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By *ezebel100Woman over a year ago

Birmingham

"Hi interested in your preferences. Personally I love a busty curvacious lady.

Ladies who are in proportion do it more for me, wether slim or curvy."

What does in proportion mean?

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"Hi interested in your preferences. Personally I love a busty curvacious lady.

Ladies who are in proportion do it more for me, wether slim or curvy.

What does in proportion mean?"

I recall reading about a hip to waist ratio that is ,supposedly, the ideal feminine shape. So in theory you could have a size 10, 14 and 18 and they would all be in proportion if they had that same ratio...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A tight snatch will do

I don’t want one opened up like a tin of beans

What if it's like a can of tuna?

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By *ocksareoffMan over a year ago

Out n About

"A tight snatch will do

I don’t want one opened up like a tin of beans

What if it's like a can of tuna? "

Tuna and salad cream sarnie yummy

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"A tight snatch will do

How do you know that just by looking at them?

They don't bring their purse out on social meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A tight snatch will do

I don’t want one opened up like a tin of beans

What if it's like a can of tuna?

Tuna and salad cream sarnie yummy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi interested in your preferences. Personally I love a busty curvacious lady.

Ladies who are in proportion do it more for me, wether slim or curvy.

What does in proportion mean?"

We were talking about this today, me and my partner. I'd say in proportion means that you aren't blessed/cursed with one particular part of you looking bigger/smaller whilst taking in account your whole body? In proportion could mean the ratio of your top to bottom. Some people are quite top heavy with decent legs. Some are slimmer on top with big bum and thighs. Etc. I guess 'in proportion' means that nothing stands out and distracts from the rest of your figure ? Brainstorming out loud here.

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

I've got to say my preference is skinny as a rake with ginormous boobs and a hairy growler

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By *rLordMan over a year ago

Swadlincote

No real preference but they do need to be dirty girls at heart x

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

"How long before this becomes another slim bashing thread... because its not looking great so far.

I don't think anyone is bashing slim people... just expressing preferences... I do like slim girls

I think that to equate slim with "skin and bones" as a charming guy on this thread did is pretty insulting and derogatory."
.

Not one of these threads happens without a similar comment being made

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By *ersiantugMan over a year ago

Cardiff

"I once made love to an exceptionally good looking dullard. Never again.

There are other factors for me that are more important.

Haha, dullard! An underused word."

For women? Do you think?

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By *ersiantugMan over a year ago

Cardiff

"…..

2. It's all about the face for me - would you really knock back a gorgeous girl because she wasn't "curvy" OR SLIM enough for you??

FIFY.

seriously, this is where the lust starts.

I dunno I had a bumhole wink at me once at it was the most flirtatious thing a lady has ever done for me "

-That must have been a hell of a party

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I absolutely love curvy women who are on the bigger side.

I love slim curvy too, but women with a little more softness and rolls do make me feel a certain kind of way.

And there's absolutely nothing wrong with preferring one type of body over another. I just don't understand why some people feel the need to drag others down in the process.

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By *ocksareoffMan over a year ago

Out n About

"I absolutely love curvy women who are on the bigger side.

I love slim curvy too, but women with a little more softness and rolls do make me feel a certain kind of way.

And there's absolutely nothing wrong with preferring one type of body over another. I just don't understand why some people feel the need to drag others down in the process. "

Ah good to see your back Mrs

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

"I absolutely love curvy women who are on the bigger side.

I love slim curvy too, but women with a little more softness and rolls do make me feel a certain kind of way.

And there's absolutely nothing wrong with preferring one type of body over another. I just don't understand why some people feel the need to drag others down in the process.

Ah good to see your back Mrs

Good to see your front too Mrs

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

I am sexually attracted to people of all shapes and sizes, for me there’s an unexplainable connection that happens that fuels desire. Although the common thread is that they are authentic, vulnerable, funny, compassionate, kind, socially activisty in their actions/stances, intelligent, passionate about life, willing to live life and do the sex with a sense of fun and laughter and quite simply that they care for others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And there's absolutely nothing wrong with preferring one type of body over another. I just don't understand why some people feel the need to drag others down in the process.

Ditto. Most people have preferences. Your sex desires are not legally required to be inclusive of all body types. It's ok to like what you like and be vocal about it. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And there's absolutely nothing wrong with preferring one type of body over another. I just don't understand why some people feel the need to drag others down in the process.

Ditto. Most people have preferences. Your sex desires are not legally required to be inclusive of all body types. It's ok to like what you like and be vocal about it.

Ps. You can say what you like without using negative comparisons to the opposite.

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan over a year ago

Wigan

Genuinely don't think body shape or size matters one little bit. As long as someone has a great personality their inner beauty will shine through more than anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Genuinely don't think body shape or size matters one little bit. As long as someone has a great personality their inner beauty will shine through more than anything. "

True. Doesn't necessarily mean I want them to sit on my face tho.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi interested in your preferences. Personally I love a busty curvacious lady.

always gone for curvy women except once and that was because she was pretty naughty lol which made up for it!

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By *aribbean King 1985Man over a year ago

South West London

Dont mind slim woman as long as they not skinny but prefer a woman with curves as I've more meat to hold on too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone has their preferences. If you don't like my body you can fuck off. It's that simple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone has their preferences. If you don't like my body you can fuck off. It's that simple.

Perfectly put x

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"I'm not really fussed. It's mostly about facial attraction for me.

This

This for me too, if I find your face appealing and you have a personality I like then that's what draws me in

Tinder x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Curvy/ Slim

White/ non white

Straight/ LGBTQ

Torries/Labour

Republicans/ Democrats.

I do not alieninate other people's choices. The respect from the individual counts for me. Not the labeling. I will explain my values. If we have a good time so be it. If not you can just move on. Society is created for individual wants and needs. If everyone has the same agenda I would probably call it quits.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Curvy/ Slim

White/ non white

Straight/ LGBTQ

Torries/Labour

Republicans/ Democrats.

This is a lovely sentiment x

But vote curvy, cos my slim ship has well and truly sailed!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Curves please

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By *ersiantugMan over a year ago

Cardiff

"Curvy/ Slim

White/ non white

Straight/ LGBTQ

Torries/Labour

Republicans/ Democrats.

-I can see why that's pro freedoms, but I don't really see any of those as choices or agendas. It's very Western too - one day I'll see Black/non Black, or better still Asian/non Asian in these things lol)

Most people are both slim and large over their lives I think, and pretty rarely is it much of a choice for them imo. I think that both men and women tend to go a little more for curves with some flesh - but it's pretty marginal probably.

I've been with and attracted to almost everything in my own life. Sometimes I think I have a type, then realise I don't really. pt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Curvy/ Slim

White/ non white

Straight/ LGBTQ

Torries/Labour

Republicans/ Democrats.

I've been with and attracted to almost everything in my own life. Sometimes I think I have a type, then realise I don't really. pt"
exactly you do not have a type until that type effects your life in a way that you perceived is worthy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah. The same old insult thinly disguised threads are still going then? When are people going to get bored of comparing body shapes? People like what they like. Who gives a fuck?!

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

Who's winning so far?

Is it nearly over?

Please say its not going into extra time......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Curves please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another vote for curves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who's winning so far?

Is it nearly over?

Please say its not going into extra time......

The curves always win on the forum. Not so much on hot pics.

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By *ersiantugMan over a year ago

Cardiff

"The curves always win on the forum. Not so much on hot pics."

There are curves and Wonko Curves though (which is more of an experience, like Chico Time)

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