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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No it would be awesome! It would mean i have a dick and therefore not only can i take multiple pics of it and send it proudly to everyone in the world, but I'll also get a payrise for the same job as I'll now be perceived as less emotional and more capable because i have a wanger instead of a crummy vagina!
I'll also have endless wank material and would never need to talk to another person  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope because my clothes my sexuality or what my gender is listed as dose not define me
I am the same bubbly though full careing loveable person no mater what
And I truely believe that would shine though no matter what gender I am listed as |
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"No it would be awesome! It would mean i have a dick and therefore not only can i take multiple pics of it and send it proudly to everyone in the world, but I'll also get a payrise for the same job as I'll now be perceived as less emotional and more capable because i have a wanger instead of a crummy vagina!
I'll also have endless wank material and would never need to talk to another person "
Ain’t that the truth! You also missed out the ability to pee standing up (yet failing to hit the target  )  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No it would be awesome! It would mean i have a dick and therefore not only can i take multiple pics of it and send it proudly to everyone in the world, but I'll also get a payrise for the same job as I'll now be perceived as less emotional and more capable because i have a wanger instead of a crummy vagina!
I'll also have endless wank material and would never need to talk to another person "
It was about Fab, not about the workplace. |
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"Yeah coz I’d have a bigger cock than big Harold and I’d be a heavy cummer and a repeater and be able to breathe through my ears. I’d be knee deep in minge and would treat them all with respect. "
 Minge…. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"No it would be awesome! It would mean i have a dick and therefore not only can i take multiple pics of it and send it proudly to everyone in the world, but I'll also get a payrise for the same job as I'll now be perceived as less emotional and more capable because i have a wanger instead of a crummy vagina!
I'll also have endless wank material and would never need to talk to another person "
Absolutely this.
Plus, there are lots of Fab Straight guys looking to suck cock..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
I think this is the shortest reply I’ve ever seen you give. To paraphrase some Self Esteem lyrics: “That’s decisive. I like it.”"
I was possibly still grumpy when I wrote that
However I stand by it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
Why not?"
I think I'd still be fussy and fickle. Possibly even more so in someways.
I don't meet lots of people as it is so wouldn't see that changing.
I reckon I'd still only appeal to a small number of people (once you get past the false flattery)
I think I'd probably have quite a nice cock though |
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"No
I think this is the shortest reply I’ve ever seen you give. To paraphrase some Self Esteem lyrics: “That’s decisive. I like it.”
I was possibly still grumpy when I wrote that
However I stand by it. "
You don't want to be me trust me  |
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"Idk either way but will it mean I can finally try to helicopter because I’m curious af
I want to pee standing up!"
This reminds me of my youngest when she was little. “Mummy when I grow a willy I’m gonna have a wee standing up” |
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"Idk either way but will it mean I can finally try to helicopter because I’m curious af
I want to pee standing up!
Its really overrated "
You're out somewhere with no access to toilets, or the toilets are all engaged
You're able to pee without getting it all over your legs or clothes, without specialist equipment.
This is not overrated |
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
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Im going to answer this as a guy from a couple and the answer is hell no, there isn't a chance in hell I would be on here is a single guy. I couldn't be arsed fawning over women who I wouldn't be attracted to in real life. I'd stick to tinder/pub/Tesco etc . We have met lots of guys over the years on fab and good on them for having more patience than I would  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im going to answer this as a guy from a couple and the answer is hell no, there isn't a chance in hell I would be on here is a single guy. I couldn't be arsed fawning over women who I wouldn't be attracted to in real life. I'd stick to tinder/pub/Tesco etc . We have met lots of guys over the years on fab and good on them for having more patience than I would "
Um, nobody has to fawn? It's not obligatory for men to simp. I don't want a man who isn't attracted to me. Why would any woman? |
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"Im going to answer this as a guy from a couple and the answer is hell no, there isn't a chance in hell I would be on here is a single guy. I couldn't be arsed fawning over women who I wouldn't be attracted to in real life. I'd stick to tinder/pub/Tesco etc . We have met lots of guys over the years on fab and good on them for having more patience than I would
Um, nobody has to fawn? It's not obligatory for men to simp. I don't want a man who isn't attracted to me. Why would any woman?"
Fawning puts me right off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be different. But I wouldn't see it as more negative.
I would just use a different strategy that's all.
If I was a man looking for a man, that wouldn't be an issue here.
A man looking for a woman would take a lot more thought,effort, and planning.
But I suspect in your scenario I would also have a male brain. |
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"You're able to pee without getting it all over your legs or clothes, without specialist equipment.
This is not overrated "
Hmm. Splashback, side-spatter, spending ages draining the equipment only to still have a drop roll down your leg even though you were absolutely certain it was all gone.
I’d be tempted to just have a “lazy wee” instead. |
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"You're able to pee without getting it all over your legs or clothes, without specialist equipment.
This is not overrated
Hmm. Splashback, side-spatter, spending ages draining the equipment only to still have a drop roll down your leg even though you were absolutely certain it was all gone.
I’d be tempted to just have a “lazy wee” instead. "
If there's no seat available, you'll get way less on your leg than I would |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would/do you think your experience of this website would change in a negative way if you were a single male on Fab?
Just a yes or no is fine.
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No. I wouldn’t get so much abuse and vile messages.
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"Yes cos the amount of women looking for exclusivity, from men means I'd probably just go to clubs, and play in 3somes and pull at socials, rather than arrange meets"
I don’t tend to find that women are looking for exclusivity. Maybe that’s a biased sample though, maybe it’s self-selecting because my profile’s fairly clear about what I’m looking for. The women who contact *me* aren’t expecting exclusivity. (Very few of them, anyway.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women don't know, or don't care, when they are being fawned upon. Just spend some time in the chat rooms to see the truth of that.
Frank"
I've never been in a chat room. But what are you saying - that women are oblivious to fawning? I disagree. It's hard to miss, and we are not stupid. |
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"Would/do you think your experience of this website would change in a negative way if you were a single male on Fab?
Just a yes or no is fine.
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No. Positive.
If I were to change into a man overnight.....um I would be gay...unless my attraction switched to the opposite sex as well.
Omg...I'd be a fox in a hen house. Not only would I have all the privileges of being a man, but I could also single-handedly leverage the fact that I know how women think and am not terrified or threatened by women to get a moboton of vagina. And I would be completely unbounded by not having been raised to conform to male societal pressures. Plus you men burn fat and build muscle very easily and I'm jealous of that. lol!
The majority of men I meet are too busy dealing with how they perceive themselves as a man and how society views them as a man to even bother with what women think or their own male emotions.
As a woman who was a tomboy, I never ever felt any societal pressure about being a woman. I just did my own thing safe in the knowledge that my chromosomes and vagina made me a woman regardless of what anyone else thinks.
I can't speak for the trans community and the mental strain that they go through.
The patriarchy and toxic masculinity says men have to be this and many men jump through hoops with unquestioning loyalty to comply.
From my female perspective, I've never felt obliged to conform to the patriarchy, matriarchy, toxic masculinity or militant feminism.
But of course not questioning anything is easier. Takes up less brain power. I'm always burning out because my neurodivergent brain questions everything. See I can't even say just yes or no without elaborating.
It's my tedious default...Apologies. |
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"Most women don't know, or don't care, when they are being fawned upon. Just spend some time in the chat rooms to see the truth of that.
Frank
I've never been in a chat room. But what are you saying - that women are oblivious to fawning? I disagree. It's hard to miss, and we are not stupid. "
No, YOU are not stupid.
Frank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women don't know, or don't care, when they are being fawned upon. Just spend some time in the chat rooms to see the truth of that.
Frank
I've never been in a chat room. But what are you saying - that women are oblivious to fawning? I disagree. It's hard to miss, and we are not stupid.
No, YOU are not stupid.
Frank"
I try not to generalise and be negative about a group comprising thousands of people. But you do you. |
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"Most women don't know, or don't care, when they are being fawned upon. Just spend some time in the chat rooms to see the truth of that.
Frank
I've never been in a chat room. But what are you saying - that women are oblivious to fawning? I disagree. It's hard to miss, and we are not stupid.
No, YOU are not stupid.
Frank"
I think most women a) know when they're being fawned over, and b) know how to manage it so they don't potentially send a dude into an entitled and dangerous rage. (More a problem in person than online)
What you see as stupidity is more like dancing backwards with heels on |
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"Most women don't know, or don't care, when they are being fawned upon. Just spend some time in the chat rooms to see the truth of that.
Frank
I've never been in a chat room. But what are you saying - that women are oblivious to fawning? I disagree. It's hard to miss, and we are not stupid.
No, YOU are not stupid.
Frank
I try not to generalise and be negative about a group comprising thousands of people. But you do you."
I'm genuinely not trying to be negative, I'm just calling it as I see it.
Frank |
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"Most women don't know, or don't care, when they are being fawned upon. Just spend some time in the chat rooms to see the truth of that.
Frank
I've never been in a chat room. But what are you saying - that women are oblivious to fawning? I disagree. It's hard to miss, and we are not stupid.
No, YOU are not stupid.
Frank
I think most women a) know when they're being fawned over, and b) know how to manage it so they don't potentially send a dude into an entitled and dangerous rage. (More a problem in person than online)
What you see as stupidity is more like dancing backwards with heels on "
I just want to point out I wasn't the one that actually started calling anyone stupid.
Frank |
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"Most women don't know, or don't care, when they are being fawned upon. Just spend some time in the chat rooms to see the truth of that.
Frank
I've never been in a chat room. But what are you saying - that women are oblivious to fawning? I disagree. It's hard to miss, and we are not stupid.
No, YOU are not stupid.
Frank
I think most women a) know when they're being fawned over, and b) know how to manage it so they don't potentially send a dude into an entitled and dangerous rage. (More a problem in person than online)
What you see as stupidity is more like dancing backwards with heels on
I just want to point out I wasn't the one that actually started calling anyone stupid.
Frank"
Hmm, you seem to be implying that although the poster you were talking to was not stupid, other women are. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good question.
What about you ? Do you think it would have an impact on how you see yourself if you were a woman woody ? "
Maybe.
The reasons I asked is, the amount of moaning from each side of the sexes.
Men complain about this and that. Then women complain about this and that. And sadly, it’s the interaction of the ones we are trying to attract, (for whatever reason) that’s causing our disillusion with it all.
The best answer I read was - it would just be different, if she changed sex on fab. Different enjoyment, and different problems.
I suppose it’s the mindset of the person too.
Thanks everyone who joined in, it was a good read…. Especially from the men…who just had to join in. |
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I think most women a) know when they're being fawned over, and b) know how to manage it so they don't potentially send a dude into an entitled and dangerous rage. (More a problem in person than online)
What you see as stupidity is more like dancing backwards with heels on
I just want to point out I wasn't the one that actually started calling anyone stupid.
Frank
Hmm, you seem to be implying that although the poster you were talking to was not stupid, other women are."
I dispute your interpretation. The poster used the word stupid, I said that she was not stupid. I never introduced the word stupid.
Frank |
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"Thanks everyone who joined in, it was a good read…. Especially from the men…who just had to join in. "
Hey Woody, show me a thread that asked for comments from men where a woman hasn't joined in and I'll apologise for my contribution
Frank |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks everyone who joined in, it was a good read…. Especially from the men…who just had to join in.
Hey Woody, show me a thread that asked for comments from men where a woman hasn't joined in and I'll apologise for my contribution
Frank"
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/406520
*it’s weak evidence…. But I still submit it to the court. |
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"Thanks everyone who joined in, it was a good read…. Especially from the men…who just had to join in.
Hey Woody, show me a thread that asked for comments from men where a woman hasn't joined in and I'll apologise for my contribution
Frank
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/406520
*it’s weak evidence…. But I still submit it to the court. "
Inadmissible I'm afraid. Will need at least 50 posts to qualify as evidence
Frank |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks everyone who joined in, it was a good read…. Especially from the men…who just had to join in.
Hey Woody, show me a thread that asked for comments from men where a woman hasn't joined in and I'll apologise for my contribution
Frank
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/406520
*it’s weak evidence…. But I still submit it to the court.
Inadmissible I'm afraid. Will need at least 50 posts to qualify as evidence
Frank"
I’d like to call for a recess. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"….
*it’s weak evidence…. But I still submit it to the court.
Inadmissible I'm afraid. Will need at least 50 posts to qualify as evidence
Frank"
The only threads that have more than 50 replies from men will ALWAYS have women in the thread ….  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most women don't know, or don't care, when they are being fawned upon. Just spend some time in the chat rooms to see the truth of that.
Frank
I've never been in a chat room. But what are you saying - that women are oblivious to fawning? I disagree. It's hard to miss, and we are not stupid.
No, YOU are not stupid.
Frank
I think most women a) know when they're being fawned over, and b) know how to manage it so they don't potentially send a dude into an entitled and dangerous rage. (More a problem in person than online)
What you see as stupidity is more like dancing backwards with heels on
I just want to point out I wasn't the one that actually started calling anyone stupid.
Frank"
No, but you're being a bit disingenuous I think to say that most women don't know they're being fawned over (or care) but deny the word stupid. Because the implication is clearly there. |
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"Most women don't know, or don't care, when they are being fawned upon. Just spend some time in the chat rooms to see the truth of that.
Frank
I've never been in a chat room. But what are you saying - that women are oblivious to fawning? I disagree. It's hard to miss, and we are not stupid.
No, YOU are not stupid.
Frank
I think most women a) know when they're being fawned over, and b) know how to manage it so they don't potentially send a dude into an entitled and dangerous rage. (More a problem in person than online)
What you see as stupidity is more like dancing backwards with heels on
I just want to point out I wasn't the one that actually started calling anyone stupid.
Frank
No, but you're being a bit disingenuous I think to say that most women don't know they're being fawned over (or care) but deny the word stupid. Because the implication is clearly there. "
If you think that someone not being aware of something, or caring, makes them stupid then that's your interpretation, not mine.
Frank
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