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By *9 kisses. OP Man
over a year ago
clacton on sea |
Would you go up to someone on here and chat to them if you had seen them out in town shopping?
Today whilst in town I saw a couple from here, we have exchanged messages to each other before lockdown and thought I would say hello, but I didn't as I didn't think it was the right place to say hello,
Would you of said hi? |
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over a year ago
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No I wouldn’t, I think if I’d met them or they had instigated an hello, then yeah. But you were right to respect boundaries so many wouldn’t.
I think it’s ok to send a message to say hi on here and that you saw them out. But wanted to respect their privacy and all.
They might have seen you too |
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"Would you go up to someone on here and chat to them if you had seen them out in town shopping?
Today whilst in town I saw a couple from here, we have exchanged messages to each other before lockdown and thought I would say hello, but I didn't as I didn't think it was the right place to say hello,
Would you have said hi?"
Absolutely not! Big no no for me.
People have a right to private lives outside fab and they don’t need me butting in and potentially causing an embarrassing situation.
I certainly wouldn’t want anyone to approach me (or do that creepy thing of sending a message later to say “I saw you in town today”).
Fab stays on fab, unless it’s a planned meet. |
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I once played with a man in a club and the next day I bumped into him in Poundstretcher. I was with my daughter. He waited til she wasn't looking then gave me a big wink and a smile. I thought that was really nice. |
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"Would you go up to someone on here and chat to them if you had seen them out in town shopping?
Today whilst in town I saw a couple from here, we have exchanged messages to each other before lockdown and thought I would say hello, but I didn't as I didn't think it was the right place to say hello,
Would you of said hi?"
No, never. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Would you go up to someone on here and chat to them if you had seen them out in town shopping?
Today whilst in town I saw a couple from here, we have exchanged messages to each other before lockdown and thought I would say hello, but I didn't as I didn't think it was the right place to say hello,
Would you have said hi?
Absolutely not! Big no no for me.
People have a right to private lives outside fab and they don’t need me butting in and potentially causing an embarrassing situation.
I certainly wouldn’t want anyone to approach me (or do that creepy thing of sending a message later to say “I saw you in town today”).
Fab stays on fab, unless it’s a planned meet."
What he said |
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"Would you go up to someone on here and chat to them if you had seen them out in town shopping?
Today whilst in town I saw a couple from here, we have exchanged messages to each other before lockdown and thought I would say hello, but I didn't as I didn't think it was the right place to say hello,
Would you of said hi?"
Probably a subtle bit of eye contact. It depends on circumstances. If they’re with others I’d wait for them to say hi. Etc I’m pretty open and I tell people this a lot so they’d know they could say hi to me! |
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