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Why do single men chase couples
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do single men chase couples and don't read profiles then get arsey when they do manage to read the profile and it says WE DON"T FUCK OR DO PUSSY PLAY. Suggestion, read the profile carefully first then just be polite. You might actually get some meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do single men chase couples and don't read profiles then get arsey when they do manage to read the profile and it says WE DON"T FUCK OR DO PUSSY PLAY. Suggestion, read the profile carefully first then just be polite. You might actually get some meets."
Is your profile a reflection of you in real life ? |
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By *rumalexMan
over a year ago
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"Why do single men chase couples and don't read profiles then get arsey when they do manage to read the profile and it says WE DON"T FUCK OR DO PUSSY PLAY. Suggestion, read the profile carefully first then just be polite. You might actually get some meets."
i'm a single man and i dont chase couples  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a thought for the op - there are more specific sites available for your tastes , and as we enjoy meeting single guys , we hope they dont stop looking at couple profiles 
We take your point that they may not read your profile , we did and hence the suggestion that your desires are not typical of a more typical swinging site  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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i don't chase... i just took one look at the SCREAMING IN CAPITALS and thought "condescending"...
sorry... but if i was a couple it is really unfriendly looking.... I wouldn't even approach, I am here for fun, not a lecture.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We can honestly say 99% of the single blokes that have contacted us are polite, they might not read profiles but they are polite;)
Never get annoyed though as we've had some really good meets (and some good banter)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just a thought for the op - there are more specific sites available for your tastes , and as we enjoy meeting single guys , we hope they dont stop looking at couple profiles
We take your point that they may not read your profile , we did and hence the suggestion that your desires are not typical of a more typical swinging site "
Yeap we are on other more specific site as well that satisfy our tastes dont get us wrong we have met some lovely single guys on here just get fed up of having to spoon feed others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We can honestly say 99% of the single blokes that have contacted us are polite, they might not read profiles but they are polite;)
Never get annoyed though as we've had some really good meets (and some good banter) "
No need for lectures, or rudeness!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We can honestly say 99% of the single blokes that have contacted us are polite, they might not read profiles but they are polite;)
Never get annoyed though as we've had some really good meets (and some good banter) "
Not saying all single guys are like that just fed up of the ones who just dont read the profile to lines in and its clear what we dont do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i don't chase... i just took one look at the SCREAMING IN CAPITALS and thought "condescending"...
sorry... but if i was a couple it is really unfriendly looking.... I wouldn't even approach, I am here for fun, not a lecture.... "
No problem |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you should meet one of the most annoying 'chasers' and then punish him in a suitable manner. He won't chase you again and you might like it. "
Oh Mrs K would!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We can honestly say 99% of the single blokes that have contacted us are polite, they might not read profiles but they are polite;)
Never get annoyed though as we've had some really good meets (and some good banter)
Not saying all single guys are like that just fed up of the ones who just dont read the profile to lines in and its clear what we dont do"
Unfortunately there's a lot of all types ( single men, women and couples) that do the same thing, don't let it get to you just delete,block and move on, no point in letting them work you up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do single men chase couples and don't read profiles then get arsey when they do manage to read the profile and it says WE DON"T FUCK OR DO PUSSY PLAY. Suggestion, read the profile carefully first then just be polite. You might actually get some meets."
i have no idea, probably the same reason as couples dont read my profile and message me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do single men chase couples and don't read profiles then get arsey when they do manage to read the profile and it says WE DON"T FUCK OR DO PUSSY PLAY. Suggestion, read the profile carefully first then just be polite. You might actually get some meets.
i have no idea, probably the same reason as couples dont read my profile and message me "
Lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seen profile and seems quite straight forward to me you will meet single guys that like to be dominated if I'm reading right and I can't see the problem with that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We can honestly say 99% of the single blokes that have contacted us are polite, they might not read profiles but they are polite;)
Never get annoyed though as we've had some really good meets (and some good banter)
No need for lectures, or rudeness!!!"
I guess that's the problem with profiles or any typed thing, one person can read something completely different from how it was intended |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really to be honest started reading your profile first thing you say you meet single guys tv and ts so u got there interest then comes the dos and dont's waste of time for bored moved on sorry I ain't chasing anyone. Just happy to chat on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"will be a sad day if single guys dont message couples "
Nah, happy days really! Cause we know who not to bother lol, if a profile is that SCREAMINGLY clear, that's good lol x |
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"We can honestly say 99% of the single blokes that have contacted us are polite, they might not read profiles but they are polite;)
Never get annoyed though as we've had some really good meets (and some good banter)
Not saying all single guys are like that just fed up of the ones who just dont read the profile to lines in and its clear what we dont do"
So far today I've had a message from a trucker inviting me to a layby, an offer to lick my pussy, another asking what I'm into...my profile is hidden, so they obviously didn't look.
Point is, it's par for the course from people on site. If we all started threads about being contacted by people outwith our criteria the servers would go into meltdown! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seen profile and seems quite straight forward to me you will meet single guys that like to be dominated if I'm reading right and I can't see the problem with that "
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seen profile and seems quite straight forward to me you will meet single guys that like to be dominated if I'm reading right and I can't see the problem with that
Thanks "
Yeah quite straight forward really and would be right up my street that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can say PLEASE READ PROFILE all you like, you can put it in caps, lowercase, italics or a different language, it makes no odds. If people don't want to read it they won't and there's nothing you can do about it.
So just ignore them and don't reply. You don't have to spoon feed anyone.
All of us get messages from people who don't fit our criteria. So stop being bothered by it, or put your filters on or close your account, because you will not stop it |
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i must say that single men are onto a hiding of a lifetime on this site! I actively encourage my wife to chat to singles on our other profile. She loves flirting with them, I step in if a meet is likely or she fancies them and wants to meet. all the singles we have ever met have been pure gentlemen and we would meet everyone of them again! My _iew is that some couples are far too arrogant & up themselves! |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do single men chase couples and don't read profiles then get arsey when they do manage to read the profile and it says WE DON"T FUCK OR DO PUSSY PLAY. Suggestion, read the profile carefully first then just be polite. You might actually get some meets."
It aint just the single guys, you should see the messages i get from couples, despite what my profile says.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With all due respect, your profile states you are looking for single men, so single men will message.
I can tell fairly quickly when someone hasn't read my profile, they get a thanks but no thanks message and I move onto next message.
Really think you could do with softening your profile a little, all the shouts caps makes it difficult to read which could be assisting to your problem with guys not reading your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get messages from guys as that is what we were looking for.Our beef is that if we don't answer them they get grumpy and ask for a yes or no thanks. Also they send us their mobile number and then if we say sorry but we are busy with family they block us? Also then get nasty if we message them? |
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People messaging you to fuck you? On a swingers site? What ARE they thinking?!
To be fair, you're on what most people consider a sex site - NOT looking for sex. You can see where the confusion comes in. You don't fuck, you don't do pussy play as you call it and you don't kiss. On a swinging site, that doesn't leave anything that you DO do! |
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