I was at a manned supermarket checkout yesterday and there was a lady behind me with a full trolley. Another shopper turned up with only a basket and asked if she could go ahead of her as she only had a few items. The lady agreed even though the self service checkouts were not particularly busy. The lady then ended up moving over to the self service checkouts, which (speculation only) she may not have done if the other shopper had not gone ahead of her. Obviously using those with a full trolley can be difficult and I understand some people dislike them with a passion.
Now I always thought the etiquette was to queue up as normal and wait for someone to offer a queue jump and certainly not to put someone out.
Curious to know what is the general opinion/consensus in this situation and what you do when you finish shopping. |
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If I have a trolley full and approach the checkout at a similar time to someone with a couple of items in a basket I usually tell them to go ahead.
If I’m queuing and someone asks to go ahead of me I decline, no matter how few items they have.
I never use the self service checkout. |
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If someone has a few items I will offer them through
I never expect it though and would wait patiently, I would certainly never ask to be allowed through |
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I mean the self service thing is a game changer isn't it?
The world changes and etiquette changes with it.
Unless you have a reactionary mindset and walk backwards into the future.
Except on reducing chocolate bar sizes to 'help us with a healthy diet'. That can fuck off. |
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"I think asking is acceptable if you're in a hurry. I always offer anyway "
If someone asks I always decline.
They are presuming that their time is of greater value than mine.
I don’t like it, it smacks of being entitled.
If they protest that they are in a hurry I just reply ‘you and me both’.
If it happens that I’m in no particular need to get on I will offer for someone to go ahead.
I am the only person who can evaluate the value of my time on any given day.  |
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I sometimes offer if I am not in a rush. Occasionally it backfires, they then spend ages rummaging for their purse or wallet, or the card gets declined, something doesn't scan and you have you wait for a supervisor..... |
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I always let those with a few items in a basket go before me....once though I had about 5 people all with a few items in a basket, then the dilemma of you can't let one without the others |
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Ignore everyone apart from the checkout person when I go grocery shopping.
If you only have a few items and you’re stupid enough to join behind me instead of going to the self serve you deserve to wait.
I also ignore all those people that seem to think I’ve gone grocery shopping to socialise with them and listen to their stories about their lives lately, I’ll acknowledge with a passing hello and not respond to any attempt to engage.
There’s a very good reason you haven’t seen me in ages… I don’t fucking like you. |
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I personally offer for them to go ahead. If I was the person with the basket, I’d just wait, I wouldn’t expect or ask to go ahead, that’s just rude.
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I will offer someone with just a few items to go ahead ofme if i notice.
I'd never dream of asking someone if i could push in tho - but you know what, if you don't ask you don't get.. And the worst that can happen is that someone says no and you are no worse than when you started |
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Similar thing happened to me yesterday, I was unloading my trolley and then a couple started lurking behind with a few items. The self service was free and they were going so I didnt offer them to go ahead. One of the staff did direct them there though.
My point, every situation is different. |
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"Similar thing happened to me yesterday, I was unloading my trolley and then a couple started lurking behind with a few items. The self service was free and they were *young* so I didnt offer them to go ahead. One of the staff did direct them there though.
My point, every situation is different. "
*Young not going |
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"Nah there's a queue for a reason, no matter how many items someone has. Sorry not sorry  "
With you on this. No amount of subtle hints is gonna change it |
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I have never had someone ask and I would find it rude them asking but I always offer to let someone go ahead of me if they have a basket and I have a trolley |
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I only ever have a few items when shopping at a time, too disorganised for more. Never asked to go first but equally can only think of one occasion when someone offered. That when I was heavily pregnant and I remember being very taken aback. |
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