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How many women run couples profiles?
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I am just curious I have always run our profile as in my guy like me to look at photos etc and do the chats as he wants me to be totally comfortable.
I get so pissed when guy message as if I am the property of the MR  |
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It is a mix between us, we are both generally involved and whichever one of us is free to reply does so and updates the other until they can join in.
I tend to post randomly on the forum but Mr doesnt really.
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over a year ago
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Pretty much all the couples profiles are run by the women, no matter if they do the admin or not. The fairer sex will inevitably be more selective in choosing prospective partners than the horny puppy. Many will leave the boring sifting through dick pics, fakes and flakes to the cuck or master for that matter, the rest of them will just not notice me. Even the most submissive sluts of fab life have their personal preferences and boundaries not to be exceeded by the one they put their trust in. Fab life is run by women, at least i truly hope so or it is something dark and disturbing and not at all nice. |
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"Pretty much all the couples profiles are run by the women, no matter if they do the admin or not. The fairer sex will inevitably be more selective in choosing prospective partners than the horny puppy. Many will leave the boring sifting through dick pics, fakes and flakes to the cuck or master for that matter, the rest of them will just not notice me. Even the most submissive sluts of fab life have their personal preferences and boundaries not to be exceeded by the one they put their trust in. Fab life is run by women, at least i truly hope so or it is something dark and disturbing and not at all nice."
Have you been on fab as part of a couple? |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
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I’d hope it’s equal but maybe I just had bad luck with the messages I’m sent from couples because I’ve never know women speak that way in person, either way I don’t know but it’d be nice if more women ran them |
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"I’d hope it’s equal but maybe I just had bad luck with the messages I’m sent from couples because I’ve never know women speak that way in person, either way I don’t know but it’d be nice if more women ran them "
Do you not get the best replies if it is the male partner responding? Is that what you mean? Or you suspect its a man replying as if it was the female partner?
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Most of the time it's me ( hubby) doing the initial chatting. Mrs will occasionally log in when she's at work but seems to stay in the forums. She gets more involved if things look like they may be progressing towards a meet or when we are going to a club. |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
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"I’d hope it’s equal but maybe I just had bad luck with the messages I’m sent from couples because I’ve never know women speak that way in person, either way I don’t know but it’d be nice if more women ran them
Do you not get the best replies if it is the male partner responding? Is that what you mean? Or you suspect its a man replying as if it was the female partner?
Xx"
When face to face I find women and men have different ways of speaking, it translates into text too and can be telling. Plus women tend not to talk about what they want to do with their cocks so much, other body parts sure but yeah
This is only my personal experience though and I do have a lot of bad luck so idk |
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"Actually I assumed it was the men who ran the couple profiles on here
Why's that? "
In the past when I met couples, it was nearly always the male who said he was mailing. Even now I get messages predominantly from the male half, despite not meeting nor seeking couples. |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
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"Actually I assumed it was the men who ran the couple profiles on here
Why's that?
In the past when I met couples, it was nearly always the male who said he was mailing. Even now I get messages predominantly from the male half, despite not meeting nor seeking couples."
Oh so much the same! Had a couple messaging last week and ignoring my no thanks, after 4 I snapped and told them to leave me alone, they didn’t half become abusive and so so quickly
It’s unfortunate but why I won’t consider couples anymore |
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I do, for the most part. Mr rarely ventures into the forums, I do the messaging and arranging meets etc. if we’re chatting to couples or women he will get involved in the chat of course but it’s usually me most of the time  . |
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"I do, for the most part. Mr rarely ventures into the forums, I do the messaging and arranging meets etc. if we’re chatting to couples or women he will get involved in the chat of course but it’s usually me most of the time . "
We need to see a bit more of Mr Shiv |
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90 percent of all couples profiles I've spoken to in my time here have been run by the woman and in the vast majority of those I've never spoken to the man at any stage.
I'm also one half of a couples profile and we both run it equally, posting on the forums and replying to messages as and when we have the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do, for the most part. Mr rarely ventures into the forums, I do the messaging and arranging meets etc. if we’re chatting to couples or women he will get involved in the chat of course but it’s usually me most of the time .
We need to see a bit more of Mr Shiv "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do, for the most part. Mr rarely ventures into the forums, I do the messaging and arranging meets etc. if we’re chatting to couples or women he will get involved in the chat of course but it’s usually me most of the time .
We need to see a bit more of Mr Shiv
I’ll try my best "
Aww I hope he's not shy  He's in safe hands on here ...  |
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"90 percent of all couples profiles I've spoken to in my time here have been run by the woman and in the vast majority of those I've never spoken to the man at any stage.
I'm also one half of a couples profile and we both run it equally, posting on the forums and replying to messages as and when we have the time. "
I wonder if it is more gender dependent then ? Couples mailing men is generated by the women ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pretty much all the couples profiles are run by the women, no matter if they do the admin or not. The fairer sex will inevitably be more selective in choosing prospective partners than the horny puppy. Many will leave the boring sifting through dick pics, fakes and flakes to the cuck or master for that matter, the rest of them will just not notice me. Even the most submissive sluts of fab life have their personal preferences and boundaries not to be exceeded by the one they put their trust in. Fab life is run by women, at least i truly hope so or it is something dark and disturbing and not at all nice.
Have you been on fab as part of a couple? "
I have. The ex wife who used to run the show and got just exactly what she wanted. The sammich maker (AKA my better half) who could not be bothered with the pestering messages and general dumbassery so i did the admin. For a few months last year i helped a good friend dip her toe in the water but either the bed was too lumpy or the porridge was too hot and she didnt find what she was looking for. |
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"I do, for the most part. Mr rarely ventures into the forums, I do the messaging and arranging meets etc. if we’re chatting to couples or women he will get involved in the chat of course but it’s usually me most of the time .
We need to see a bit more of Mr Shiv
I’ll try my best
Aww I hope he's not shy He's in safe hands on here ... "
There wasn’t much confidence in the way you typed that there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We need to see a bit more of Mr Shiv
I’ll try my best
Aww I hope he's not shy He's in safe hands on here ...
There wasn’t much confidence in the way you typed that there "
You think he might be submerged under a horde of craven Fab women... |
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"90 percent of all couples profiles I've spoken to in my time here have been run by the woman and in the vast majority of those I've never spoken to the man at any stage.
I'm also one half of a couples profile and we both run it equally, posting on the forums and replying to messages as and when we have the time.
I wonder if it is more gender dependent then ? Couples mailing men is generated by the women ?"
Possibly. On the flip side the only abuse I've ever received in six years has been from very well verified couples profiles run by the male half.
They send a list of demands in their opening message and tell me how I don't have any options on here.
I say no thanks and get told I'm an idiot, it's my loss and do I not know who they are and how many people they've met? |
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"Actually I assumed it was the men who ran the couple profiles on here
Why's that? "
Because its been reported a lot on here that certain men create fake couple profiles as they feel they get more attention then if they had a single profile. I'm not saying it's prevalent on here but it happens |
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We need to see a bit more of Mr Shiv
I’ll try my best
Aww I hope he's not shy He's in safe hands on here ...
There wasn’t much confidence in the way you typed that there
You think he might be submerged under a horde of craven Fab women... "
He’d be in his element |
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There wasn’t much confidence in the way you typed that there
You think he might be submerged under a horde of craven Fab women...
He’d be in his element "
Let him loose to do his worst...  |
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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago
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Harley tends to do all the messages and replies. I tend to be the one on the forums. So if you send a message about a forum post it's pretty useless unless we're together at that point in time.
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
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"I tend to run it most days, but she does when I’m in the office.
Both have access so you’ll get replies in here from both at times too.
I’m also the one that arranges any meets. "
And a fine job you do too, such a good little bitch (don’t hurt me later…).  |
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We both access it, I tend to post more on the forums than him, he finds replies easier than me to messages (I'm just crap at knowing what to message) but generally we'll both reply to any messages sent. And likewise sending it could be either of us.
So I'd say probably 60/40 as I'm on here a bit more often
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Would it be better for everyone to have their individual profile that can be linked together to form a couple and messages to the couple be shared as a group conversation? |
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Mr has always run our accounts over some fifteen years. Wife cannot be bothered sifting through the high volume of awful messages we get and the time it’s all takes. Mr narrows down the field based on what we seek at the time and then present the leading contenders knowing what she likes/dislikes and based on the quality of messaging. She will then ask specific things of our favourites.
Openness and trust is the key rather than who rounds the account in our mind. |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
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Run by the male, me, for us. Wife doesn’t have the time and can’t be bothered.
I love the attention when a straight guy’s first message calls me honey and says how sexy I am. It’s really good for the male ego |
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"Run by the male, me, for us. Wife doesn’t have the time and can’t be bothered.
I love the attention when a straight guy’s first message calls me honey and says how sexy I am. It’s really good for the male ego "
How do you deal with that? Im curious, I like to know Mr is wanted too!
Hence we dont have single men able to message us
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Neither of us 'run' ours.
It's a couples profiles and we're a couple, so equally responsible for it.
Sure. It's always me in the forums and Fox that deals with messages (unless forum related), browsing for potentially compatible profiles on the rare occasions we can meet and also managing photos.
But neither makes a decision without the other, overrules one of us or has any dominance over how the profile is run.
It's pure unadulterated swinging communism.
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"I am just curious I have always run our profile as in my guy like me to look at photos etc and do the chats as he wants me to be totally comfortable.
I get so pissed when guy message as if I am the property of the MR "
Some guys do that regardless of who runs the profile.
We're probably an 80/20 split with male being the more chatty one. |
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Up date on earlier forum post.
Claire here.
He forgot to add that when we do have a meet that within 10 mins it's usually me that is the chat box. Lol. Can't help it. Don't know if it's a nervous thing or not. Hubby says I'm just a naturally chatty person.
Side note....
Susie. If you were closer I'd definitely be having cocktails with you. There. That's my confession for the day. Xxx |
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By *linky1Couple
over a year ago
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"Mr has always run our accounts over some fifteen years. Wife cannot be bothered sifting through the high volume of awful messages we get and the time it’s all takes. Mr narrows down the field based on what we seek at the time and then present the leading contenders knowing what she likes/dislikes and based on the quality of messaging. She will then ask specific things of our favourites.
Openness and trust is the key rather than who rounds the account in our mind. "
Same here if my wife had to trawl through the tasteless messages and time wasters she would soon give up on the whole thing.
Happy for her to take over when things look promising. We always make it clear who is talking.
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"Mr has always run our accounts over some fifteen years. Wife cannot be bothered sifting through the high volume of awful messages we get and the time it’s all takes. Mr narrows down the field based on what we seek at the time and then present the leading contenders knowing what she likes/dislikes and based on the quality of messaging. She will then ask specific things of our favourites.
Openness and trust is the key rather than who rounds the account in our mind. Same here if my wife had to trawl through the tasteless messages and time wasters she would soon give up on the whole thing.
Happy for her to take over when things look promising. We always make it clear who is talking.
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"Would it be better for everyone to have their individual profile that can be linked together to form a couple and messages to the couple be shared as a group conversation?"
No as we only meet as a couple so we have no need for single profiles. Although I can see it would work for those that do meet alone too
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By *oxy jWoman 45 weeks ago
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me and hubs run our couples account fue to it being cuckold tho i pick the meets but its our profile..
i/we have filtered out couples on fab due to them mostly being male led know alot of others who do this to and if a club if the couples are or seem male led then we avoid |
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As I couple I done most of the admin. Showed the wife the profiles, messages etc to confirm she was happy to proceed.
If it got to having a pre meet phone call then my wife would always speak to them as well. My wife had a very busy job so it was delicaded |
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This used to be my single profile when I first set it up looking for ladies to meet.
I added Husband to it as a couple when we got together and decided to carry on meeting ladies and couples.
I still use it.
He also started a new couples one for which he uses. |
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I run and manage our profile as the Mrs cant be dealing with all the fakes and timewaters on here.
It is in our profile that I manage the account so we are not hiding anything but stil get guys messaging us saying I have nice tits,ass,pussy etc.
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Cherry doesn’t run this profile, we both run it together.
I answer most of the messages at the moment but Cherry is in charge of creating and curating the photos and I do most of the writing.
We both read the messages, take part in the forums, but I reply to most of the messages.
Hades
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Mr here. I generally look after the day to day running. To add context we generally don't use Fab to find meets. Our main use of FAB is to keep an eye on what's going on and clubs/parties and events we'd like to go to. Our distribution on here is:
Mr: Day to day running. Looking out for parties/clubs and events we'd enjoy. Making Mrs aware of any news or messages she'd be intrested to know about. Making enquiries with people about things we'd be intrested in. Also I often pass the time on the Forums (Mrs not so intrested).
Mrs: Will occasionally use the profile to have a see what's going on and let me know of anything/anyone that's taken her intrest. Also it's her department to look over messages from single guys and let me know if any take her fancy.
Joint: Posting photos. Looking over messages from couples and ladies. Responding to messages showing an intrest in meeting us or winks. On the very rare occasion sending a wink, putting a meet up or sending a message to someone we're intrested in.
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Me. I do.
MrAbz pops on to see whats going on or if I want him to see messages etc but usually its just me on here
Not that he doesnt enjoy fab, its just I am the chatty one so it makes sense
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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We look together when we together, hence some messages don't get answered for days or even weeks lol and of course he has lost his log in details x See he has been on this site and enjoyed this scenario for a while now. Me only a couple of years as he introduced me ro it. But due to family and work makes it difficult. Because we have specific wants I leave him to explain. I look at profiles and let him know if a yes or no. At end of the day we a couple and we meet as a couple. So we browse as a couple. He knows boundaries and will not let anyone overstep. Think that's why I feel safe.
He has had single male accounts in the past. But this is for us.
Also you get a better reply from him. I have been known to just delete hahahaha. Sometimes I reply. But I like reading the forums  |
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