Yes, more so if they've left them for others. You can't help what people write about you but I am a little  when people choose to publish them.
But that's just me. There are probably fabbers who love it so everyone should just do what they want 
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I've never had or written anything that could be considered graphic until recently. I was actually quite nervous about displaying them for us both.
Equally though if people read them and judge harshly then they wouldn't be the sort of person I would want to get to know anyway.
I also think people shouldn't read them and assume you are something you are not |
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"I've never had or written anything that could be considered graphic until recently. I was actually quite nervous about displaying them for us both.
Equally though if people read them and judge harshly then they wouldn't be the sort of person I would want to get to know anyway.
I also think people shouldn't read them and assume you are something you are not "
Obviously I had to go nosey  That was more erotic than graphic. Maybe it's crude I dislike more than graphic.
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I don’t mind them that much. It’s the ones that go into great detail to describe the meet from start to finish that I don’t particularly like, it doesn’t put me off it’s just unnecessary I think. We have one that we wouldn’t publish because of how descriptive it is. |
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It’s why we don’t publish ours tbh x so many veris are crude and tasteless, my first ever veri made me sound like a hand puppet and I cried when I read it lol x I’ve toughened up since but I rarely read veris for that reason x tells you more about the writer than the subject |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yep. A bit. I just think, maybe we're not that compatible. Sometimes I'll ignore them and say fuck it.
I'm more likely to be put off by the ones that make it very clear that someone's really into someone - I just think, nah, there's no point. And move it to a friendship. |
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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago
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Really crude ones I just think, maybe they’re not my kinda person. Some things are private and best kept that way. The extent of someone’s bj skills or how wet someone got is not really what I need to know.
Ones where there is clear there is some personal joke between the two, I like. It shows there is more connection than just a fuck, I’m way past just being a fuck.
Loved up ones, or those that show a deeper connection, I’m wary of treading on toes, possibly spoiling something or upsetting someone, so I’ll probably back off |
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"I've never had or written anything that could be considered graphic until recently. I was actually quite nervous about displaying them for us both.
Equally though if people read them and judge harshly then they wouldn't be the sort of person I would want to get to know anyway.
I also think people shouldn't read them and assume you are something you are not "
Sorry, but I had to go look. That sort doesn't put me off at all, both left me doing that weird warm smile when you can feel the happiness in something. They're both well written descriptions of both feelings and lust with no feeling of the crude side, it's when that slips in that I tend to stop reading or switch off. |
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I used to worry about this sort of thing, but I’ve relaxed these days.
I reckon it’s best just to publish whatever feels right for you. That’s honest. And if you want to attract people who actually like you, not some imaginary version of you, then you have to be honest.
The people leaving you veris have already made their side of the decision - they’ve sent you it because they’re happy for it to be seen. So the choice is yours, every time. Publish or don’t. Go with what feels right. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Loved up ones, or those that show a deeper connection, I’m wary of treading on toes, possibly spoiling something or upsetting someone, so I’ll probably back off "
Yep, that's exactly it for me. Even if it's just leaving people to enjoy the honeymoon stage in peace.
I couldn't think of anything worse than meeting someone and they a) spend the time talking about someone else or b) thinking about someone else. It's my idea of hell. So I try and minimise the likelihood of that happening. |
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Enticing and erotically suggestive verifications are fine. I don't mind those at all.
However, I have less appreciation of verifications that are outwardly vulgar, uncouth and those that describe how each other's genitalia were unappealingly used and abused.
Perhaps that is a "my problem/issue" because it ruins the profound mystique that I had for that person.
Lastly, the type that truly puts me off is where the verification narrative comes across as "divide and conquer" or "territorial", conveying a 'keep-off-she's-mine' message to the reader. |
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The variety, age and content of people's verifications are a doorway to the kind of person that they are content to associate with themselves. For whatever reason most people seem to believe it's some sort of rating feedback and future grooming system which isn't actually what it's meant to be rather an endorsement that the profile is accurate and they behave within the bounds of the community rule set.
We choose to display our most recent veri just to show that we are still knocking around and interested in playing. |
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They do but also not just because they’re graphic  they’re also incredibly boring and repetitive! No one puts any thought into them. It’s all ‘sucks like a Dyson’, ‘made me squirt all night’, ‘made me cum so many times’.
Why not mix it up a bit and tell everyone how daves cock is thicker than your wrist and Sharon’s boobs are like squeezing water balloons? I wanna hear how Barbara’s love tunnel is like entering a welcoming warm and dark den of secrets and how Colin’s thrust action took you to heaven |
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No and I don't see why they would.
As long as they were from a genuine profile from a genuine meeting.
What would put me off is lots of social verifications as it looks like they are only interested in the fantasy. |
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"Why not mix it up a bit and tell everyone how daves cock is thicker than your wrist and Sharon’s boobs are like squeezing water balloons? I wanna hear how Barbara’s love tunnel is like entering a welcoming warm and dark den of secrets and how Colin’s thrust action took you to heaven "
I reckon the secret there is to meet people who can string a decent sentence together … |
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"I don’t mind them that much. It’s the ones that go into great detail to describe the meet from start to finish that I don’t particularly like, it doesn’t put me off it’s just unnecessary I think. We have one that we wouldn’t publish because of how descriptive it is. "
Well now it's almost like I have to know  why would you put this here and not publish it |
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"Why not mix it up a bit and tell everyone how daves cock is thicker than your wrist and Sharon’s boobs are like squeezing water balloons? I wanna hear how Barbara’s love tunnel is like entering a welcoming warm and dark den of secrets and how Colin’s thrust action took you to heaven
I reckon the secret there is to meet people who can string a decent sentence together …"
I mean, I do try |
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"Why not mix it up a bit and tell everyone how daves cock is thicker than your wrist and Sharon’s boobs are like squeezing water balloons? I wanna hear how Barbara’s love tunnel is like entering a welcoming warm and dark den of secrets and how Colin’s thrust action took you to heaven
I reckon the secret there is to meet people who can string a decent sentence together …"
The ones that can't will get the browsers back button all excited  |
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I have questions about veris…. Can I jump in on your thread to ask?
Do people actually write bad veris?
If someone wrote you a bad veri would you publish it?
And do people chat between themselves after a meet to discuss the type of veri they are going to leave each other ?
I suppose I could start another thread but wasn’t sure if it would be relevant here
P.s crude doesn’t put me off… sometimes fantasising about others meets is hot |
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"They do but also not just because they’re graphic they’re also incredibly boring and repetitive! No one puts any thought into them. It’s all ‘sucks like a Dyson’, ‘made me squirt all night’, ‘made me cum so many times’.
Why not mix it up a bit and tell everyone how daves cock is thicker than your wrist and Sharon’s boobs are like squeezing water balloons? I wanna hear how Barbara’s love tunnel is like entering a welcoming warm and dark den of secrets and how Colin’s thrust action took you to heaven "
Fluffy, you missed out about Anna_Bananas ability to suck out a tree root |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I have questions about veris…. Can I jump in on your thread to ask?
Do people actually write bad veris?
If someone wrote you a bad veri would you publish it?
And do people chat between themselves after a meet to discuss the type of veri they are going to leave each other ?
I suppose I could start another thread but wasn’t sure if it would be relevant here
P.s crude doesn’t put me off… sometimes fantasising about others meets is hot "
I wouldn’t write a bad one unless it was something really dodgy or safety concerns for other members. If it was just a case of I didn’t enjoy it no becuase thats just my experience we all have different likes |
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"I have questions about veris…. Can I jump in on your thread to ask?
Do people actually write bad veris?
If someone wrote you a bad veri would you publish it?
And do people chat between themselves after a meet to discuss the type of veri they are going to leave each other ?
I suppose I could start another thread but wasn’t sure if it would be relevant here
P.s crude doesn’t put me off… sometimes fantasising about others meets is hot
I wouldn’t write a bad one unless it was something really dodgy or safety concerns for other members. If it was just a case of I didn’t enjoy it no becuase thats just my experience we all have different likes "
Would they display it though, I doubt it |
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I tend not to like the graphic ones. Sometimes they seem disrespectful and misogynistic. They would not be the kind of thing I share with mates, so why share it with all and sundry. |
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"I have questions about veris…. Can I jump in on your thread to ask?
Do people actually write bad veris?
If someone wrote you a bad veri would you publish it?
And do people chat between themselves after a meet to discuss the type of veri they are going to leave each other ?
I suppose I could start another thread but wasn’t sure if it would be relevant here
P.s crude doesn’t put me off… sometimes fantasising about others meets is hot
I wouldn’t write a bad one unless it was something really dodgy or safety concerns for other members. If it was just a case of I didn’t enjoy it no becuase thats just my experience we all have different likes "
That’s fair… but are the good ones only your experience too?  |
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"I have questions about veris…. Can I jump in on your thread to ask?
Do people actually write bad veris?
If someone wrote you a bad veri would you publish it?
And do people chat between themselves after a meet to discuss the type of veri they are going to leave each other ?
I suppose I could start another thread but wasn’t sure if it would be relevant here
P.s crude doesn’t put me off… sometimes fantasising about others meets is hot
I wouldn’t write a bad one unless it was something really dodgy or safety concerns for other members. If it was just a case of I didn’t enjoy it no becuase thats just my experience we all have different likes
Would they display it though, I doubt it "
Doubt it…. |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I have questions about veris…. Can I jump in on your thread to ask?
Do people actually write bad veris?
If someone wrote you a bad veri would you publish it?
And do people chat between themselves after a meet to discuss the type of veri they are going to leave each other ?
I suppose I could start another thread but wasn’t sure if it would be relevant here
P.s crude doesn’t put me off… sometimes fantasising about others meets is hot
I wouldn’t write a bad one unless it was something really dodgy or safety concerns for other members. If it was just a case of I didn’t enjoy it no becuase thats just my experience we all have different likes
Would they display it though, I doubt it "
Exactly its pointless really |
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"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude. "
I'd call detailed descriptions of what was done with what crude - "he licked my missus's pussy dry". |
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
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"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude.
I'd call detailed descriptions of what was done with what crude - "he licked my missus's pussy dry". "
In that case, I think it's hot... I love a good pussy licking. |
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"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude.
I'd call detailed descriptions of what was done with what crude - "he licked my missus's pussy dry".
In that case, I think it's hot... I love a good pussy licking. "
I don't. And I don't want to read about it in a veri. Which is fine - there's something for everyone! |
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"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude.
I'd call detailed descriptions of what was done with what crude - "he licked my missus's pussy dry". "
Well that would put us off - he's fucking doing it sooooo very wrong if he licked it dry, pussies are meant to get wetter when you lick them not dryer |
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"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude.
I'd call detailed descriptions of what was done with what crude - "he licked my missus's pussy dry".
Well that would put us off - he's fucking doing it sooooo very wrong if he licked it dry, pussies are meant to get wetter when you lick them not dryer "
Mine usually gets drier. What do I know? |
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"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude.
I'd call detailed descriptions of what was done with what crude - "he licked my missus's pussy dry".
Well that would put us off - he's fucking doing it sooooo very wrong if he licked it dry, pussies are meant to get wetter when you lick them not dryer "
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