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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So a friend has been absent in the dating scene for a VERY VERY long time. So when he jumped back in there, he found he's go a lot of catching up. Example, he never had an escape plan in case of emergency. I.e, it became clear she only really wanted him for sex. Shocking, but this is the modern woman. Anyway after nearly a year he dumped her. What amazed me was it took this long. What is the world coming to? I say. Of course I'm not taking sides. As there's always two sides to a cover. But I think the moral to story here is 'don't drag it for too long as it just gets worse'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a number of strange dating experiences via a much more relationship orientated site - match - a number of years ago.
One in particular sticks in the mind, we had chatted online, then phone and I just ignored some warning signs. We met in a bar and after about half an hour I had to just go, I said something like I'm really sorry but I don't think this is going to work out so I'm going. Cue the rage in her starting and she demanded to know what was wrong with her and why I was trying to take advantage of her (?!?) I ended up saying "to be honest, I think you may be clinically if not criminally insane and I fear for my safety" and walked off. She threw a glass at me as I left! |
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"I had a number of strange dating experiences via a much more relationship orientated site - match - a number of years ago.
One in particular sticks in the mind, we had chatted online, then phone and I just ignored some warning signs. We met in a bar and after about half an hour I had to just go, I said something like I'm really sorry but I don't think this is going to work out so I'm going. Cue the rage in her starting and she demanded to know what was wrong with her and why I was trying to take advantage of her (?!?) I ended up saying "to be honest, I think you may be clinically if not criminally insane and I fear for my safety" and walked off. She threw a glass at me as I left!"
I know if there are red flags then it's game over and move is to run for dear life. But you know we live and learn. |
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