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"You have to develop a thick skin on here, definitely not a place for the faint-hearted that's for sure however I would say that it's a lot tamer than around 5 years ago as everyone seems to claim to be offended or shamed by almost anything even typing this I've been very careful with my words to avoid upsetting anyone. Some people just need to offend some people need to feel offended and some both. If she felt bullied then should have reported the offending parties. As she's now left are we allowed to ask her username Admin??" This upsets me. | |||
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"You have to develop a thick skin on here, definitely not a place for the faint-hearted that's for sure however I would say that it's a lot tamer than around 5 years ago as everyone seems to claim to be offended or shamed by almost anything even typing this I've been very careful with my words to avoid upsetting anyone. Some people just need to offend some people need to feel offended and some both. If she felt bullied then should have reported the offending parties. As she's now left are we allowed to ask her username Admin?? This upsets me." Oi  | |||
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"No, I've never felt I shouldn't be on the forums. I post some proper drivel too. " I can confirm this, your post are the level of drivel that I aspire too | |||
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"No, I've never felt I shouldn't be on the forums. I post some proper drivel too. " Drivel is fine but the reason my cyber buddy got picked on was pure jealously. The mistake she made is talk about her daughter wedding and her dress and the size and then she posted a pic with her face covered, she looked like a billion dollars and I think that most of the other longstanding posters were women, and mostly crule and had let themselves go. I've noted jealosuy on forums before becuse of the kind of car you owned/drove, your job, looking fit, being a different race/colour/gender to the gang etc etc Keep on posting as you may think you post "drivel" but to others it may halp and if not, they can always ignore or get on their high horse just to have a go at you  | |||
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"My only question is what is the Mrs username? " Not our business. | |||
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"I wouldn't say I was very well liked on the forums but I'm not going to be chased away by the anybody simply because I'm not sexy enough or I have alternate views, fuck em. I know its shit when someone you click with, and not just in a sexual way, decides to leave. For what ever reason they go, you have to respect their privacy and decission, although it sucks. There are a few whom I've talked to and have seen a glimse of the real me, those that take the time are worth the effort the rest are echoes in the wind. " You're freaking awesome | |||
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"My only question is what is the Mrs username? Not our business." I must of read ops username wrong | |||
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"You have to develop a thick skin on here, definitely not a place for the faint-hearted that's for sure however I would say that it's a lot tamer than around 5 years ago as everyone seems to claim to be offended or shamed by almost anything even typing this I've been very careful with my words to avoid upsetting anyone. Some people just need to offend some people need to feel offended and some both. If she felt bullied then should have reported the offending parties. As she's now left are we allowed to ask her username Admin??" To be clear it was another forum Sadly, a couple of the admin allowed the trashing of threads. This cyber friend of mine told me she was a woamn, I never asked nor ddo we speak on the phone etc but we talk about our family/life etc and give open and honest repsoses to the other . it was easier to chat via forums and now its emails which i find harder. | |||
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"Not on here then? No one posts pics in forums." Yeah I just thought that | |||
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"My only question is what is the Mrs username? Not our business. I must of read ops username wrong " Public forum and still poor taste to asked who it was, still not our business. | |||
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"I wouldn't say I was very well liked on the forums but I'm not going to be chased away by the anybody simply because I'm not sexy enough or I have alternate views, fuck em. I know its shit when someone you click with, and not just in a sexual way, decides to leave. For what ever reason they go, you have to respect their privacy and decission, although it sucks. There are a few whom I've talked to and have seen a glimse of the real me, those that take the time are worth the effort the rest are echoes in the wind. You're freaking awesome"  | |||
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"No, I've never felt I shouldn't be on the forums. I post some proper drivel too. Drivel is fine but the reason my cyber buddy got picked on was pure jealously. The mistake she made is talk about her daughter wedding and her dress and the size and then she posted a pic with her face covered, she looked like a billion dollars and I think that most of the other longstanding posters were women, and mostly crule and had let themselves go. I've noted jealosuy on forums before becuse of the kind of car you owned/drove, your job, looking fit, being a different race/colour/gender to the gang etc etc Keep on posting as you may think you post "drivel" but to others it may halp and if not, they can always ignore or get on their high horse just to have a go at you "Not on here she didnt | |||
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"most of the other longstanding posters were women, and mostly crule and had let themselves go" 
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"My only question is what is the Mrs username? Not our business. I must of read ops username wrong Public forum and still poor taste to asked who it was, still not our business."  | |||
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"If there is bullying on the forum then the best thing to do is report it. I can't say I've noticed anyone being hounded, but I'm not in her feelings. And I don't really go anywhere but the Lounge. It is a sad thing if it's happened. I've felt like certain people don't want me here on a couple of occasions. But it's a big forum and it is easy to scroll on by. Live and let live." It usually starts with a contentious post, by a man usually then followed by the usual spineless ones mentioning popcorn then followed by an onslaught by the usual suspects. It’s all very predictable. | |||
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"You have to develop a thick skin on here, definitely not a place for the faint-hearted that's for sure however I would say that it's a lot tamer than around 5 years ago as everyone seems to claim to be offended or shamed by almost anything even typing this I've been very careful with my words to avoid upsetting anyone. Some people just need to offend some people need to feel offended and some both. If she felt bullied then should have reported the offending parties. As she's now left are we allowed to ask her username Admin?? To be clear it was another forum Sadly, a couple of the admin allowed the trashing of threads. This cyber friend of mine told me she was a woamn, I never asked nor ddo we speak on the phone etc but we talk about our family/life etc and give open and honest repsoses to the other . it was easier to chat via forums and now its emails which i find harder. " Do you mean the chat rooms? I've honestly found 99% of my interactions to be positive, I'm sorry your friend had problems - its a shame they didn't report it | |||
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"……. As she's now left are we allowed to ask her username Admin??" Or, can we ask to get her birthdate?…. | |||
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"A good cyber buddy of mine has decided to call it a day. She had been on the forum for a few years and I joined about a year ago …." About a year ago eh?……. | |||
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"My only question is what is the Mrs username? Not our business. I must of read ops username wrong Public forum and still poor taste to asked who it was, still not our business." Some of us would like to know though, it isn't against rules to ask if they had left, although the OP is confusing the bejesus out of me now as he is saying it isn't on this site | |||
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"……. As she's now left are we allowed to ask her username Admin?? Or, can we ask to get her birthdate?…. "And Bank details  | |||
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