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"What about those that don’t like clubs?  "
Maybe that's who he means, almost no one uses clubs percentage-wise.
I read shit flinger, mountain gorilla stylee!
I think signals are hard for everyone to read, especially when so many people love to flirt just for the fun of flirting. I suppose in a club you could much easier say, do you fancy meeting up then (or getting a room or whatever). Sometimes when you make friends though things can become a bit less clear, and people start worrying about rocking the boat. I doubt anyone finds it super easy. pt
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"It’s both for clubs and not at clubs"
Clubs are great again we have found as we are older meeting us in person does the trick! Messages on here have dried up & our age seems to be getting in the way.We go to Chams in Birmingham it a good club and very sociable. |
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Oh I belong here 
I have had so many missed opportunities because I’ve not picked up on the signs, not been direct enough myself, or overthought it until it’s too late.
Or I am too busy chatting and having fun with friends that I forget that I’m in a sex club 
Kx |
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"Oh I belong here
I have had so many missed opportunities because I’ve not picked up on the signs, not been direct enough myself, or overthought it until it’s too late.
Or I am too busy chatting and having fun with friends that I forget that I’m in a sex club
Kx"
Welcome |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
"Oh I belong here
I have had so many missed opportunities because I’ve not picked up on the signs, not been direct enough myself, or overthought it until it’s too late.
Or I am too busy chatting and having fun with friends that I forget that I’m in a sex club
Kx"
I am that friend  |
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"Oh I belong here
I have had so many missed opportunities because I’ve not picked up on the signs, not been direct enough myself, or overthought it until it’s too late.
Or I am too busy chatting and having fun with friends that I forget that I’m in a sex club
Kx
I am that friend "
Hey long time |
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"Oh I belong here
I have had so many missed opportunities because I’ve not picked up on the signs, not been direct enough myself, or overthought it until it’s too late.
Or I am too busy chatting and having fun with friends that I forget that I’m in a sex club
Kx"
Yeah I’ve done the same as well |
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"Maybe we should all wear badges that have yes please on one side and no thanks on the other, turn them over as the mood takes you lol
Was thinking of having cards like the highschool notes "
Might work lol |
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Literally just having this conversation with someone 5 mins ago. Was teasing me a bit and I had to explain I take everything she says literally. I said if you told me to get up and go I would. She thought that was hilarious  |
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"Literally just having this conversation with someone 5 mins ago. Was teasing me a bit and I had to explain I take everything she says literally. I said if you told me to get up and go I would. She thought that was hilarious "
Damn man |
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I reckon strike early and try to meet while the iron is hot! If that can't happen and the conversation keeps moving away from sex (or perhaps was never even on it), no harm in saying "do you think we'll ever get it on?". After too much coyness, the chances are nothing will happen perhaps, so maybe also focus elsewhere too. pt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm the worst swinger ever!!
But you do win the ‘status of day’ prize
thanks "
FFS that status is funny And I'm going to pinch it! The line that is and not your pants  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm probably the opposite. I'm very happy to strike up a conversation on here that looks promising. The last time I was at a club someone made it pretty clear they were interested in the changing room (I did find them attractive/polite), and I just kinda mumbled 'thanks', and then legged it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I belong here
I have had so many missed opportunities because I’ve not picked up on the signs, not been direct enough myself, or overthought it until it’s too late.
Or I am too busy chatting and having fun with friends that I forget that I’m in a sex club
Kx"
You and me both  |
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Last time I was at a club night I was chatting with someone at the bar and I mentioned I hadn't had any luck yet. She responded "did you not see me making signals at you earlier?"
I'm still trying to figure out what the signal was... |
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If anybody wants me, please just say! In clubs and otherwise. Looking back at my life I am certain that there are multiple occasions where someone did fancy me, and I fancied them, but nothing happened because they were expecting me to make a move and I was incapable of reading the situation. I think that I'm a little better at it now, but still not that person who would always know. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Welcome to the shit swinger society this is for those that find it hard to see signs or signals that people want to go upstairs with them at clubs. All are welcome."
what about those that can't climb stairs? |
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"I want to go to more swingers clubs but I don’t want to go on my own . To intense and people stare a lot and have little groups
That’s the same with any place really even the local pub"
No not really, I’m speaking from my experience, the other places I had no problems with |
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"I want to go to more swingers clubs but I don’t want to go on my own . To intense and people stare a lot and have little groups
That’s the same with any place really even the local pub
No not really, I’m speaking from my experience, the other places I had no problems with "
Fair enough |
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Sat at the bar, lady rubbing my inner thigh getting higher & higher…. Just thought it was flirting, got a message the next day saying sorry if they made me feel uncomfortable & they really wanted to go and get naked.
Damn it cock blocked myself - mr |
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I was told to just say to people that I've really enjoyed chatting with them and would love the opportunity to play if they're interested. Sometimes I have forgotten and just pop back and mention it. I'm amazed at the number of times it's had a positive response.  |
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