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At what age do men no longer become sexually attractive?
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Let me clarify.
Ladies and gentlemen I know some people can stay attractive up to a good age.
But generally speaking ladies what age are men seen as no longer viable sexual partners?
50,55,60?
As many women on here set their upper limit of 50 are us guy's above this age wasting our time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good question. My preference is under 50 but I've met some gorgeous 50+ and also some far less attractive 30-somethings. It all depends how well you take care of yourself. |
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I think it's relative and changes with age. I remember in my early adulthood thinking people in their mid 40s looked ancient. I don't think that way now.
However, my age restrictions on messages are mostly about reducing the number of messages I get (when my filters are open), not my hard limits. |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
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"Let me clarify.
Ladies and gentlemen I know some people can stay attractive up to a good age.
But generally speaking ladies what age are men seen as no longer viable sexual partners?
50,55,60?
As many women on here set their upper limit of 50 are us guy's above this age wasting our time?"
its an interesting question isnt it. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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See, I like them older generally. I like men with greying hair, their smile lines, that ease within themselves that accompany it. Recently I've found that I can be attracted to men who are less than 15 years older than me.
I think for me, it's more about how a man is with me, how attracted I am to him. I've not yet been attracted to a man over 65 but who knows? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let me clarify.
Ladies and gentlemen I know some people can stay attractive up to a good age.
But generally speaking ladies what age are men seen as no longer viable sexual partners?
50,55,60?
As many women on here set their upper limit of 50 are us guy's above this age wasting our time?"
 oh ffs, I might as well leave right now…. I’m not counting down to the end of my chances to cop off.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*Shuffles in at back. Creaks down onto chair making that noise that people do when they sit down. Places zimmerframe at side of chair and proceeds to suck on a Werther's Original*..... |
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We are 66 and 62 and still have a lot of fun sharing younger couples and women. If YOU are nice to people, people will warm to you.
Some people begin acting, looking and dressing like oldies too early, we prefer to grow old disgracefully and spend most of the winter nude on the beach with friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was set to 50 many moons ago. But I found that certain individuals that I found attractive had actually lied about their age and were in fact over 50. Who'd have thought it hey? So I upped it to 55 because I clearly found over 50 hot.
Over 55 hasn't happened.... Yet. There may be that one time someone reveals they bypassed my age prefence in future.
Older would be more of an issue if I was looking for a relationship when you factor in my circumstances and their retirement being way sooner than mine. But I'm not here for that. Though maybe that's why I don't automatically consider older. Subconscious thought maybe.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have it on good authority that I am still sexually attractive at 62. So anyone who limits themselves to young whippersnappers of 50 is losing out. Don't blame me, I don't write the rules. |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"Let me clarify.
Ladies and gentlemen I know some people can stay attractive up to a good age.
But generally speaking ladies what age are men seen as no longer viable sexual partners?
50,55,60?
As many women on here set their upper limit of 50 are us guy's above this age wasting our time?
oh ffs, I might as well leave right now…. I’m not counting down to the end of my chances to cop off. "
I standing right woth you, with my walking stick. |
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"Mine was set to 50 many moons ago. But I found that certain individuals that I found attractive had actually lied about their age and were in fact over 50. Who'd have thought it hey? So I upped it to 55 because I clearly found over 50 hot.
Over 55 hasn't happened.... Yet. There may be that one time someone reveals they bypassed my age prefence in future.
Older would be more of an issue if I was looking for a relationship when you factor in my circumstances and their retirement being way sooner than mine. But I'm not here for that. Though maybe that's why I don't automatically consider older. Subconscious thought maybe.
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Hubby is 56 this year, so if you ever fancy an older cpl  |
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"Let me clarify.
Ladies and gentlemen I know some people can stay attractive up to a good age.
But generally speaking ladies what age are men seen as no longer viable sexual partners?
50,55,60?
As many women on here set their upper limit of 50 are us guy's above this age wasting our time?"
Definitely not, I have had more and better sex in my 50s. Equally, similar aged ladies just as sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d have said approx 55 a couple of yes ago but noticed a dapper gent of around 65 the other day and he was hot, like librarian/history teacher hot. Had that slightly loony/dishevelled look I go for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As many women on here set their upper limit of 50 are us guy's above this age wasting our time?
I definitely think it's down to individual, some are gonna like you, some wont , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find some men in their 70s attractive, as I get older myself my tastes change"
Every day I get more accepting that we’ll never have the best sex of our lives together |
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"Let me clarify.
Ladies and gentlemen I know some people can stay attractive up to a good age.
But generally speaking ladies what age are men seen as no longer viable sexual partners?
50,55,60?
As many women on here set their upper limit of 50 are us guy's above this age wasting our time?"
Age has little to do with it. A guy is either attractive or unattractive .
I prefer to judge someone on their personality (and cock size) rather than looks. |
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Surely it depends on the age of the viewer?
I am good for my age, but wouldn't expect a 25 or 30 Yr old to agree.
The best looking guy at my work...any lady over 25 think he's gorgeous...is 58. Super fit, silver fox, always been handsome, and totally loves his wife. They all talk about him, except the 20-25 Yr olds.
Some in this group still do, but its not a given.
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As someone who is genuinely attracted to older men (over 60's if possible), you really do see both sides - from super attractive people with real sexual experience and skill who really know how to work it (young people are often over-virile - it's how nature works) to people who struggle in various ways, some in keeping it up. Men are muscle and heat, even big men. And women seem to experience sex in a variety different ways too. I don't know what the OP is expecting people to say really.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the real World I think older men still stand a good chance if they are presentable and not arseholes.
On fab I think you are pretty much written off at 50 simply because the odds are you aren’t presentable and probably an arsehole.
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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago
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People are saying that they have a cut-off age of , say 50s though find certain qualities in older men attractive but these are ones that only become apparent when you get to know them. How does that work? |
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"In the real World I think older men still stand a good chance if they are presentable and not arseholes.
On fab I think you are pretty much written off at 50 simply because the odds are you aren’t presentable and probably an arsehole.
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-Does that include at 60, or have you crawled out of this miserable era. pt |
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"I find some men in their 70s attractive, as I get older myself my tastes change
Every day I get more accepting that we’ll never have the best sex of our lives together "
Ah Mr P don't be disheartened perhaps we can have the best sex of our lives apart |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the real World I think older men still stand a good chance if they are presentable and not arseholes.
On fab I think you are pretty much written off at 50 simply because the odds are you aren’t presentable and probably an arsehole.
-Does that include at 60, or have you crawled out of this miserable era. pt"
I think it kicks in at 50, and applies ever after. Whilst there are still people clearly attractive beyond that age, the odds are against others actively looking to see that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find some men in their 70s attractive, as I get older myself my tastes change
Every day I get more accepting that we’ll never have the best sex of our lives together
Ah Mr P don't be disheartened perhaps we can have the best sex of our lives apart "
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Im 57 with wisdom and maturity of a 7 year old on haribos - i tend to mess round on here and i think sometimes think because I behave like that - people think that’s the real me - im actually quite deep & insightful and those on here I’ve chatted to properly get quite a surprise. All that being said it feels like 55 to me as the majority of the women here I find attractive have an upper age of 55 - not all but a big majority. Sort yourselves out!! |
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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago
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I'm in my 40's and set my upper limit as 65 but that's not to say a 70 year old be dismissed.
Age is but a number, and if someone looks after themselves and chemistry is there, then age doesn't matter.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let me clarify.
Ladies and gentlemen I know some people can stay attractive up to a good age.
But generally speaking ladies what age are men seen as no longer viable sexual partners?
50,55,60?
As many women on here set their upper limit of 50 are us guy's above this age wasting our time?"
In all honesty no we ain’t wasting our time have made plenty of lady and gentleman friends on hear fab is fab |
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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago
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This investigation is flawed.
In the past month I have had winks or messages from four ladies in their 30s and one 60. ( none has resulted in a meet but that’s another story). I haven’t seen any of them in the forum.
Therefore the suggestion that men above 50s cease to be attractive only relates to the “sample” ( sorry ladies) who use the forum.
Cheer up you miserable old buggers: there’s still a chance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As soon as they hit 30. Might as well go celibate at that point 
I really like the level of sass you're bringing to the fora lately. Keep it up."
I don't think the forums are ready! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Robert De Niro's just had a baby at 79, so clearly still sexually attractive to someone. So, if you're as cool as he is, you're safe.
Not sure about the rest of you...
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Shout out to De Niro. Good milk right there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As soon as they hit 30. Might as well go celibate at that point
Fuck that makes me feel old
But imagine how I'd feel when I hit 30
Shush, Kindergarten cop "
I'm not sure I get the reference  the film was made all the way back in 1990 to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As soon as they hit 30. Might as well go celibate at that point
Not long left
Sssssshhhhhhh... Kids these days. No respect!  "
Struggling to come to terms with being old ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As soon as they hit 30. Might as well go celibate at that point
Not long left
Sssssshhhhhhh... Kids these days. No respect!
Struggling to come to terms with being old ^"
Can't believe you'd do me like this Pickle. Could've been us against the oldies but you were all "the future is now, old man". Sad...  |
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"As soon as they hit 30. Might as well go celibate at that point
Not long left
Sssssshhhhhhh... Kids these days. No respect!
Struggling to come to terms with being old ^
Can't believe you'd do me like this Pickle. Could've been us against the oldies but you were all "the future is now, old man". Sad... "
I thought we could take them on together. And then I found out you are one. |
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"As soon as they hit 30. Might as well go celibate at that point
Not long left
Sssssshhhhhhh... Kids these days. No respect!
Struggling to come to terms with being old ^
Can't believe you'd do me like this Pickle. Could've been us against the oldies but you were all "the future is now, old man". Sad... "
The revolution always eats itself... |
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By *oding1Man
over a year ago
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"Um. I think it's more to do with the man himself. I know men almost twice my age who still ooze charisma, and men in their 30s with all the appeal of a pool of cat vomit."
I'm not almost I'm exactly twice your age.
Nearly gives hope to a old perv. |
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