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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Would you?

I've had a second chance with someone and it ended up being fulfilling and fun. She wasn't receptive at first, just wanted it to remain on the friendzone basis with flirty messages, but then totally unplanned by either of us it ended up getting physical. It's now settled into an on/off (more off) FWB kind of thing.

So got me thinking how others dealt with or considered second chances if they presented themselves. Do you go back to the well a second time, do you avoid like the plague?

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By *riar BelisseWoman  over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No. They are not for me. I'd rather not go there and keep that door closed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No. They are not for me. I'd rather not go there and keep that door closed."

Ditto

The door is shut tight with a padlock on.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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It really depends on the person.

I have done before. I don't mind doing so because as much as I think I have a capacity for growth/change, so do others. It's been successful sometimes. Other times, an absolute disaster.

I hope it continues working for you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don’t think there’s a general rule anyone can follow. I’ve given second chances and regretted it massively but I’ve also given second chances and it was absolutely worth it.

Gut feeling and instincts should be the deciding factor I think

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It really depends on the person.

I have done before. I don't mind doing so because as much as I think I have a capacity for growth/change, so do others. It's been successful sometimes. Other times, an absolute disaster.

I hope it continues working for you OP. "

Thanks lovely x

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