as to why it seems that people don't read profiles or don't pay any attention to what has been written before they wink or message. Do I sound to you like a petite, feminine woman? Why would someone who likes that would get in touch with me I am not talking about sexuality here as some people can be fluid and not into labels and thats perfectly ok. It's all the other stuff like if you like a feminine and petite woman, you would not go for 6', hairy guy epuld you? Seriously though people must just wink at whim and even message just randomly. I have done the ocassional one by mistake myself but have always written back to apologise when I realised.