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over a year ago
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I think this will be one of the biggest landslide surveys on fab for a while.
Just to buck the trend though, urgh, I hate it. It's the worst. Horrid.
Very believable, right? |
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Definitely a turn on, a women I met quite some time ago was ruthless with me, very forceful with what she wanted and knew what to do to get it, we met quite regularly for almost a year till she moved away. Fun times indeed.  |
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I LOVE it!!! I tend to be the dominant partner - not as in a dom, just the leading influence - so it’s a refreshing change when a woman takes the initiative.
One of my biggest turn ons is being seduced. Probably because it’s never happened in real life haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think this will be one of the biggest landslide surveys on fab for a while.
Just to buck the trend though, urgh, I hate it. It's the worst. Horrid.
Very believable, right?
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I tried. I really really tried.
Taking charge, control, passion, all these things can be different things to different people.
One person's hyper direct approach might ruffle feathers, against the more subtle misdirection of gentle touch, encouragement and instruction.
Regardless though, to a degree, we're basically pathetic and quietly grateful to even be there. You could tell us to fold the towels after, before, during, we just might. Have. Will again. |
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"Love it massive turn on wen a women tell me wot she wants x
Would you find it a turn on if she took charge...not just told you what she wanted? "
Depends on wot u wanted 2 do I mean wot she wanted 2 do lol x |
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"One of my biggest turn ons is being seduced. Probably because it’s never happened in real life haha"
There was a moment, just a couple of weeks ago. In a hotel room. With someone very special. And she stood behind me, while I was looking out of the floor-to-ceiling windows. Her fingernails tracing lines on my back. Shoulders. Arms. Spine. She kissed me. The back of my neck. I could feel her breath on my skin. And … I wasn’t doing anything. Not leading, for a change. It wasn’t much, but it was me giving up control. Letting her be in charge of the next move. Completely in her hands. I wasn’t touching her skin, or guiding her body, I just let her touch me, kiss me, hold me … exactly how she wanted to.
And even though it was just a brief few moments, it changed the dynamic between us for the rest of the night. And it was glorious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One of my biggest turn ons is being seduced. Probably because it’s never happened in real life haha
There was a moment, just a couple of weeks ago. In a hotel room. With someone very special. And she stood behind me, while I was looking out of the floor-to-ceiling windows. Her fingernails tracing lines on my back. Shoulders. Arms. Spine. She kissed me. The back of my neck. I could feel her breath on my skin. And … I wasn’t doing anything. Not leading, for a change. It wasn’t much, but it was me giving up control. Letting her be in charge of the next move. Completely in her hands. I wasn’t touching her skin, or guiding her body, I just let her touch me, kiss me, hold me … exactly how she wanted to.
And even though it was just a brief few moments, it changed the dynamic between us for the rest of the night. And it was glorious."
Which hotel chains do you stay in?
The maids never been that friendly with me at Premier Inn.....  |
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"Love it massive turn on wen a women tell me wot she wants x
Would you find it a turn on if she took charge...not just told you what she wanted?
Depends on wot u wanted 2 do I mean wot she wanted 2 do lol x "
It would involve restraints and blindfolds x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men of the lounge...
When a woman takes charge in the be_room, do you find it a turn on or a turn off? "
It’s like throwing petrol on an already raging fire.  |
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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago
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I reckon that the men who are turned on by a woman taking control are just reinforcing the macho stereotype: The concept of a confident woman takes them out of their comfort zone, which they find erotic.
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I'll be the exception, then. But it's not that I'd be so ungracious as to make that dislike clear at the time. More that, no woman so constituted would be remotely interested in me. Like trying to push magnets together. |
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I know I’m not a man OP but taking charge in the be_room is something I would love to do but wouldn’t ever happen. And I mean ever. Not with a man or woman. It’s just how I’m built and I go with that. Still fun though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It is a huge turn on.
For me it is not just about ‘taking control’ but it is the woman knowing what she wants and going for it. That focus/motivation/determination is a huge turn on for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men of the lounge...
When a woman takes charge in the be_room, do you find it a turn on or a turn off? "
Pleasure,excitement and ecstasy and lash to the bed you go for it he he |
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By *it4uMan
over a year ago
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"Men of the lounge...
When a woman takes charge in the be_room, do you find it a turn on or a turn off? "
It’s a turn on for me as I like the woman to have her pleasure her way |
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"Men of the lounge...
When a woman takes charge in the be_room, do you find it a turn on or a turn off? "
I think there is a time and place and it certainly mixes it up, but if it was Every single time then I think that would be too much for me personally. Men like to lead, it's a status thing I suppose but sure, a woman that takes control from time to time would be great. Work life balance ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like to take charge, I’m all about getting the reactions and seeing him loving it.
I also 99% of the time initiate lol that’s just because I’m always horny lol |
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