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"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends "
They look, they've sated their curiosity, they're not interested, they don't message.
A view is in no way an indication of interest. It's just a view.  |
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Yes there is a lot of viewing going on and yes there could be more messaging but ultimately contact is made when there is something in common that one party wants to pursue and the replies happen when the other party is happy to
We don’t usually add people as friends unless we have met them or both of us are happy to or one of us have known someone for a long time.
I hope this helps clears things up a little OP
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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago
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It’s the nature of the site that people will browse.
It’s a harsh truth that you haven’t appealed to people that have perused you so far. It happens.
You should make your profile appealing then sit back and wait. Or browse the profiles.
The forum is entertaining. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Like others have said if they don't message you then they aren't interested. How else will people know if they want to make contact if they don't look first.
As for sending friends request after just looking I know I tend to just ignore those the only people I have on mine are people I've chatted to.  |
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If FAB isn’t working for you then it’s usually because your profile and pics aren’t enticing enough.
If your profile is full of cock pics for example then a lot of people will just look and think ‘oh another profile the same as the last’ and move on.
People shouldn’t blame FAB for the site not being as they thought. FAB gives everyone the same tools to sell themselves - it’s how you choose to sell yourself is the big difference in how successful you are on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having glanced and seen that you’re in California, and the large proportion of the fab population are in the UK, it’s not hard to figure why you might be getting passed by. |
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Who do you want to add you as a friend? Women? They get a few hundred messages a day. Couples? Likewise. Other men? Not really what most guys want. It's buyer's market, it's for women and couples and people who are active on the swinger scene. Go to a few socials and clubs if you want to build a network. One thing this site definitely isn't is somewhere to get an easy shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends "
Do you fancy manning my inbox for me?  |
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I do think a lot of people can sit back and wait for contact without browsing at all though! 
And unless they are really striking of course, they are the least likely to achieve much here I would guess. I've noticed this over on Fabguys anyway - I was always telling some people there how to use advanced Search (and regularly too, as people come and go).
And of course you actually have to reach out too, ie at very-least 'fab' a pic, wink or open View. A decent opening message is best of course, ideally profile-backed (rather than 'cock included') being the best type in general I think. Friend Requests are probably best sent later. You can gauge different approaches from different profiles though, there are no set rules as such I think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair that's what it's about. You view a profile, if you wanna contact off the back of it you will, or if you don't feel interested, you don't."
That’s kind of what I thought!! |
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"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends "
OP, Amazon have been in touch. They’ve asked me to ask you why you didn’t buy every product you have viewed on their site.
Can you account for this outrageous oversight? They are very hurt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends
Bit like browsing online until you see something you fancy, strange that "
lol yes very strange indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends
OP, Amazon have been in touch. They’ve asked me to ask you why you didn’t buy every product you have viewed on their site.
Can you account for this outrageous oversight? They are very hurt."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends "
I don’t even check to see who views me ..if I view someone and don't contact them.
I hate when I just view someone's profile and they notice and contact me about it...reeks of desperation ...but again I suppose they are others who like that . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else feel like everyone on here just views others profiles but don’t make contact or add as friends I don’t even check to see who views me ..if I view someone and don't contact them means I'm not interested in what I see.
I hate when I just view someone's profile and they notice and contact me about it...reeks of desperation ...but again I suppose they are others who like that ."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know where you're coming from, it sometimes can feel like everyone is just browsing but then when you make contact with someone and you all click, it's worth the wait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I view. I observe. I watch and collect things in my head. Then maybe reach out with a strategy in my head. Although recently just one comment made me tingle my mind and was enough to be talking the very same evening. So no rule.
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