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By *stella OP   Woman  over a year ago

London

Do you have any non negotiables when it comes to sex?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Go on then I’ll chime in

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing. Lots of kissing. If there’s no kissing it’s SO boring and rubbish for me

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By *stella OP   Woman  over a year ago

London


"Kissing. Lots of kissing. If there’s no kissing it’s SO boring and rubbish for me "

Yasssssss!

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By *rbbc87Man  over a year ago

Leicestershire

There has to be foreplay

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By *stella OP   Woman  over a year ago

London

Was thinking I don’t really think I have any. I want to chat and laugh and explore mostly.

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By *stella OP   Woman  over a year ago

London


"There has to be foreplay "

For me this starts when I’m not even anywhere near the person.

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By *ames-77Man  over a year ago

milton keynes

Yes oral is a big must

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By *stella OP   Woman  over a year ago

London


"Yes oral is a big must "

You giving or receiving?

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By *ames-77Man  over a year ago

milton keynes


"Yes oral is a big must

You giving or receiving?"

Both

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By *stella OP   Woman  over a year ago

London


"Yes oral is a big must

You giving or receiving?

Both "

Nice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Was thinking I don’t really think I have any. I want to chat and laugh and explore mostly. "

Wanna chat during the act? I enjoy talking

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By *ames-77Man  over a year ago

milton keynes


"Yes oral is a big must

You giving or receiving?

Both

Nice "

What about you

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By *rbbc87Man  over a year ago

Leicestershire

Both tbf I love a 69

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lots of eye and skin contact, we love the connection between us and with others.

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By *rbbc87Man  over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yh definitely explore each others bodies

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By *stella OP   Woman  over a year ago

London


"Was thinking I don’t really think I have any. I want to chat and laugh and explore mostly.

Wanna chat during the act? I enjoy talking "

Are you going to talk filth to me?

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By *rbbc87Man  over a year ago

Leicestershire

Dirty talking is a must

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Dirty talking is a must "
use reply + quote! It’ll mean you can reply to specific messages bro

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Was thinking I don’t really think I have any. I want to chat and laugh and explore mostly.

Wanna chat during the act? I enjoy talking

Are you going to talk filth to me? "

Si!

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By *stella OP   Woman  over a year ago

London


"Was thinking I don’t really think I have any. I want to chat and laugh and explore mostly.

Wanna chat during the act? I enjoy talking

Are you going to talk filth to me?

Si! "

Pervert. I like it.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman  over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"Do you have any non negotiables when it comes to sex? "

Condoms!

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By *rbbc87Man  over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Dirty talking is a must use reply + quote! It’ll mean you can reply to specific messages bro "
thanks lol

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By *stella OP   Woman  over a year ago

London


"Do you have any non negotiables when it comes to sex?

Condoms! "

Fair point!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never indulge in bondage on a first date.

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By *atty CoramWoman  over a year ago

Wimbledon

Anyone who calls themself a dom or a sub or even a switch has shut down any possibility of discovery, exploration and mystery so I avoid those types as I hate prescriptive, reductive sex.

Same goes for dick pics, dick monikers, dick measurements... and 'oral for hours' enthusiasts

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By *uckmonkeyMan  over a year ago

devon


"Do you have any non negotiables when it comes to sex? "

I insist on no sex for 8 weeks but they must let me caress their ankles in this time …..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Penis, it just has to be there.

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By *iasubTV/TS  over a year ago

Ilkeston

Has to be a connection there or its boring for me

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By *ames-77Man  over a year ago

milton keynes


"Penis, it just has to be there."

Not much to ask for is it haha

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By *rder66Man  over a year ago

Tatooine

Refereing to me as daddy is a massive turn off and I'll leave that moment I also find it a bit creepy.

Poo, piss, blood and pain is a no fom me.

Giggly shyness is also a turn off, I like women who are sexualy confident.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I despise derogatory words or phrases.

I once was having a lovely time with someone and then in the throws of passion he called me a whore. Never saw him ever again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Kissing. Lots of kissing. If there’s no kissing it’s SO boring and rubbish for me "

110%.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

She has to be satisfied. No half a job.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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They have to be interested in me as a person, not just a beautiful hole or two to fill.

And kissing.

Aside from that, I'm not too sure.

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By *orksRockerMan  over a year ago

Bradford


"They have to be interested in me as a person, not just a beautiful hole or two to fill.

And kissing.

Aside from that, I'm not too sure. "

Exactly this

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By *orksRockerMan  over a year ago

Bradford


"They have to be interested in me as a person, not just a beautiful hole or two to fill.

And kissing.

Aside from that, I'm not too sure.

Exactly this "

And obviously not the hole to fill bit

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"They have to be interested in me as a person, not just a beautiful hole or two to fill.

And kissing.

Aside from that, I'm not too sure.

Exactly this

And obviously not the hole to fill bit "

I mean... there's no judgement here. You do you.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man  over a year ago

South West London

Foreplay otherwise its no sex at all

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By *linyMan  over a year ago

Manchester/London

Being present and in the moment. Not checking social media, texting etc

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By *orksRockerMan  over a year ago

Bradford


"They have to be interested in me as a person, not just a beautiful hole or two to fill.

And kissing.

Aside from that, I'm not too sure.

Exactly this

And obviously not the hole to fill bit

I mean... there's no judgement here. You do you. "

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing is a must, so is liking me as a person rather than just a body, condoms are also a must, the attention seeking whores on my chest however are quite demanding too so nipple play is a must.

Besides that I have limits, some are hard limits, and they aren't negotiable. There's a small list and valid reasons for them.

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By *ames-77Man  over a year ago

milton keynes


"Kissing is a must, so is liking me as a person rather than just a body, condoms are also a must, the attention seeking whores on my chest however are quite demanding too so nipple play is a must.

Besides that I have limits, some are hard limits, and they aren't negotiable. There's a small list and valid reasons for them. "

Haha they would get their attention alright !

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By *ost SockMan  over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

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By *essiCouple  over a year ago

suffolk


"Lots of eye and skin contact, we love the connection between us and with others."

So much..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kissing, eye contact

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

"

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!

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By *uby StarCouple  over a year ago

Durham

It can't just be a quickie meet and must involve kissing.

And don't call me babe. Babe is a pig in my world.

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By *ost SockMan  over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!"

Thank god - I thought it was just me.

It’s “nails on the blackboard” time for me. Weird

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By *uby StarCouple  over a year ago

Durham


"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

"

I like the term playing. It conjures up in my mind and image of a fun time, light hearted and lots of laughter alongside the sex, and well generally just being playful and carefree. Now if someone said let's meet and make love...I'd run a mile.

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By *gent CoulsonMan  over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Anyone who calls themself a dom or a sub or even a switch has shut down any possibility of discovery, exploration and mystery so I avoid those types as I hate prescriptive, reductive sex.

"

At my age, I have experimented with the sub/switch side, I have been tied , cuffed, flogged and such, physically and mentally it did nothing for me, reverse the role and and it's a different story.

Being a Dom is still about discovery, exploration and mystery, it's about evolving

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By *ost SockMan  over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

I like the term playing. It conjures up in my mind and image of a fun time, light hearted and lots of laughter alongside the sex, and well generally just being playful and carefree. Now if someone said let's meet and make love...I'd run a mile. "

Don’t worry - I know it’s just a personal taste thing. I’m not trying to convince others not to use it (my first post wasn’t exactly serious).

I just can’t get away from memories of calling at friends’ houses to see if they want to “come out and play’ when I was little. I associate it with childhood; maybe I don’t want my pristine early years tarnished. Or something!

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By *iasubTV/TS  over a year ago

Ilkeston


"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

I like the term playing. It conjures up in my mind and image of a fun time, light hearted and lots of laughter alongside the sex, and well generally just being playful and carefree. Now if someone said let's meet and make love...I'd run a mile. "

Make love just makes me cringe so hard

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What's sex?

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!"

I'm adding meet to that. Meet. Meet meet. Meet. Bleurgh.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely kissing and eye contact is a must

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!

I'm adding meet to that. Meet. Meet meet. Meet. Bleurgh."

I nearly said that. That’s the worst! “A meet”

Horrendous!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This thread tells me why it’s impossible to get a meet, err I mean a social, no a rendezvous, wait….an assignation……ah, fuck it…..

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"This thread tells me why it’s impossible to get a meet, err I mean a social, no a rendezvous, wait….an assignation……ah, fuck it….. "

Haha. It tells me why I never meet anyone too

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By *weetiepie99Woman  over a year ago

cardiff


"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!"

Me three! Playing, play date, and even 'meet'. Hate all those terms.Eeeeew.

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By *kjay86Man  over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Lots of kissing throughout and never skip foreplay, even with a quickie you can squeeze a bit in.

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By *urulovesnylonMan  over a year ago

Harrow

Lots of kissing and foreplay is a must. Adds to the spice of the meet. Could spend hours just kissing and touching

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By *gent CoulsonMan  over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"This thread tells me why it’s impossible to get a meet, err I mean a social, no a rendezvous, wait….an assignation……ah, fuck it…..

Haha. It tells me why I never meet anyone too "

add me to that list

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!

I'm adding meet to that. Meet. Meet meet. Meet. Bleurgh.

I nearly said that. That’s the worst! “A meet”

Horrendous!"

I remember how cringe you found that term

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!

I'm adding meet to that. Meet. Meet meet. Meet. Bleurgh.

I nearly said that. That’s the worst! “A meet”

Horrendous!

I remember how cringe you found that term "

. I haven’t changed

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By *oofy321Man  over a year ago

moon base zero

No removing of paper bags till I leave the room

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We need a sticky for acceptable fab terminology.

Oh, how about a 'sticky'?..

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!

I'm adding meet to that. Meet. Meet meet. Meet. Bleurgh.

I nearly said that. That’s the worst! “A meet”

Horrendous!

I remember how cringe you found that term

. I haven’t changed "

The term rendezvous is so much more chic anyways

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!

I'm adding meet to that. Meet. Meet meet. Meet. Bleurgh.

I nearly said that. That’s the worst! “A meet”

Horrendous!

I remember how cringe you found that term

. I haven’t changed

The term rendezvous is so much more chic anyways "

Oh absolutely darling

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair


"Do you have any non negotiables when it comes to sex? "

Yes, I will always push for a social (or two) as a precursor.

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

Kissing... Most important activity.

Oral... Recieving, not just a quick lick.

Condom, safe sex obs.

Cuddles after, I like to feel that closeness.

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