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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
Ilkeston |
"He’s a good sort, always there for a chat and a pint.
The value of friends is immeasurable I’d much rather be somebody’s friend than shag them.
But can you combine the two.  "
I feel you can but its not for everyone. As long as theres good communication and boundaries then why cant it  |
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"He’s a good sort, always there for a chat and a pint.
The value of friends is immeasurable I’d much rather be somebody’s friend than shag them.
But can you combine the two. "
I should say this is talking about just male mates getting at it but friends in general. |
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By *ullyMan
over a year ago
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A friend with benefits, yes. I had a lovely 23 year relationship with a guy, ( alas killed in a R T A ) we were good friends helping each other out and always being a reliable shoulder, but when the urge came upon us we had really good sex, full on. I miss him, but do realise the likelihood of a new F W B is
is scarce.  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Sure it's possible long as both understand it's not leading anywhere else. It's just that type of chemistry some people have whereas you have feeling for them but not in a way for a relationship but happy to enjoy everything else like it was with no attachment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He’s a good sort, always there for a chat and a pint.
The value of friends is immeasurable I’d much rather be somebody’s friend than shag them.
But can you combine the two. "
No |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God damm thought this was going to be one off these me and my mate are sat here horny threads
Was about to say on way the two off you can spit roast me and take turns each all night then pap me in a taxi once’s finshed useing me
Ha ha yes I am back |
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"God damm thought this was going to be one off these me and my mate are sat here horny threads
Was about to say on way the two off you can spit roast me and take turns each all night then pap me in a taxi once’s finshed useing me
Ha ha yes I am back "
I think we can do that though.
Welcome back x |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"You can combine the two. My best friend is Mr N
That’s brilliant.
It's true of most long term relationships I should think of an I being ridiculously optimistic not to say naive?"
Most happy long term relationships |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God damm thought this was going to be one off these me and my mate are sat here horny threads
Was about to say on way the two off you can spit roast me and take turns each all night then pap me in a taxi once’s finshed useing me
Ha ha yes I am back
I think we can do that though.
Welcome back x"
Perfect deal and thanks x |
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"He’s a good sort, always there for a chat and a pint.
The value of friends is immeasurable I’d much rather be somebody’s friend than shag them.
But can you combine the two.
Absolutely yes imo  "
Fancy a shag? |
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"God damm thought this was going to be one off these me and my mate are sat here horny threads
Was about to say on way the two off you can spit roast me and take turns each all night then pap me in a taxi once’s finshed useing me
Ha ha yes I am back
I think we can do that though.
Welcome back x
Perfect deal and thanks x"
Don't you need to ask who the mate is first Natalie  |
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Yes I only have sex with friends or more intimate relationships.
Sex can change things but good communication can usually deal with that.
Even so, I have a couple of friendships I value that much: I wouldn't risk ruining them. |
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"You can combine the two. My best friend is Mr N
That’s brilliant.
It's true of most long term relationships I should think of an I being ridiculously optimistic not to say naive?"
Nope absolutely not , P is also my best friend
Em x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"God damm thought this was going to be one off these me and my mate are sat here horny threads
Was about to say on way the two off you can spit roast me and take turns each all night then pap me in a taxi once’s finshed useing me
Ha ha yes I am back
I think we can do that though.
Welcome back x
Perfect deal and thanks x
Don't you need to ask who the mate is first Natalie "
Maybe maybe not but it is just mindless fun after all
So not really matter they use me I use them win win |
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"He’s a good sort, always there for a chat and a pint.
The value of friends is immeasurable I’d much rather be somebody’s friend than shag them.
But can you combine the two.
Absolutely yes imo
Fancy a shag? "
As its you  |
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I think there's a difference between couples that are in a romantic relationship and who are best friends and other friends who end up having sex.
I think it is possible to introduce sex to the friends dynamic, but as already been said, clear communication is needed. The risk is that one party develops romantic feelings and if communication is not clear they could get hurt. |
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