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How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you?
I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X |
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over a year ago
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I went on a date with a lady. Then I said I’m sure I’ve seen you on another site. She nearly died then laughed. Good ice breaker ??
Turned out to be a lovely lady. |
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"One silhouette looks pretty much the same as the next, so I woundnt recognise
I’m always walking around with an emoji hanging around my groin…..
Is it changeable
Have a sad one  "
No your penis can't be sad, go with an aubergine |
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you?
I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X"
Someone's already messaged saying they recognise me from the school run, and people still ask me if I work at Morrisons - I left 9 years ago  I'd never approach anyone I recognised |
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you?
I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X"
If they said hi I would say hi back and carry on with my day. I wouldn’t approach people I don’t know though. |
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you?
I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X
Someone's already messaged saying they recognise me from the school run, and people still ask me if I work at Morrisons - I left 9 years ago I'd never approach anyone I recognised"
I thought it was Aldi s
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you?
I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X
Someone's already messaged saying they recognise me from the school run, and people still ask me if I work at Morrisons - I left 9 years ago I'd never approach anyone I recognised
I thought it was Aldi s
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I have a doppelganger  |
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I could not care less been openly gay the last 40 + years and my family /friends and partner know i use these sites.
If someone wants to approach and say hi i don't have a problem with it at all .several occasions where i have been been recognised by people off fabguys/fabswingers when i had my face picture in several of my public photos.
last one was in Rain bar in Huddersfield about 8 month ago.
Had a good chat few drinks together but never got past just being social as i no longer played close to home after it took ages to get a local to understand i never wanted to meet him again.
Another was a Kurdish barber couple years ago when was just me and him in the shop he told me my user name off Fabguys and that we had chatted in past but he lost nerve to meet me that one did lead to more.
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We usually message them/him/her on here if we think it’s appropriate or necessary, otherwise we just keep quiet about it, and we expect the same in return! People have recognised us, even based on our faceless pics, maybe mrs should wear more clothes at gigs? We’ll talk to anyone about anything though  |
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We know nothing about people's private life and unless we've been invited to meet someone we just walk past and say nothing. We expect the same from other people.
You don't know what's going on with people. |
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I would suggest that most people on here require discretion of their being on any adult sites. If someone approached me, and had recognised me from here lol, as long as they don't say anything in front of others I would be happy to continue chatting. But if they blurted out something in-discretionally they would very quickly learn it was the very very wrong thing to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing would happen
Maybe just a heart beat n anxiety
Same as that girl u always fancied and have a massive crash from day one at school
But u just wouldn’t get anywhere near
Same goes for celebrities .
Who cares if is Madonna or Maradonna
Is just someone shopping or drinking coffee
If is not my friend is just a stranger …
Or what ?
Shall I just roll my snake out on top of the table
“ snake delivery !!!!! “ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I don't know them/don't like them then well...run or just say really weird shit to them to creep them out. My standard strategy honestly.
If its a friend or someone cute then well...I won't mind help with the shopping  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I changed my mind
I would just pull her knickers down , turn her around , bend her over and just fuck her senseless really hard .
And both cum quicker then toke u to read this
The end |
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"It is what it is , most people are on here for the same reasons "
That's a dangerous assumption to make.
Just because some people have facepics on their profile and are happy for people to know they are here doesn't give them the right to assume that everyone should feel the same.
I would never approach anyone and would ignore a random stranger approaching me.
It's always funny in these threads that men are seen as pests for approaching people in the supermarket or high street and yet it's acceptable for couples to do it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you?
I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X"
most people on here need to be discreet.ive met a few people on here that are local to me and we have agreed that if we see each other out and about then we pretend we don't know each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would suggest that most people on here require discretion of their being on any adult sites. If someone approached me, and had recognised me from here lol, as long as they don't say anything in front of others I would be happy to continue chatting. But if they blurted out something in-discretionally they would very quickly learn it was the very very wrong thing to do."
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I hate it when people approach me person, it makes me feel uncomfortable and unsafe in some circumstances. If people approach you in public especially when you have company with you, they are showing you no respect whatsoever |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
If it was someone I didn't know personally from here I'd find it creepy as hell and I would either ignore them or tell them they are a creep. It's the same as getting messages off people claiming they know you and not saying who they are it's just fucking creepy behaviour.And when they are completely wrong ignoring that fact is worse.
The excuse we are all on here for the same reason is bull because no everyone isn't on here for the same reason and approaching someone in person going about their daily life would prove to me that they are not someone I would want to get to know either. |
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I met someone at a fab party I used to work with. It was lovely. We both talked about folk we knew and our different hopes for swinging. She wasn't interested in me sexually. But we've kept in touch in here. Fun |
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By *atnayCouple
over a year ago
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"It is what it is , most people are on here for the same reasons
That's a dangerous assumption to make.
Just because some people have facepics on their profile and are happy for people to know they are here doesn't give them the right to assume that everyone should feel the same.
I would never approach anyone and would ignore a random stranger approaching me.
It's always funny in these threads that men are seen as pests for approaching people in the supermarket or high street and yet it's acceptable for couples to do it?"
We have face pics of us within our profile, but not as our main profile pic. We set them to public for a few hours and update our status to state if we are going to a club that night. After that its back to friends only.
We're worried we could get recognised. We live in hope that if someone did, they would be respectfull enough not to approach or broadcast it.
I did have a guy walk past me several times at our local costa once. He kept winking at me as he went by. I just ignored him.
We would never approach someone if we recognised them. Unless in a club and they were smiling at us.
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"We’d provide nothing more than a knowing smile if we spotted anyone off here and would be grateful to be offered the same in return. "
This. I don’t mind it being acknowledged in a very discreet way but that’s all.
I’m forever seeing people who look familiar to me but can’t place where I know them from and always wonder if it’s off here.
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By *linyMan
over a year ago
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Of course I’d approach them, I’d tell her that I’d love to ruin her and I want to cum all over her tits! Then I remember that real life ISN’T fab and that people have their own lives to lead as THEY wish to lead it! You may have even met them before but unless they initiate contact either a smile, a wink or a cordial hello, just keep calm and carry on with your day. |
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Generally if its people we recognise but don't know personally we'd never approach them and say hey your on fab. As to if we were to approach them at all would depend on circumstances and if we were intrested in them.
For example if they were out with family, at work or just doing their daily thing we'd leave it be. Maybe send a wink later on the app.
However if say we seen them down the pub we may go strike up a conversation. Again we wouldn't come straight out with the fab thing. First just see if we pick up on flirty swinger vibes and if they are in fact intrested in being hit on (they may just want time alone as a couple). Then maybe share/indicate that we maybe swingers. If they indicate same back that maybe that would be the time to ask if they were on fab (us already knowing the answer) and taking it from there.
But as a general rule if in any doubt that your letting people know they're fab would be welcome just don't. Lots of people like to keep vanilla and fab life separated and it's terrible form to interfer with people's vanilla space unless you have an indication it'd be welcome. |
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"Generally if its people we recognise but don't know personally we'd never approach them and say hey your on fab. As to if we were to approach them at all would depend on circumstances and if we were intrested in them.
For example if they were out with family, at work or just doing their daily thing we'd leave it be. Maybe send a wink later on the app.
However if say we seen them down the pub we may go strike up a conversation. Again we wouldn't come straight out with the fab thing. First just see if we pick up on flirty swinger vibes and if they are in fact intrested in being hit on (they may just want time alone as a couple). Then maybe share/indicate that we maybe swingers. If they indicate same back that maybe that would be the time to ask if they were on fab (us already knowing the answer) and taking it from there.
But as a general rule if in any doubt that your letting people know they're fab would be welcome just don't. Lots of people like to keep vanilla and fab life separated and it's terrible form to interfer with people's vanilla space unless you have an indication it'd be welcome."
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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Someone from my wok is on here, not of my business and I wouldn't say anything as it would be a bit hypocritial. Plus if they don't know I'm here, which I don't care if they do know, then I would out myself. I can't see anthing wrong in being here, i Just keep my face hidden as I'm a single parent. |
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Personally I wouldn’t be bothered, however I would never approach someone I didn’t know and tell them I have seen them on fab, that is just creepy.
My ex who is also still my best friend, walked into work one day and found a post it note on her desk saying “ I know” (and her fab username) obviously this is super creepy and freaked her out. To this day we still don’t know who that was, but she now hides her profile. |
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you?
I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X"
how would we recognise you from your blank avatar cmon give us a chance  |
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"Message me on here but leave me the fuck alone out and about.put £10 in the bucket
Bucket? £10? Jesus, inflation really has become ridiculous! ...and how big is your swear jar???  "
you know the old black bins with the found lid? |
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If someone recognises me and I've spoke to them properly on here first, all good.
If someone I've never spoken to talks to me at a club as if we know each other, uncomfortable, but tolerable.
If I'm out in the normal world and we do t know each other well enough to have a conversation, leave me the fuck alone  |
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No, don't ever approach me, and don't send messages saying "have I seen you on the school run" "were you in this pub the other night" "Di you live in this area" it's never me, and it's really creepy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of I'm alone, come say hi. I've done similar when I recognise face pics here. It feels somewhat unfair to have an imbalance of knowledge.
If they have ppl with them. Never ! |
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Get recognized constantly from here! At work out on my bycicle even on holiday down in Cornwall last summer! Posties delivering parcels ! But I do put weekly if not daily face pics up so understandable! Some have approached most just message later! I'm cool with it x |
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A lot of interesting and different views from everyone on this subject lol. Just to be clear I would never approach anyone without speaking to them first out of respect and discretion, but from seeing various statues about the subject it peeked my interest… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few times. The best one was a very old friend walking up to me and whispering my profile name in my ear. He winked and smiled and that was that. He was a couples profile with his wife.
Absolute bloody loved it |
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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago
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I would hate it and those who say we’re both here for the same reasons just aren’t thinking straight. If someone had seen me on fb and approached me in the street I’d hate it. I’ve not invited anyone on the street to approach me, it’s a bit weird, I’m wary of strangers approaching me. Someone you don’t already know, saying they know you feels creepy |
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"I would hate it and those who say we’re both here for the same reasons just aren’t thinking straight. If someone had seen me on fb and approached me in the street I’d hate it. I’ve not invited anyone on the street to approach me, it’s a bit weird, I’m wary of strangers approaching me. Someone you don’t already know, saying they know you feels creepy"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's common sense and decent that you never acknowledge or approach anyone in public unless you are 100% confident it's safe for them to do so and they will be OK with that "
Some people don't have any common sense.  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you?
I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X"
I'd be fucked off if someone approached either of us in the street or anywhere in public.
And honestly - there may be 30,000+ people on Fab at any given moment but statistically the odds on another site member ever walking past our house, let alone at the exact moment I'm looking out into the street whilst coincidentally recalling the few visible face photos I've ever seen of site members.......?
I'm more likely to win the euromillions or get struck by lightning. 
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Slightly different scenario but I was approached by someone I'd never met at a group social who called me by my profile name.
When I asked how they knew who I was they said they recognised me from my facepic in the presocial chatgroup.
Which was a bit strange as I was never in the chatgroup and don't share facepics even back when I did group chats.
That told me all I needed to know about how some people treat discretion on here and just because they have no issue with people knowing who they are they feel it's ok to apply their rules to everyone else. |
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"Slightly different scenario but I was approached by someone I'd never met at a group social who called me by my profile name.
When I asked how they knew who I was they said they recognised me from my facepic in the presocial chatgroup.
Which was a bit strange as I was never in the chatgroup and don't share facepics even back when I did group chats.
That told me all I needed to know about how some people treat discretion on here and just because they have no issue with people knowing who they are they feel it's ok to apply their rules to everyone else. "
That's shocking that anyone should do that |
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"How would you feel if someone recognized you from Fab and approached you?
I’ve recognized a few people from Fab in the real world walking past my house… would you want someone to be discreet or approach you? How would you react? Would be interesting to see opinions…. X"
Ok, I’m going to risk a cancelling here……I’ve been on Fab since almost day one, I’ve been to hundreds of swinging events over the years and I’ve never recognised a Fabber walking past my house! Now maybe that’s bad luck on my part, but the chances of recognising a “few” people seems akin to a lottery win!
Perhaps more daydreaming out of the window OP or wishful thinking? Either way, be careful what you wish for  |
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There was someone from my old work on fab and she posted some very hot pics with her boyfriend.
I often got served by her but would never have said anything. It’s simply not appropriate and would be incredibly embarrassing for both parties.
You clearly can’t help seeing things. But there is a line that needs to be drawn.
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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Probably just say hi, although in everyday life it'd feel a little awkward.. unless they were hot of course..
Tbh, we sometimes struggle to recognise some at club's you've sent us face pics..
Although, whilst at a clubs it's flattering to be approached and asked are you DeyeY? |
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"I'd actually be pretty pissed off. It's a unwritten rule that this world isn't the real world and all our privacy should be respected."
Yep, exactly this. Don't do it, peeps. I don't want to be approached about Fab in Sainsbury's. |
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"I'd actually be pretty pissed off. It's a unwritten rule that this world isn't the real world and all our privacy should be respected.
Yep, exactly this. Don't do it, peeps. I don't want to be approached about Fab in Sainsbury's."
Would it be acceptable in Aldi then |
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