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Should I flirt with him? Should I wait for him to flirt? I haven't done this since I was a teen and all the 'my mate fancies you (giggle)' lark.
Eek! Oh yeah... And how do I flirt?!  | |||
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"My dilemma- there's a bloke I like. My flirting radar is pretty rusty so I don't know if he's interested or not. He leaves after next week so no time to plan my strategy.
Should I flirt with him? Should I wait for him to flirt? I haven't done this since I was a teen and all the 'my mate fancies you (giggle)' lark.
Eek! Oh yeah... And how do I flirt?! "Christ yes, a little subtle flirting is fantastic and hopefully he'll get the hint. Good luck. | |||
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"My dilemma- there's a bloke I like. My flirting radar is pretty rusty so I don't know if he's interested or not. He leaves after next week so no time to plan my strategy.
Should I flirt with him? Should I wait for him to flirt? I haven't done this since I was a teen and all the 'my mate fancies you (giggle)' lark.
Eek! Oh yeah... And how do I flirt?! "Is it Johnny? | |||
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"Due to previous experiences, work colleagues are untouchables as far as I am concerned. However, I shall make sure they know that I fancy them and shall give them my contact details when they leave. "
With Pearl on this. But if he's leaving give it a go. Havent a clue how to flirt but Im more than sure you'll have no problems doing this
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"Don't flirt, tell him straight. Otherwise it will take him the week to work it out "Agree. Just say 'fancy a drink and coffee at mine afterwards?' | |||
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"just say 'when do you finish your shift as I really fancy slipping up and down on your rock hard shaft'... if he is interested, he will let you know... if he isn't... swop Kylie CD's" | |||
"just say 'when do you finish your shift as I really fancy slipping up and down on your rock hard shaft'... if he is interested, he will let you know... if he isn't... swop Kylie CD's" . Quality! | |||
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Even if he thinks I'm a sad old bag I suppose I've got nothing to lose. I'll wear a short skirt with my snow boots on Monday. And accidentally fall onto his lap. | |||
"He doesn't work at my place, just a couple of weeks contract. I just didn't want to seem desperate. Liking the advice, thank you! I have done the 'holding his gaze for longer than 3 seconds' thing. And giggled like a 14 year old.
Even if he thinks I'm a sad old bag I suppose I've got nothing to lose. I'll wear a short skirt with my snow boots on Monday. And accidentally fall onto his lap. "good luck xx and with the fixed stare thing... try and not have your eyes looking at each other... I went wrong there once | |||
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"No they shouldn't flirt. Unless it's with me." maybe they are frightened you will leave | |||
"just say 'when do you finish your shift as I really fancy slipping up and down on your rock hard shaft'... if he is interested, he will let you know... if he isn't... swop Kylie CD's"
Nice one. I'll either get a right good shag.... Or a new clubbing buddy. Win/ win. | |||
"This may not be everyone's cup of tea, however, I had some business cards printed with my avatar pic and my username on FAB, and am inclined to give it out to suitable gents that I may be interested in having some NSA fun. "pmsl | |||
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"No they shouldn't flirt. Unless it's with me. maybe they are frightened you will leave" Pssst I don't know if you have heard but I am actually leaving View  | |||
"No they shouldn't flirt. Unless it's with me. maybe they are frightened you will leave Pssst I don't know if you have heard but I am actually leaving View "no, no, no...... Johnny and you. is there a connection | |||
"No they shouldn't flirt. Unless it's with me. maybe they are frightened you will leave Pssst I don't know if you have heard but I am actually leaving View
no, no, no......
Johnny and you.
is there a connection
"Some say he is the fruit of my loin, some say he is an evil timewaster experiment I undertook that went wrong all I can say is HEEEEEE'S JOHNNY! | |||
"No they shouldn't flirt. Unless it's with me. maybe they are frightened you will leave Pssst I don't know if you have heard but I am actually leaving View
no, no, no......
Johnny and you.
is there a connection
Some say he is the fruit of my loin, some say he is an evil timewaster experiment I undertook that went wrong all I can say is HEEEEEE'S JOHNNY!"have you set a date for the departure... I will wear black like the other queen did | |||
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"Suggest leaving drinks then simply pounce ". I'll go with that. | |||
"No they shouldn't flirt. Unless it's with me. maybe they are frightened you will leave Pssst I don't know if you have heard but I am actually leaving View
no, no, no......
Johnny and you.
is there a connection
Some say he is the fruit of my loin, some say he is an evil timewaster experiment I undertook that went wrong all I can say is HEEEEEE'S JOHNNY!
have you set a date for the departure... I will wear black like the other queen did"I haven't set an exact date as yet but its kind of soonish, certainly I would think no later than 2020. We could have a black tie do any time though bro. | |||
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if he doesn't make a move pass him your number when he leaves. good luck | |||
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"Well I would get into conversation with him, ask him when he finishes and then ask if he would like to go for a drink one night. If he says yes, hand him your mobile number and ask him to text you when its convenient. Then you will either get a text or you won't, as he's not going to be around then it won't matter. I wouldn't do the short skirt, staring at his cock kind of thing unless you specifically only want sex. If you are looking for a date then keep it friendly, a little flirtatious but not full on sexual "My 'short' skirts are knee length. Wild, I know!!
I'm thinking I'll email him on his last day and ask if he fancies a coffee some time. I'm too shy to ask face to face. If he doesn't reply then I'll know.... | |||
"Certainly middle aged women should flirt, you just need to be subtle about it. I don't think you should giggle but hold his gaze a split second longer than you need to, put your hand on his arm briefly to make a point, look at him through your lashes or your hair, lean forward "accidentally" with a slightly lower but top than normal and smile.at him A LOT. Really hope it all goes well" Thank you.
I giggle when I'm nervous, it's not a flirting thing. I'll smile lots too. | |||
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and wouldn't say 41 is middle aged lol x | |||
"My dilemma- there's a bloke I like. My flirting radar is pretty rusty so I don't know if he's interested or not. He leaves after next week so no time to plan my strategy.
Should I flirt with him? Should I wait for him to flirt? I haven't done this since I was a teen and all the 'my mate fancies you (giggle)' lark.
Eek! Oh yeah... And how do I flirt?! "Just go for it..... xx you never know... nothing ventured, nothing gained ... xx | |||
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"Don't flirt, tell him straight. Otherwise it will take him the week to work it out " | |||
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"Certainly middle aged women should flirt, you just need to be subtle about it. I don't think you should giggle but hold his gaze a split second longer than you need to, put your hand on his arm briefly to make a point, look at him through your lashes or your hair, lean forward "accidentally" with a slightly lower but top than normal and smile.at him A LOT. Really hope it all goes well Thank you.
I giggle when I'm nervous, it's not a flirting thing. I'll smile lots too. "I talk too much when I'm nervous lol. You look great in your profile picture he'd be a fool not to fall for your charms | |||
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"Go for it just dont be tooo subtle he's a man and we dont get subtle....lol wish someone would flirt with me "We're working on the same thing. He emailed and said we could go through some paperwork on Monday. I replied and said "I'll look forward to it". Is that too subtle??!  | |||
"Go for it just dont be tooo subtle he's a man and we dont get subtle....lol wish someone would flirt with me
We're working on the same thing. He emailed and said we could go through some paperwork on Monday. I replied and said "I'll look forward to it".
Is that too subtle??! ". Yes! | |||
"Go for it just dont be tooo subtle he's a man and we dont get subtle....lol wish someone would flirt with me
We're working on the same thing. He emailed and said we could go through some paperwork on Monday. I replied and said "I'll look forward to it".
Is that too subtle??! "Yes lol you should have said "i'll look forward to it xx oh and btw I wont be wearing any knickers " | |||
"My dilemma- there's a bloke I like. My flirting radar is pretty rusty so I don't know if he's interested or not. He leaves after next week so no time to plan my strategy.
Should I flirt with him? Should I wait for him to flirt? I haven't done this since I was a teen and all the 'my mate fancies you (giggle)' lark.
Eek! Oh yeah... And how do I flirt?!
Christ yes, a little subtle flirting is fantastic and hopefully he'll get the hint.
Good luck. "NO No don't be subtle....if he's anything like me, then he won't get the fact you like him even if and when you have him on his own in the broom cupboard straight talking and tell him what you want! if he runs a mile, we hey he was leaving anyway....Good luck | |||
"My dilemma- there's a bloke I like. My flirting radar is pretty rusty so I don't know if he's interested or not. He leaves after next week so no time to plan my strategy.
Should I flirt with him? Should I wait for him to flirt? I haven't done this since I was a teen and all the 'my mate fancies you (giggle)' lark.
Eek! Oh yeah... And how do I flirt?!
Christ yes, a little subtle flirting is fantastic and hopefully he'll get the hint.
Good luck.
NO No don't be subtle....if he's anything like me, then he won't get the fact you like him even if and when you have him on his own in the broom cupboard straight talking and tell him what you want! if he runs a mile, we hey he was leaving anyway....Good luck"Think I'll wait till his last day just in case. I'll just ask him if he fancies a coffee some time. We don't have a broom cupboard. | |||
"Go for it just dont be tooo subtle he's a man and we dont get subtle....lol wish someone would flirt with me
We're working on the same thing. He emailed and said we could go through some paperwork on Monday. I replied and said "I'll look forward to it".
Is that too subtle??!
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Yes! "I agree that isa definitely too subtle. if that were to be considered a chat up line then I'd be flirting with about 25 guys at work, that's a standard email nicety for me | |||
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"This may not be everyone's cup of tea, however, I had some business cards printed with my avatar pic and my username on FAB, and am inclined to give it out to suitable gents that I may be interested in having some NSA fun. "that is quality.. | |||
"I decided not to wait till the end of the week. I just asked him... And he said yes!! "nice one, pleased for you.. btw 41 is not 'middle aged'.. | |||
"I decided not to wait till the end of the week. I just asked him... And he said yes!! "Way to go Scarlet! | |||
"I decided not to wait till the end of the week. I just asked him... And he said yes!! "Well done you | |||
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"My dilemma- there's a bloke I like. My flirting radar is pretty rusty so I don't know if he's interested or not. He leaves after next week so no time to plan my strategy.
Should I flirt with him? Should I wait for him to flirt? I haven't done this since I was a teen and all the 'my mate fancies you (giggle)' lark.
Eek! Oh yeah... And how do I flirt?! "i dont envy you at all, i hate hate hate chatting people up, its alot easier on here haha. I had a young girl at my work about 21, she was a pa, so beautiful, i used to speak to her, sadly her ex would knock her about. Anyway, she split from him and was leaving work, i bottled it, bottled it and then on her last day, thought id go and see her and ask her, if i got rejected, no loss. All the girls were cheering me on, i walked upto her department and as i walked in, noticed, she had gone.. | |||
"My dilemma- there's a bloke I like. My flirting radar is pretty rusty so I don't know if he's interested or not. He leaves after next week so no time to plan my strategy.
Should I flirt with him? Should I wait for him to flirt? I haven't done this since I was a teen and all the 'my mate fancies you (giggle)' lark.
Eek! Oh yeah... And how do I flirt?!
i dont envy you at all, i hate hate hate chatting people up, its alot easier on here haha.
I had a young girl at my work about 21, she was a pa, so beautiful, i used to speak to her, sadly her ex would knock her about. Anyway, she split from him and was leaving work, i bottled it, bottled it and then on her last day, thought id go and see her and ask her, if i got rejected, no loss. All the girls were cheering me on, i walked upto her department and as i walked in, noticed, she had gone.."someone, one of her friends will have her number maybe.. if its meant to be it will happen, ask her out for coffee ..? dont regret it in 6 months time when you see her arm in arm with some new guy.. good luck | |||
"My dilemma- there's a bloke I like. My flirting radar is pretty rusty so I don't know if he's interested or not. He leaves after next week so no time to plan my strategy.
Should I flirt with him? Should I wait for him to flirt? I haven't done this since I was a teen and all the 'my mate fancies you (giggle)' lark.
Eek! Oh yeah... And how do I flirt?!
i dont envy you at all, i hate hate hate chatting people up, its alot easier on here haha.
I had a young girl at my work about 21, she was a pa, so beautiful, i used to speak to her, sadly her ex would knock her about. Anyway, she split from him and was leaving work, i bottled it, bottled it and then on her last day, thought id go and see her and ask her, if i got rejected, no loss. All the girls were cheering me on, i walked upto her department and as i walked in, noticed, she had gone..
someone, one of her friends will have her number maybe..
if its meant to be it will happen, ask her out for coffee ..?
dont regret it in 6 months time when you see her arm in arm with some new guy..
good luck
"regret it to this day, was 2009 i think, i should of asked one of the girls in the office, i think one did offer, but i thought id come across weird. I think the girl was high maintenance tho, but so hot. She does beauty work now, if i find her place il go in for a wax | |||
"Don't flirt, tell him straight. Otherwise it will take him the week to work it out " | |||
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"Just tell him, "I'm not very good at innuendo, so are you getting my message loud and clear. Big boy. ""I've been flirting again today. We're off out next week. It's hard work as I have to pretend to be innocent. I'm not used to this vanilla chat lark! | |||
"Don't flirt, tell him straight. Otherwise it will take him the week to work it out "I agree don't beat about the bush ask him out for a coffee...go for it | |||
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