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over a year ago
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I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'? |
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over a year ago
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"Retail therapy usually helps, suffused with some elegant Champagne and an ear of a dear friend to listen to your woes and give support."
 sounds lovely... But so much effort to get ready, get myself there... Can you send a wardrobe assistant with prechosen outfit and a chauffeur
Maybe I've got lazi-itis |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it's mopping and vacuuming floors or Spring cleaning I pay someone to do it.
Anything else will get done if it's at a minute to midnight. "
Actually cleaning is one of the few things I'm doing - its more social things i just can't be bothered with atm |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"op. You will get through it. It might be a short time or longer but you will get there. Now the weather is getting better you might feel more positive"
Yeah summer does amazing things for our mental health x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The mojo does sometimes disappear like water down the plughole and everything seems too much like hard work. Are you going to the gym at the moment? "
Nope, had some lame assed excuse at Easter and not been back since... Put on loads of weight and now in a downward death spiral ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cock pic???
Fuck it, im desperate to try anything... Got googly eyes?
No, just a Japs eye 
Moustache +an eye patch and you are on!
Can I spunk on your tits? "
So long as i don't have to move |
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'? "
Is "Daddy" not a cure?? |
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Nope, had some lame assed excuse at Easter and not been back since... Put on loads of weight and now in a downward death spiral ! "
I'll offer the collective  to you. Don't want you disappearing down that vortex! I'll always chat shit and shoot the breeze if you want to. |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
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I go out on the motorbike and just ride, escape it all.
I get what you mean though OP. recently I just blocked loads of people I quite simply had enough of. Wasnt going anywhere and I got better things to do. Won't miss them.
CBA with it
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'? "
I don’t think it’s just women, OP! My mojo packed its bags and facked orff a few weeks ago and I’m struggling to find it.
Work is beyond shite and I have no one to cuddle. CBA to go to the gym either!
Need something positive to happen and I reckon that’ll help.
I hope you find your positive thing soon.
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"Retail therapy usually helps, suffused with some elegant Champagne and an ear of a dear friend to listen to your woes and give support.
sounds lovely... But so much effort to get ready, get myself there... Can you send a wardrobe assistant with prechosen outfit and a chauffeur
Maybe I've got lazi-itis"
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Míddèrs, I'm going to give you a kick up the derrière-itis! |
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'? "
Just look at my pics 
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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'? "
This was me for months and I couldn't put my finger on what had changed. I decided to join a gym and don't know if it's the feel good endorphins, newly found energy or trying something so far out of my comfort zone but it's back! And with a vengeance!
Don't overthink it and it'll come back!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'?
Just look at my pics
K"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'? "
Couple of drinks to loosen up, music blaring in the house that you can sing and dance to, to get you to start feeling more pumped. |
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Make sure your getting enough vitamin d.
I (m) got side swiped by a feeling of not being bothered, fatigue etc that slowly spiralled into depression etc. Was largely attributed to a vitamind d deficiency. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'? "
Medication can have an effect on one’s mojo, life stresses, poorly performing partners. I’d recommend looking at various aspects of your life and see if any could be having an impact? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get taking to the right people, be in the right places doing some stuff that I know I enjoy.
There’s a forum social coming up, I’m looking forward to that.
Or, let someone else make you feel sexy…
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I've had this for almost 18 months now and no sign of it letting up.
The loss of 2 family members and the inevitable loss of a third any day now added to personal health issues and concerns over friends health have all taken their toll. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is this just related to sex or in everyday life too?"
It's everyday life... I think it is work related, i was moved to a new role I'm jan and I'm still adjusting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'?
Is "Daddy" not a cure??"
Oh that is always the right answer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hugs hopefully it gets better maybe a little time away to reflect can help restore things x "
I just had a little mini-fab break and it helped a little |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Nope, had some lame assed excuse at Easter and not been back since... Put on loads of weight and now in a downward death spiral !
I'll offer the collective to you. Don't want you disappearing down that vortex! I'll always chat shit and shoot the breeze if you want to."
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I go out on the motorbike and just ride, escape it all.
I get what you mean though OP. recently I just blocked loads of people I quite simply had enough of. Wasnt going anywhere and I got better things to do. Won't miss them.
CBA with it
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I used to walk for miles.. Maybe the lighter brighter weather will inspire me soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hugs hopefully it gets better maybe a little time away to reflect can help restore things x
I just had a little mini-fab break and it helped a little "
Me also ha ha that must have been during my bake aww hugs emmm maybe some off my pics could restore that but be warrned though eye bleach maybe need there’s bum hole
X i really hope you do find it again beautiful x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I go out on the motorbike and just ride, escape it all.
I get what you mean though OP. recently I just blocked loads of people I quite simply had enough of. Wasnt going anywhere and I got better things to do. Won't miss them.
CBA with it
I used to walk for miles.. Maybe the lighter brighter weather will inspire me soon "
I walk a lot and I know the fresh air and nature do help lift my spirits x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'?
I don’t think it’s just women, OP! My mojo packed its bags and facked orff a few weeks ago and I’m struggling to find it.
Work is beyond shite and I have no one to cuddle. CBA to go to the gym either!
Need something positive to happen and I reckon that’ll help.
I hope you find your positive thing soon.
Hugs "
I think mine stems from work... I had an amazing end of year review which motivated ne for a week |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Retail therapy usually helps, suffused with some elegant Champagne and an ear of a dear friend to listen to your woes and give support.
sounds lovely... But so much effort to get ready, get myself there... Can you send a wardrobe assistant with prechosen outfit and a chauffeur
Maybe I've got lazi-itis
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Míddèrs, I'm going to give you a kick up the derrière-itis! "
It may need two of you.. Its growing at an alarming speed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'?
Just look at my pics
K"
Ohhhh i dooo.. Everyday  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'?
This was me for months and I couldn't put my finger on what had changed. I decided to join a gym and don't know if it's the feel good endorphins, newly found energy or trying something so far out of my comfort zone but it's back! And with a vengeance!
Don't overthink it and it'll come back!
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Oh thats great!! I need to get back to my gym routine.. I miss having a gym buddy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'?
Couple of drinks to loosen up, music blaring in the house that you can sing and dance to, to get you to start feeling more pumped. "
I listen to lots of music |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Make sure your getting enough vitamin d.
I (m) got side swiped by a feeling of not being bothered, fatigue etc that slowly spiralled into depression etc. Was largely attributed to a vitamind d deficiency. "
Oh this is an excellent reminder.. I've stopped taking my iron, B12 +vit D... I'll find them today and restart |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'?
Medication can have an effect on one’s mojo, life stresses, poorly performing partners. I’d recommend looking at various aspects of your life and see if any could be having an impact?"
I can see lots of areaa that could be improved... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The weather plays a big part in your mood and at the moment, it’s battleship grey outside with 100% chance of rain  "
Yeah i think you are right and the weather definitely impacts me... Fingers crossed for some brighter, warmer days soon |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get taking to the right people, be in the right places doing some stuff that I know I enjoy.
There’s a forum social coming up, I’m looking forward to that.
Or, let someone else make you feel sexy…
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Its hard to feel sexy when you feel like a brick |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had this for almost 18 months now and no sign of it letting up.
The loss of 2 family members and the inevitable loss of a third any day now added to personal health issues and concerns over friends health have all taken their toll. "
Ah that is a heavy burden to carry, i can see how that would impact you.
Advice i was once given was to find something that fills your soul with joy, and make time for as much of it as possible, as it will help you to deal with everything else that is draining you whilst you are living/existing through this period
I hope things improve for you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If there's no explainable cause, I'd get your bloods checked for hormone levels, you might need a boost of HRT.
C"
That is a good suggestion.. I think i might change doctors and try that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hugs hopefully it gets better maybe a little time away to reflect can help restore things x
I just had a little mini-fab break and it helped a little
Me also ha ha that must have been during my bake aww hugs emmm maybe some off my pics could restore that but be warrned though eye bleach maybe need there’s bum hole
X i really hope you do find it again beautiful x "
Thanks..... We'll see |
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"Hugs hopefully it gets better maybe a little time away to reflect can help restore things x
I just had a little mini-fab break and it helped a little
Me also ha ha that must have been during my bake aww hugs emmm maybe some off my pics could restore that but be warrned though eye bleach maybe need there’s bum hole
X i really hope you do find it again beautiful x
Thanks..... We'll see "
Your welcome anytime wonderful as you are definitely awesome and it be truely sad to lose you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I go out on the motorbike and just ride, escape it all.
I get what you mean though OP. recently I just blocked loads of people I quite simply had enough of. Wasnt going anywhere and I got better things to do. Won't miss them.
CBA with it
I used to walk for miles.. Maybe the lighter brighter weather will inspire me soon
I walk a lot and I know the fresh air and nature do help lift my spirits x"
Yeah i always feel better... The current difficulty, is motivatng myself to do it |
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'? "
Habits... Get back in the habit or it will become the new habit. Fake it till you make it.
Either that or accept the change. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Long drive with good music always helps, that or I stress clean with music on.
Mrs "
Ooo i stress cleaned yesterday, all the while thinking this needs a really deep clean! |
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'?
Habits... Get back in the habit or it will become the new habit. Fake it till you make it.
Either that or accept the change. "
This is so true... I might book a gyn class.. Then i have to go! |
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"The mojo does sometimes disappear like water down the plughole and everything seems too much like hard work. Are you going to the gym at the moment?
Nope, had some lame assed excuse at Easter and not been back since... Put on loads of weight and now in a downward death spiral ! "
Sorry, managed to post the last one before I'd written the text.
Get another of your Fitness challenges going. That was inspiring.
Think it unlikely you've put on "loads of weight", but the January challenge was good for my fitness and you got a great team spirit with it. |
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"I read the title as ciabatta. Anyway....
I CBA with sex.
I CBA with men.
I'm putting it down to age and the fact I'm just me.
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Do you think it is just temporary though?? I feel like i cba with life.. It did just occur to me that I've been to 4 funerals this year so far.. So this is probably impacting me on reflection along with work |
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"I couldn't shake mine for a year, felt really disconcerted. Tracked back to the roots and realised that a job change was in order. My mojo literally reappeared the day I handed my notice in "
Really! Food for thought.. I looked at my pension last month to see if i might retire in a few years |
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"The mojo does sometimes disappear like water down the plughole and everything seems too much like hard work. Are you going to the gym at the moment?
Nope, had some lame assed excuse at Easter and not been back since... Put on loads of weight and now in a downward death spiral !
Sorry, managed to post the last one before I'd written the text.
Get another of your Fitness challenges going. That was inspiring.
Think it unlikely you've put on "loads of weight", but the January challenge was good for my fitness and you got a great team spirit with it."
They are a lot of fun... But so much work that i struggle to find time to do then myself haha... I am lazy at heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Get another of your Fitness challenges going. That was inspiring.
Think it unlikely you've put on "loads of weight", but the January challenge was good for my fitness and you got a great team spirit with it.
They are a lot of fun... But so much work that i struggle to find time to do then myself haha... I am lazy at heart "
Yes you did put a lot of work into it and it was really appreciated.
Sorry about tge funerals, hope you get some positive experiences this year (I have a number of weddings to attend - the younger generation). |
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Get another of your Fitness challenges going. That was inspiring.
Think it unlikely you've put on "loads of weight", but the January challenge was good for my fitness and you got a great team spirit with it.
They are a lot of fun... But so much work that i struggle to find time to do then myself haha... I am lazy at heart
Yes you did put a lot of work into it and it was really appreciated.
Sorry about tge funerals, hope you get some positive experiences this year (I have a number of weddings to attend - the younger generation)."
Hilarious.. Rub it in man  (I'm Teasing) |
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"I read the title as ciabatta. Anyway....
I CBA with sex.
I CBA with men.
I'm putting it down to age and the fact I'm just me.
Do you think it is just temporary though?? I feel like i cba with life.. It did just occur to me that I've been to 4 funerals this year so far.. So this is probably impacting me on reflection along with work "
Sometimes all the little things add up to one huge black cloud over your life and bring with it the CBA-ness.
I'd hope it was only temporary.
You just need lots of little good things. ( Well, not that little....) |
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Following on from Raven I think it's good to have things to look forward to however little they might be and they motivate you to do them. Meeting with friends. Night away somewhere. A gig or trip to the theatre or to the cinema. Whatever the things are that you enjoy. |
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"I have a severe attack of can't-be-arsed-itis that i cannot shake !
I feel like I've lost my mo-jo and am worried this might be it!
What do you guys do to get it back? Is it harder for women 'of a certain age'?
Is "Daddy" not a cure??
Oh that is always the right answer "
I know you too well!! |
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