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Are swingers better lovers?
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By *rispyDuck OP Man
over a year ago
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Do you think being a swinger has made you a better lover? Though your experience in this lifestyle have u learnt anything u think have made you a better lover? Compared to vanilla encounters would u say the sex is better or the same with fab meets you’ve had I mean?
I used to think I was good till my 1st ever meet. Damn I remember that milf rocked my world haha  she made me the stallion I am today! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
No it depends on the person and chemistry between you both. I've had amazing sex from people I met on here and in real life and I've also had the polar opposite in both as well.So no I don't think being on here and being classed as a swinger will mean the sex will be amazing. |
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I don’t think this lifestyle has made me a ‘better’ lover, but I have certainly experienced many more fantastic scenarios than I possibly would have in vanillaland 
Something I have learned through the meets I have had through here, and has surprised me, is how many men don’t lick pussy, and don’t lick until the woman cums. Also, how selfish lovers most men are. Pillowtalk can be very enlightening, and possibly this has made me a better lover, because I listen……  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think as an ex partner reminded me recently, sex is something you do with other people. So I’m good with some people, I’m amazing with others and I’m probably underwhelming with some too. But everyone’s body is different and responds differently to different things I do. Gotta learn someone’s body but sex is always better with people that communicate well from the outset. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What makes a better experience is a better initial connection.
I don’t particularly think that ‘experience’ as you describe it has any bearing on the experience one can have with another whom they share a deep mental, emotional and sexual connection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Since joining Fab I suck like a Dyson and fuck like a Swinger. 
Oh god! Is that what we're supposed to do? I've been having sex like a Dyson and sucking at swinging "
You should cut up your Swinging membership card immediately!  |
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I think it can have the opposite effect if I'm honest. I've seen more than one man that obviously has a set list of moves that they've found successful on previous meets, so that's what they stick to. Only that, no deviating from that step by step guide, no reading my body and reactions...so many women have enjoyed it in the past, why wouldn't I enjoy it?  It's like multiple casual sexual encounters turned has them into an autonomous sex robot. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it can have the opposite effect if I'm honest. I've seen more than one man that obviously has a set list of moves that they've found successful on previous meets, so that's what they stick to. Only that, no deviating from that step by step guide, no reading my body and reactions...so many women have enjoyed it in the past, why wouldn't I enjoy it? It's like multiple casual sexual encounters turned has them into an autonomous sex robot. "
Yes! This is very true.
I don't think being a swinger makes you better at fucking. That chemistry, connection and desire to listen to another's body and respond accordingly to that doesn't come about because you've fucked a few people.
I do think you can learn about yourself more through more sex but it doesn't mean swinging = a better fuck. |
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By *rispyDuck OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think it can have the opposite effect if I'm honest. I've seen more than one man that obviously has a set list of moves that they've found successful on previous meets, so that's what they stick to. Only that, no deviating from that step by step guide, no reading my body and reactions...so many women have enjoyed it in the past, why wouldn't I enjoy it? It's like multiple casual sexual encounters turned has them into an autonomous sex robot.
Yes! This is very true.
I don't think being a swinger makes you better at fucking. That chemistry, connection and desire to listen to another's body and respond accordingly to that doesn't come about because you've fucked a few people.
I do think you can learn about yourself more through more sex but it doesn't mean swinging = a better fuck."
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"Do you think being a swinger has made you a better lover? Though your experience in this lifestyle have u learnt anything u think have made you a better lover? Compared to vanilla encounters would u say the sex is better or the same with fab meets you’ve had I mean?
I used to think I was good till my 1st ever meet. Damn I remember that milf rocked my world haha she made me the stallion I am today! "
sex is sex you're either good at it or not no flavours are involved  |
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"I don’t think this lifestyle has made me a ‘better’ lover, but I have certainly experienced many more fantastic scenarios than I possibly would have in vanillaland
Something I have learned through the meets I have had through here, and has surprised me, is how many men don’t lick pussy, and don’t lick until the woman cums. Also, how selfish lovers most men are. Pillowtalk can be very enlightening, and possibly this has made me a better lover, because I listen…… "
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I think being part of this community has opened up my mind to alternative ways of having sex, and being with people who are more honest and open about what they want has influenced me as a lover in that I now have a greater experience base to call upon. So in that sense, yes.
However has it made me any better at fucking? Juries out on that one.... |
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mixed results here, some great meets, some not so great meets, difficult to generalize.
Depends on the people involved, the moods we are in, the energy levels we have at the time, the communication flowing (or not) if we are hurried or have plenty of time, and so on...
I have, of course, learnt a thing or three over the years, and collected a few toys to spice things up, so there is that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Since joining Fab I suck like a Dyson and fuck like a Swinger.
Oh god! Is that what we're supposed to do? I've been having sex like a Dyson and sucking at swinging
this made me squirt!
Mrs TMN x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am more open about what I enjoy when I meet a like minded person I click with. But even clicking on here is rare.
Definitely doesn't make everyone better |
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I don't think being a swinger causes you to be better at sex. But I guess swingers are typically the sort of people who are more open to experiment. That sort of person is probably more fun in bed. So correlation not causation.
Needs extensive further hands-on practical research though... |
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