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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I fancy a massage.
Nothing sexy!!!! I’ve had a long week and just found out I’m working this weekend.
I could just lie there on a nice warm bed and get rubbers down. My neck and shoulders needsome attention, none of this sensitive shite. Get in there!!!
And also my legs, if I lay on my back it’s my thighs. I’ve done a lot of walking this week and I’ve got 7 days to go.
Do massages work? Or is it just a sex gateway technique? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Oh oh oh I have to post about this because my friend and I have been debating this.
This past weekend I gave two very long massages to friends. Very platonic. I mean sure, they became aroused, I was wearing a crop top and tiny shorts. But, it was very much platonic. I love giving massages but I don't want them leading to sex.
I'm really tactile and I'd happily meet someone I liked just for a massage. My friend thinks massages always leads to sex.
I like that intimacy, the focus on another. Fuck the fucking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Meli. So are you saying…. You get aroused GIVING a massage?
Thinking about it, I think I would. How do I stop my hands going in little sensual adventures…. Sweeping a little too high on the inside of her leg. Or brushing against her breast? Accidentally of course…
But that’s what I’m thinking, I could only get or give a massage when I’m seriously not horny/frisky.
Or if I’m asking for a massage when I am, I’m probably going to drag them in top of me. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Meli. So are you saying…. You get aroused GIVING a massage?
Thinking about it, I think I would. How do I stop my hands going in little sensual adventures…. Sweeping a little too high on the inside of her leg. Or brushing against her breast? Accidentally of course…
But that’s what I’m thinking, I could only get or give a massage when I’m seriously not horny/frisky.
Or if I’m asking for a massage when I am, I’m probably going to drag them in top of me. "
No. I'm saying I don't get aroused. The person receiving them does, sure. It's rare I'm feeling horny after giving one. So I'm really happy to give them as long as they don't think I want to be dicked by them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could use a massage too. Tension in my shoulders is unbelievable and actually I'd love a proper non sexual one where it could be all about me.
Then just put a blanket over me and let me sleep in the candle light listening to some soothing music |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think I have ever had a massage that didnt lead to sex, but, sometimes it would be nice just for the massage. They always make me sleepy and relaxed (as thats the point) so Im not going to be very lively to enjoy the sex. Similary giving, if I can send him to sleep then great, I can put my feet up and watch the tv whilst he snores |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could use a massage too. Tension in my shoulders is unbelievable and actually I'd love a proper non sexual one where it could be all about me.
Then just put a blanket over me and let me sleep in the candle light listening to some soothing music "
That sounds lovely yes. Id like one of those too. |
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Massages are great for your wellbeing. Professional massages are not sexual and can be just for relaxing or attending to some issue especially the sports massages. Though not too keen on those myself as can be 'brutal'. Some people have sex on the brain |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could use a massage too. Tension in my shoulders is unbelievable and actually I'd love a proper non sexual one where it could be all about me.
Then just put a blanket over me and let me sleep in the candle light listening to some soothing music
That sounds lovely yes. Id like one of those too. "
Could we please make that three, sounds blissful |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm trained in massage - just saying
NB: doesn't mean I'm any good at it though "
I’m not good at sex, but I still try getting someone into bed with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fancy a massage.
Nothing sexy!!!! I’ve had a long week and just found out I’m working this weekend.
I could just lie there on a nice warm bed and get rubbers down. My neck and shoulders needsome attention, none of this sensitive shite. Get in there!!!
And also my legs, if I lay on my back it’s my thighs. I’ve done a lot of walking this week and I’ve got 7 days to go.
Do massages work? Or is it just a sex gateway technique? "
Oh you'd probably like the Thai Massage place I go to.
They can be brutal. I was sore for a good three days after the first one. She got places others didn't and she was harsh. I lined it so much I went back for more. |
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I mean, pretty much any physical contact makes me horny as hell. But, I can divorce from it and just enjoy whatever it is once I tell myself it's not about the fucking.
I don't find a lot of joy in giving massages, I tend to overthink and worry that I'm doing it wrong and just generally be terrible. Receiving can be very relaxing though. |
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