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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
I've been told I'm a sigma male by a few people so a lone wolf and I enjoy my own company and happy with it. Excluding my child but, I can and alsways have been able to do things by myself and as much as enjoy company, I need my own space and place.
Alone but never lonely. |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
Ilkeston |
We all feel like it sometimes but it’s important to remember to look after yourself as its easy to spiral into a path thats not a great one. If you have any ways to help when you feel down or chat to someone about how you feel. A problem shared is half a problem as they say |
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"Ever felt like life is kinda good but feeling sad because of loneliness?"
I get this, but in an opposite way, life is good, but feel sad sometimes as I'm overwhelmed with people and crave some solitude |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Ever felt like life is kinda good but feeling sad because of loneliness?
I get this, but in an opposite way, life is good, but feel sad sometimes as I'm overwhelmed with people and crave some solitude"
you are the anti thread  |
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"Ever felt like life is kinda good but feeling sad because of loneliness?
I get this, but in an opposite way, life is good, but feel sad sometimes as I'm overwhelmed with people and crave some solitude"
This is exactly how I feel. I remember during Covid when people were really struggling on their own. I would have given anything to swap just for one day. |
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Hi op. I suffer mental health problems as well and shut myself away and won't see anyone. I don't really feel lonely but although I don't want to see anyone and tell them to stay away part of me wants to shout come and see me anyway
Have you been to your doctor about your depression? There is a lot of online support where you can refer yourself. Have you looked at mind? Also charities such as the samaritans arnt just there for people who are suicidal they are there for anyone to talk to. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi op. I suffer mental health problems as well and shut myself away and won't see anyone. I don't really feel lonely but although I don't want to see anyone and tell them to stay away part of me wants to shout come and see me anyway
Have you been to your doctor about your depression? There is a lot of online support where you can refer yourself. Have you looked at mind? Also charities such as the samaritans arnt just there for people who are suicidal they are there for anyone to talk to. Good luck"
Yeah I’ve had professional help , works for a while then I just go into a spiral again |
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I have felt very lonely more than ever the last few months.
Since just before Covid I have so many bad things happen in my life just keep coming .
I’m determined to keep pushing forward though in the hope that things can only get better .x |
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I have bin lonely for about 7 months now . I miss being with someone. Not just for sex. For the cuddling on the settee. Spooning in bed everything that comes with being with someone. I am ok being by myself but sometimes that feeling that I'm 51 n never gonna meet someone starts goin over in my head n I start feeling sorry for myself. The other nite all I needed was someone to hug me n all I had was the pooches  |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"I have bin lonely for about 7 months now . I miss being with someone. Not just for sex. For the cuddling on the settee. Spooning in bed everything that comes with being with someone. I am ok being by myself but sometimes that feeling that I'm 51 n never gonna meet someone starts goin over in my head n I start feeling sorry for myself. The other nite all I needed was someone to hug me n all I had was the pooches "
Thank you, no I do feel lonely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suffered through covid lockdowns
Then bullying at work led to serious mental health issues been diagnosed nearly a year now talking to my councillor helps and my meds seem to keep me on straight and narrow I have friends in Liverpool and in Colechester who I can talk to it’s a strange thing to say even in room full of people I still feel alone
Disappear in my own thoughts and reading helps me to unwind |
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Have had that feeling of being lonely and also feeling alone, it can be hard to get out of especially when you live alone and I also work alone for long periods. Luckily atm I'm back in the groove of enjoying my own company and using my time to keep active, bit when that slips off the loneliness does creep back in. |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"Ever felt like life is kinda good but feeling sad because of loneliness?"
No never don't have time for these feelings too busy working kick boxing and taking care of family to feel. Bored sad or lonely |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"Ever felt like life is kinda good but feeling sad because of loneliness?"
These feelings your feeling is your brain telling you to change something in your life .. whatever it is your not happy with fix it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I've felt like this lots and still do sometimes.
I have a great life and keep very busy but sometimes it just hits you. "
… hard with a shuffle
BASHHHHH.
And again , and again again and again
Bash bash bash
All day long
Cirque du Le Bash |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have bin lonely for about 7 months now . I miss being with someone. Not just for sex. For the cuddling on the settee. Spooning in bed everything that comes with being with someone. I am ok being by myself but sometimes that feeling that I'm 51 n never gonna meet someone starts goin over in my head n I start feeling sorry for myself. The other nite all I needed was someone to hug me n all I had was the pooches "
Same here x x don’t know what pooches is , sounds like pouched eggs
Exotic yes, let’s go to a tropical island ^^
Drink vodka with orange and raspberry in a coconut with little umbrellas made of paper , wearing silly sunglasses ( us , not the umbrella )
X x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a terrible single . Always been since young .
I hate being single , ( including no NSA or FWB lovers )
And is not about the sex …
Is just the bed is far too big and I can’t be bothered to get a single ^^.
Need someone who loves banter for me to impress with nice hot cakes freshly made at home x x
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"I have bin lonely for about 7 months now . I miss being with someone. Not just for sex. For the cuddling on the settee. Spooning in bed everything that comes with being with someone. I am ok being by myself but sometimes that feeling that I'm 51 n never gonna meet someone starts goin over in my head n I start feeling sorry for myself. The other nite all I needed was someone to hug me n all I had was the pooches
Same here x x don’t know what pooches is , sounds like pouched eggs
Exotic yes, let’s go to a tropical island ^^
Drink vodka with orange and raspberry in a coconut with little umbrellas made of paper , wearing silly sunglasses ( us , not the umbrella )
X x "
my dogs lol |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat |
Whenever I feel a pang of loneliness I remind myself what it was like living with a gaslighting bully who would ignore me for weeks on end. I felt far more lonely and alone back then than I ever do now. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Ever felt like life is kinda good but feeling sad because of loneliness?"
Yes.
I’ve learned to tell people when I feel like this, it’s doing people a disservice not to reach out and give them a chance to help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve got used to feeling lonely, which in itself is sad. ahhh woody hey your next thread may drum up some interest "
Interest for what? Stopping feeling lonely…?
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
What has gotten you to the point of feeling lonely . Question for anyone that is saying they feel lonely on here .. is it because you don't have a relationship? Or do you not have friends and people around you ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What has gotten you to the point of feeling lonely . Question for anyone that is saying they feel lonely on here .. is it because you don't have a relationship? Or do you not have friends and people around you ? "
Simply No.
I’m not lonely because I don’t have a relationship, I MISS my old relationship, I’m. Or lonely because it ended, as I still talk to her.
I also have some friends and people to call.
I feel lonely because I have no-one to share things with. I have a lot of love in me, I have a lot of happiness and joy aching to be given to someone and I have to amuse myself, which is boring, as mostly I don’t want to, I don’t like myself. (*sometimes.)
I feel lonely sat in conversations at the pub, because afterwards I go away and nobody to carry on that good vibe ‘oh, when Dave said this or that!’ Type thing. Nobody to romance or reminisce about good times.
Nobody to enjoy life with, art galleries, nature, sports or music events. I see these things and nobody to ask what their feelings are about them.
It’s complicated. |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"What has gotten you to the point of feeling lonely . Question for anyone that is saying they feel lonely on here .. is it because you don't have a relationship? Or do you not have friends and people around you ?
Simply No.
I’m not lonely because I don’t have a relationship, I MISS my old relationship, I’m. Or lonely because it ended, as I still talk to her.
I also have some friends and people to call.
I feel lonely because I have no-one to share things with. I have a lot of love in me, I have a lot of happiness and joy aching to be given to someone and I have to amuse myself, which is boring, as mostly I don’t want to, I don’t like myself. (*sometimes.)
I feel lonely sat in conversations at the pub, because afterwards I go away and nobody to carry on that good vibe ‘oh, when Dave said this or that!’ Type thing. Nobody to romance or reminisce about good times.
Nobody to enjoy life with, art galleries, nature, sports or music events. I see these things and nobody to ask what their feelings are about them.
It’s complicated. "
So on the contrary mate it sounds like you are indeed missing someone to be in a relationship with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s complicated.
So on the contrary mate it sounds like you are indeed missing someone to be in a relationship with "
Do you know anyone that’s free then? |
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By *9XAYNOR69Man
over a year ago
Centralised he/him/his From the land of cocksuckers |
In my experience the older I've got, the more isolated I've become.
I'd say since lockdown,nothing has changed.
Friends family in the same position one week rolls into another, and before you know where you are, it's been more than 6 months since you spoke, after this time it's to difficult.
Still working full time and not the most easiest of shift pattern, it's work sleep eat repeat.
I just get on with it now
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I know what you mean. It's hard. A friend told me
"you need to learn to be happy alone before finding happiness in others"
I laughed at him and said at
"what point does this learning start to take place because I have this alone thing nailed to a tee"
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I've found feeling lonely interesting. I felt very empty and lonely before meeting my now ex husband. Then for the first few years of being together I didn't feel lonely (of course) but the later part of my marriage I felt incredibly alone and lonely, a different feeling to when I was actually single.
Now 1 yr post divorce I don't feel the crushing loneliness at all. I recognise when I haven't socalised over a weekend enough, and been too isolated, but find that makes me reach out to friends which is healthier.
Looking back I think the lonely feelings whilst being in a marriage were worse than anything I felt when single! |
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It's always important to remember, that we're all alone together.
Feeling lonely, is usually a combination and stack of emotions that need talking about but maybe don't feel we can.
Be gentle on yourself. Xx |
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