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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You’re all beautiful……but
Over the years my attraction for mature women have got stronger and stronger , but not sure if many mature women like younger men these days. |
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There are lots of mature/older/whatever other word you want use women who like younger men.
Your best bet is to search for profiles who are also looking for your age range or to go to a cougars and cubs night at a club.
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When I'm out and about I just use the term 'middle aged' for myself (and maybe in reference to others), but it's not an ideal term in this area. I was probably raised to try if possible not to refer to women's ages directly (if at all), but 'mature' could actually mean absolutely anything over puberty, and it just sounds a little patronising to me. It's never particularly used for men, and when it is they are ancient aren't they?! And 37 is an especially meaningless age to call a woman mature imo too. What then would be 36? Many women are married with children by 26. I accept that it's been said that women often seem to peak in overall 'beauty' in their late 30's, but again that is a subjective and specific matter! (And again almost old fashioned). Honestly, I'd just use the term 'older' and let others see if it fits. It might somehow seem 'ruder' than mature, but it's not 'old' - it's just a comparative 'older'!
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Whatever term is used to describe women over a certain age will upset someone. Personally I don't care, I am older, I am mature I'm not ashamed or afraid of being seen as either I don't believe only young people can be beautiful either.
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"Whatever term is used to describe women over a certain age will upset someone. Personally I don't care, I am older, I am mature I'm not ashamed or afraid of being seen as either I don't believe only young people can be beautiful either.
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Maybe because it's comparative by nature, 'older' is the one that leads to the less confusion to me. In terms of how it's accepted, it almost points to how people feel too. (ie rather than what they are supposed to be perhaps).
I try my best to look young, but I accept that I am an 'older' person for younger people. I certainly see beauty in older (as I do in everything tbh), and I actually ask for 'older than me' on my profile.
I've always preferred mature people, but I just know so many who really are comparatively young! I had a partner some years ago who (before she became sadly very ill) was a manager in the construction industry on 50K in her late 20's, and she could outwit absolutely anyone. She used to visit building sites all the time. When I think of people like that I think mature. pt |
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"And 37 is an especially meaningless age to call a woman mature imo too.
Felix was just teasing Cede specifically. Or he'd better have been! *stern look at Felix*
J"
I was!!! Thank you, Mrs Julie. And I didn’t even say that because of your stern look 
I guess my sense of humour misses the mark with some.
Ps I’ve already seen that fantastic new profile picture but I love it!!! |
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"And 37 is an especially meaningless age to call a woman mature imo too.
Felix was just teasing Cede specifically. Or he'd better have been! *stern look at Felix*
J
I was!!! Thank you, Mrs Julie. And I didn’t even say that because of your stern look
I guess my sense of humour misses the mark with some.
Ps I’ve already seen that fantastic new profile picture but I love it!!!"
Thank you  |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"And 37 is an especially meaningless age to call a woman mature imo too.
Felix was just teasing Cede specifically. Or he'd better have been! *stern look at Felix*
J
I was!!! Thank you, Mrs Julie. And I didn’t even say that because of your stern look
I guess my sense of humour misses the mark with some.
Ps I’ve already seen that fantastic new profile picture but I love it!!!
Thank you "
Uh excuse me Felix - where's my flattery after the abuse! No one told you about aftercare? 
But seriously - I know he's joking  |
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