observation. It does actually make me laugh too but each to their own. You are having banter, contributing posts, not realy caring wether is couple, man or woman. Well, I don't anyway as it's the specific post I am replying to if I have something to say. Then you notice, women on the whole are quite good at replying to your post no matter who you are. Couples are usually OK too but do sometimes stick to people they chatted with before. Then it comes to guys and whilst some are fine and go with the flow, quite a few only communicate with women and couples as if it might hurt their masculinity to reply to a post from another guy. As I said not all but some are so obvious but you can't but notice. No offence meant to anyone of course and every does as they feel comfortable.  |
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"observation. It does actually make me laugh too but each to their own. You are having banter, contributing posts, not realy caring wether is couple, man or woman. Well, I don't anyway as it's the specific post I am replying to if I have something to say. Then you notice, women on the whole are quite good at replying to your post no matter who you are. Couples are usually OK too but do sometimes stick to people they chatted with before. Then it comes to guys and whilst some are fine and go with the flow, quite a few only communicate with women and couples as if it might hurt their masculinity to reply to a post from another guy. As I said not all but some are so obvious but you can't but notice. No offence meant to anyone of course and every does as they feel comfortable. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only reply to women with a C cup or above. Everyone else is boring.
That's fair enough "
In all seriousness I’ll reply to anyone if I feel I can add to the conversation. |
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I think some people only reply to the one's they find attractive or are interested in. Others don't particularly like some forum users and some just randomly answer.
If I start a thread I try to respond to everyone but I'm not always successful |
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"I think some people only reply to the one's they find attractive or are interested in. Others don't particularly like some forum users and some just randomly answer.
If I start a thread I try to respond to everyone but I'm not always successful "
I always look forward to your replies, not just to me but everyone. Always pretty well balanced |
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"I’ve been on and off the forums a lot of the years and it’s always been like that.
I find it quite funny to be honest - must not reply to any male comments in case they think I want to bum them  "
It does feel a bit like that, that's why it makes me laugh as someone who doesn't give a thought to who I am replying as long as I have something to say on the matter  |
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"I only reply to women with a C cup or above. Everyone else is boring.
Have you got a measuring thing like they have in the post office for letters?  "
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"I only reply to women with a C cup or above. Everyone else is boring.
Have you got a measuring thing like they have in the post office for letters?
That’s a brilliant idea. My method of photographic evidence along with a signed declaration seems ridiculous now. "
Tsk ! So 20th century |
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"I do find it funny especially on the comment on the above but the guys find the 12th up because they don't want to reply to a other guy, it does make me giggle.
Mrs "
Maybe I'm an arse, but anytime I see that, I ignore that post and reply to the one above them. (Shrugs) |
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"I do find it funny especially on the comment on the above but the guys find the 12th up because they don't want to reply to a other guy, it does make me giggle.
Mrs "
Lol this and if it's fuck or forget if they accidentally do it against a guy they delete it super fast like they might actually have to. |
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I haven’t really noticed this in others and certainly don’t respond on that basis. If some fine fellow makes me chortle or guffaw, I shall tell him so. I never for a moment think he might think I want to pop my old chap up his fartpipe.
And if a woman says something to which I want to respond, I will. And it’s never based on whether or not I want to put my outie winkie in their innie winkie |
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"I haven’t really noticed this in others and certainly don’t respond on that basis. If some fine fellow makes me chortle or guffaw, I shall tell him so. I never for a moment think he might think I want to pop my old chap up his fartpipe.
And if a woman says something to which I want to respond, I will. And it’s never based on whether or not I want to put my outie winkie in their innie winkie"
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
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Oh, I try not to reply to too many because I feel like I’m overtaking a thread so delete half of them before posting and just read, sometimes I just can’t think of anything interesting to reply and don’t want to be more of a bore than I probably already am |
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"It never bothers me tbh but yes I have noticed those guys too. Each to their own. They must have their issues "
I don't know if they have issues or not but they certainly seem to worry if they respond to another guy their masculinity might drop a notch.  |
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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago
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OP is quite right.
There are exceptions though. As said.
I also fancy ( no statistics though) that som men wait to see what some women thing before wholeheartedly agreeing. You don’t come across as many sensitive men as you do on fab. |
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"OP is quite right.
There are exceptions though. As said.
I also fancy ( no statistics though) that som men wait to see what some women thing before wholeheartedly agreeing. You don’t come across as many sensitive men as you do on fab. "
Thank you. And you are absolutely right, there are some very sensitive and caring and very straight too guys in here who have no issues chatting with other guys. I chat to a few privately myself with absolutely no hidden agenda. You are also right that some guys do wait to see how women respond first before they engage. It's all good fun overall and no big deal. I was laughing to myself as had just seen such behaviour yet again when I posted my initial comment. |
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By *eliWoman
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"I haven’t really noticed this in others and certainly don’t respond on that basis. If some fine fellow makes me chortle or guffaw, I shall tell him so. I never for a moment think he might think I want to pop my old chap up his fartpipe.
And if a woman says something to which I want to respond, I will. And it’s never based on whether or not I want to put my outie winkie in their innie winkie"
Never ever?
I mean...
You're right OP, it does happen a lot. I like when people are comfortable and secure enough to reply to posts because they are replying to the post rather than the person.
It's always happened, it will continue to happen... some men like peacocking and see the fora as a place to potentially get their cock wet. Meh. It happens. |
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"I haven’t really noticed this in others and certainly don’t respond on that basis. If some fine fellow makes me chortle or guffaw, I shall tell him so. I never for a moment think he might think I want to pop my old chap up his fartpipe.
And if a woman says something to which I want to respond, I will. And it’s never based on whether or not I want to put my outie winkie in their innie winkie
Never ever?
I mean...
You're right OP, it does happen a lot. I like when people are comfortable and secure enough to reply to posts because they are replying to the post rather than the person.
It's always happened, it will continue to happen... some men like peacocking and see the fora as a place to potentially get their cock wet. Meh. It happens. "
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"I haven’t really noticed this in others and certainly don’t respond on that basis. If some fine fellow makes me chortle or guffaw, I shall tell him so. I never for a moment think he might think I want to pop my old chap up his fartpipe.
And if a woman says something to which I want to respond, I will. And it’s never based on whether or not I want to put my outie winkie in their innie winkie
Never ever?
I mean...
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Ok, well, you can think what you like but I wrote what I think and what I believe to be true. I don’t really give a shit what games others are playing, I just do me. |
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over a year ago
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"I haven’t really noticed this in others and certainly don’t respond on that basis. If some fine fellow makes me chortle or guffaw, I shall tell him so. I never for a moment think he might think I want to pop my old chap up his fartpipe.
And if a woman says something to which I want to respond, I will. And it’s never based on whether or not I want to put my outie winkie in their innie winkie
Never ever?
I mean...
Ok, well, you can think what you like but I wrote what I think and what I believe to be true. I don’t really give a shit what games others are playing, I just do me."
My point isn't that you're playing games or whatever nonsense you suggested above - it's that you flirt with women on the forums sometimes - based on whether you'd like to get a bit frisky with them.
Most people flirt with someone or maybe some two/three/four people on here. You get the idea.
It just tickled me you said it's never based on that.
Disclaimer - sometimes I reply to people because I'd like to feel their cock inside me. Shocking behaviour. |
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If I start a thread I try to reply to everyone but I think that's just who I am as opposed to being a woman or because I'm playing some sort of game.
Lots of people just dip in and out and probably don't even think about it. |
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Some people only engage with those they might want to fuck
Everyone else is irrelevant
This is most evident with male ops only responding to female posters
I am aware of said behaviour
I just smirk to myself and move on |
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"OP is quite right.
There are exceptions though. As said.
I also fancy ( no statistics though) that som men wait to see what some women thing before wholeheartedly agreeing. You don’t come across as many sensitive men as you do on fab. "
White knighting
Just so you know women do that too but apparently then it's lamppost pissing
The reality is the forum is a tiny part of fab. People can and should use it however they want. It can be a pretty good way of getting to know people beyond their profile.
Sometimes it makes you want to know them more and sometimes you use it to filter them out.
Over the years I've found it to actually be quite a nice community. I've seen love, compassion, support freely given to people when they need it (regardless of gender)
I've seen friendships and relationships blossom.
Granted there are always groups of people who clearly know each other well but in the 12 years I've been around, I'd say it's actually more inclusive now than ever. |
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"I haven’t really noticed this in others and certainly don’t respond on that basis. If some fine fellow makes me chortle or guffaw, I shall tell him so. I never for a moment think he might think I want to pop my old chap up his fartpipe.
And if a woman says something to which I want to respond, I will. And it’s never based on whether or not I want to put my outie winkie in their innie winkie
Never ever?
I mean...
Ok, well, you can think what you like but I wrote what I think and what I believe to be true. I don’t really give a shit what games others are playing, I just do me.
My point isn't that you're playing games or whatever nonsense you suggested above - it's that you flirt with women on the forums sometimes - based on whether you'd like to get a bit frisky with them.
Most people flirt with someone or maybe some two/three/four people on here. You get the idea.
It just tickled me you said it's never based on that.
Disclaimer - sometimes I reply to people because I'd like to feel their cock inside me. Shocking behaviour. "
Always nice to be judged by someone who doesn’t know me, has never met me or spoken to me, has no idea about my life or intentions and assumes that I’m here to shag people. I’m not.
I was (and one woman in particular). But fab isn’t about that for me anymore.
My innocent flirting is just that. |
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If it seems like some ppl are being ignored it still might be that they've been PM'd. That used to happen to me loads on FG, and a bit more just lately on here to which is nice. It's happened since the happiness buzz maybe, all responses to thread-posts and from diverse people too.
Some here are clearly good at responding to lots of people in a broad way, and as nicecouple I think says, some will probably just reply to people who particularly interest them. I often don't really think too much about who I'm responding to tbh, so I hope I've never come across myself as fussy any time. There are loads of posts I think about responding to but don't because I post quite a lot anyway.
I have noticed though that I've contributed to a particular thread all the way through, and the actual OP has almost-fastidiously ignored me! And once or twice - yeah - it has been a guy who's clearly just responding to the women lol. I used to really persevere in some of those for a laugh (ie if it was a silly subject anyway like boob size).
I do sometimes think maybe being passed-by could be for a reason, like a position taken (now or before), or just the cut of my gib (maybe it depends what avatar I have up). It might even be a bit hard for someone, I don't know (TV/TS etc). I never assume anything though, so never take offence (It sounds like no one does).
I know that all of our posts do at least get *read* quite a lot, as these places are full of non-participants (I don't really like the work 'lurkers'). I never personally expect much of a response in the thread itself tbh, unless I'm in an actual debate. I'm just glad this place isn't full of "tldr" replies! People either read or skip post-by-post here, which is all anyone can expect really.
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"If it seems like some ppl are being ignored it still might be that they've been PM'd. That used to happen to me loads on FG, and a bit more just lately on here to which is nice. It's happened since the happiness buzz maybe, all responses to thread-posts and from diverse people too.
Some here are clearly good at responding to lots of people in a broad way, and as nicecouple I think says, some will probably just reply to people who particularly interest them. I often don't really think too much about who I'm responding to tbh, so I hope I've never come across myself as fussy any time. There are loads of posts I think about responding to but don't because I post quite a lot anyway.
I have noticed though that I've contributed to a particular thread all the way through, and the actual OP has almost-fastidiously ignored me! And once or twice - yeah - it has been a guy who's clearly just responding to the women lol. I used to really persevere in some of those for a laugh (ie if it was a silly subject anyway like boob size).
I do sometimes think maybe being passed-by could be for a reason, like a position taken (now or before), or just the cut of my gib (maybe it depends what avatar I have up). It might even be a bit hard for someone, I don't know (TV/TS etc). I never assume anything though, so never take offence (It sounds like no one does).
I know that all of our posts do at least get *read* quite a lot, as these places are full of non-participants (I don't really like the work 'lurkers'). I never personally expect much of a response in the thread itself tbh, unless I'm in an actual debate. I'm just glad this place isn't full of "tldr" replies! People either read or skip post-by-post here, which is all anyone can expect really.
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"Oh, I try not to reply to too many because I feel like I’m overtaking a thread so delete half of them before posting and just read, sometimes I just can’t think of anything interesting to reply and don’t want to be more of a bore than I probably already am
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-I'm sure I've been through all of that lol. Even deleting longer posts unsent! pt |
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"It never bothers me tbh but yes I have noticed those guys too. Each to their own. They must have their issues
I don't know if they have issues or not but they certainly seem to worry if they respond to another guy their masculinity might drop a notch.
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It might depend what type of women those men are after, ie women looking just for them. It does seem to be the opposite to the 'sensitive side' thing (or maybe that is part of it - in the sense of a 'masculine' man selectively showing their other side at times.) Some people just 'are what they are' though.
What gets me is ppl saying they are straight when they really are bi or bicurious (ie more than just swingers). I always think, would many women really care? But each to their own I guess, and maybe some women do. It's impossible to please everyone on here obviously. It's just 'beard/no-beard' too much of the time!
Tbh, I think it's more likely that these 'selective' men are really just picking the women to flirt with, or maybe just acknowledging their buddies.
I've never fully got the idea of the forum itself being somewhere to meet people sexually (or maybe I just mean the Lounge) - but maybe it is? I just see it as a decent online forum tbh (one with a good balance of the sexes and were we can be rude and talk about sex), and I'm using the site anyway... so it's all good, as _obilebottom says.
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