So having read the recent threads "are men better at giving blow jobs than women" and "can women give a good hand job" has prompted me to ask, if your partner wasn't happy with your technique in bed would you want them to tell you and if so how?
Are men more likely to take this badly or are women more likely? |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
Ilkeston |
It all depends again (sorry to be that person) for me i like to get to know someone before anything develops so i would think that it shouldnt be too big of a issue as we are on the same page.
Never had a issue before with either men or women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Considering how many women reckon they're the best at blow jobs as this what they've been told, I've come to the conclusion men are scared to tell the truth.
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I always ask people to show me how they like being touched, as well as trying to read body language.
I'm quite verbal in bed (and everywhere else) so I will quite happily tell someone how I feel, or ask them to touch me in a certain way. They always seem happy to oblige and seems to help them open up to what they like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I speak with my partner.
I let her know what are my likes .
But if she was say too rough or too gentle?"
Most of the times I’ll show her how it’s done while she is doing a hand job .
While bf I controls the pace and angles by holding her head and speaking to her |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Considering how many women reckon they're the best at blow jobs as this what they've been told, I've come to the conclusion men are scared to tell the truth.
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Men are always telling me that even a really crap bj is better than no bj.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's like anything any criticism has to be constructive and be told in a way that doesn't hurt their feelings etc. I would absolutely want to be told or at least directed with how they wanted something. |
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By *ullyMan
over a year ago
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So having read the recent threads "are men better at giving blow jobs than women" and "can women give a good hand job" has prompted me to ask, if your partner wasn't happy with your technique in bed would you want them to tell you and if so how?
Are men more likely to take this badly or are women more likely?
This totally depends on the partner. For instance if it would really tear the partner up to know they were not "doing very well" at it (maybe a long term partner, husband wife), then I would keep quiet, but if on the other hand the relationship was all about the sex then yes speak up and both tell what what they want and what pleases or not. Men definitely give better head as they know what a guy feels, as for a hand job well that can be good or bad depending on the person but again I would prefer a guy. And only once have I said to a sex partner that it was uncomfortable to the point of making me sore was a girl giving me head while a friend was fucking her and she kept grating my cock with her teeth, a definite no no. But that again dependent on a persons wishes I had a couple of sessions with a guy , good sessions but he wanted me to literally bite as hard as possible on his nipples, he loved it I was miffed and to be honest scared of doing damage or going too far. |
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"Considering how many women reckon they're the best at blow jobs as this what they've been told, I've come to the conclusion men are scared to tell the truth.
Men are always telling me that even a really crap bj is better than no bj. "
Any hole is a goal |
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